I do not know what to do cause i do love him sincerely, and he used to say that he loves me, but i told him something very personal (about my past, that i was abused) and he told me never to contact him again. So we never did.
He never wished me on my birthday, but i still think of him, and sometimes, I just wanna let him know
but i dont know whats going on, and i do not know what to say....
if we do or did love eachother..... whatsgoing on?
2007-01-22 18:52:12 · 10 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he was an asshole and dumped you over something like that, YOU ARE BETTER OFF WITH OUT HIM! I don't think he ever loved you, because if he had, instead of pushing you away after telling him such things, he would have consoled you and loved you more. The best thing I think you could do is move on. Find some one or something else to fill your mind. I know it hurts love.
2007-01-22 18:56:45 · answer #1 · answered by peoplerstrange62 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If for that reason he stopped caring for you then he did not love you enough?
You could contact him and ask straight why and if that is the main reason for it but it seems he is not the right person for you.
Being abused can caused us to have low self esteem and we get attached to those who had given us a bit of more love or attention than the people we had closer in our lives.
Write a letter to yourself about it; what will you tell him if you had him in front of you; do not send it; let some days pass by; and read it again; you will see how it changes things in your mind.
Someone better will come along and just do not share so much with them; you really don't have to.
2007-01-22 19:04:19 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi I read what u wrote and I dont want to say anything to hurt u but if he really loved u he should except something that happened in ur past. I feel that sometimes its just best to move on and just look back on that memories in the past. i wish u good luck and happiness on whatever u decide.
take care
2007-01-22 18:59:44 · answer #3 · answered by justice4heather 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes Men with drawl when they find out something horrific like abuse. I think it is because they couldn't protect you, nor can they change what happened. It kills them on the inside to know such bad things happened.
the flip side is that he may have a secret from you..maybe abuse he received or abuse he gave or thought of giving...maybe he isn't right for you.
The bottom line is that he didn't stand by your side when you opened up to him and that is not cool.
Start healing yourself and move on.
2007-01-22 18:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by aprildin 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, i m experiencing the same thing u going through once. The point is he doesnt bothers so means that he doesnt care a damn. Dont dwell over him as he's not worth remembering.
Its just the memories that is holding u back. Move on with your life. =)
2007-01-22 19:01:13 · answer #5 · answered by Crystalbelle 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look, you broke up for a reason, it is done and trying to change it will just create awkward situations, so wondering about what happened between you two is a pointless waste of time. i say that life gos on and that you should move on with your life.
2007-01-22 18:56:47 · answer #6 · answered by Jon 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you very possibly loved him. thats why you trusted him with your very deepest secrets. he was not man enough to deal with that. you should find a real man. everyone think of their ex every so often. im sure he still thinks of you. him splitting was an excuse. there is nothing wrong with you. but there is with him. find someone new.
2007-01-22 18:59:04 · answer #7 · answered by ed c 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a baby who doesn't know his own mind. Forget him as he sounds like a fair weather lover.
2007-01-22 18:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by Imogen Sue 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is simple. He has moved on and you haven't.
You are expecting some thing from him that he can't or won't give you.
Please move on
2007-01-22 18:57:40 · answer #9 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish you would call
2007-01-22 18:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋