Ive been in love with this guy for 4 years..we went out for 2years and he cheated on me..We broke up and in a year n half he came bak tellinn me that it was a mistake n he regrets it and that we should be together...I was so in love with him even after he broke up with me that i wanted him back NO MATTER what... we got back together,after a few months he started acting all neglectful again... SO i told him that its better for us to be friends..He had no objection in breaking up so i knew that something was up again!I GAVE him every lil happiness that he asked for... i hear that when u hold on to something too tight they always go away...n it happened..n now i think he got back to the girl he cheated on me with.. I got really upset and ' AS A FRIEND' i told him wat was up!he got VERY ANNOYED!HE was really rude 2 me which made me realise that he was scared that i found out so he reacted in a bad way..U could tell he was guilty and All i wana do is make him feel that HES SUCH A HYPOCRITE
2007-01-22 18:32:59 · 11 answers · asked by tj_mav 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Aggravating the situation will just make things worse, forget about him and get on with your life. "An eye for an eye and the whole world goes blind"- Mahatma Ghandi
2007-01-22 18:38:21 · answer #1 · answered by Jon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first u need to move on any guy that cheats is no good. next, (this is optional) just explain to him calmly that u cant believe he would give up your love for a girl who might not even care about him soon. also tell him that 4 years and no warning but dont worry everything ends up balancing itself out
2007-01-22 18:41:14 · answer #2 · answered by theone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure you want him to feel guilty... or just feel your pain? relationships are much like wet soap, especially brittle relationships. when you try to grap hold of wet soap what happens, it slips out of your hand. but if you hold your hand flat and set the soap on it, it stays. my point is, act like you dont want him and that you dont care. he might see what he saw before, but there is no way to make him feel guilty, he will most likely be satisfied that he got the best of you. you also need to be careful of him spreading that 'psycho' rumor about you. if you show everyone how you feel now. what are the chanced of you dating within that same circle of friends in the future.
2007-01-22 18:46:01 · answer #3 · answered by ed c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha he's a stupid immature boy.
Don't talk to him, don't talk to him, DON'T TALK TO HIM!
And if you are a woman, you should be able to NOT talk about him, let him screw up his own life.
Okay, now, if I were him, this is what I would think(eugh, the mind of stupid stupid little boys!):
Haha, I don't care what you do, you're disposable. Oh, you're ignoring me now? Sounds like a challenge. Let's see if I can get her back again, itt'l be frikkin' sweet if I can still hit that.
2007-01-22 18:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Joshua 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will tell you the way to get him back: Dont talk to him at all and find someone else. That is the hardest medicine to swallow. It may sound sick, but people take pleasure in knowing the fact that you are hurting and would take them back at any moment. The guy is a jerk, and I know it hurts like hell, but swallow it up and move on. That will show him!
2007-01-22 18:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by michael p 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You've put up with this crap for how many years? Move on girl. Forget about him. The best revenge is to live well.
2007-01-22 18:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to go on playing this game? You'll be doing yourself a favor if you just leave it alone and get on with your life.
2007-01-22 18:40:55 · answer #7 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
On a level of a relationship this guy is bad news and would suck you dry. I would avoid him at all costs, move on and make him your past ASAP.
2007-01-22 18:40:47 · answer #8 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him. He sounds like a dummy. Find another guy. Doesn't sound like he appreciates you.
2007-01-22 18:37:21 · answer #9 · answered by Ian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
success is the best revenge. people cant stand it when your happy. Especially ex-lovers who thought they were too good for you.
2007-01-22 19:20:22 · answer #10 · answered by bigpumpdaddy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋