I have been with my husband for about 20 years. He is a good man. But the last couple of years he has turned into a work a holic. And forgets birthdays and anniversaries. I have told him that it really hurts me when he can not even remember to give me a card. This last Christmas he asked me what I wanted, I gave him 3 ideas. When we had Christmas with our kids and grandkids on Christmas eve, I felt really hurt he didn't even buy me a card let alone a gift. I always go out of my way to make every holiday special for the family, and I throw him a birthday party every year, He has never thrown me one even though I have hinted at it several times. I know it migh sound petty, But I still feel very hurt inside that he did not buy me a Christmas gift, He said that he never knows what to buy and if I will like it. But I told him 3 things that I really wanted. What should I do? I just can not seem to let go of being angry with him. I need advice please!
2007-01-22
18:45:35
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