she talks about my past and all we do is fight.
2007-01-22 18:20:55 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her to quit because it's causing you two to fight. Nobody likes to fight and if she refuses to drop it or forgive you for whatever it was in your past that she doesn't like then break up with her and find someone that won't repeatedly draw you into fights with them.
2007-01-22 18:26:55 · answer #1 · answered by Frank Edwards 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! there, Just tell her. U are the one I being with now, had feeling with. I want to be with the gal I love now. Ppl do have their own past. I do too, but I wish to move on, to be better with someone I really love. That is you!
Let stop the fight we had in the past. Let get to understand and love each other more day by day.
Take Care!
2007-01-22 18:29:05 · answer #2 · answered by Phoebe C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something that bothers her a lot about your past. Either the person you've been with, or the way you have been with your ex! there must be something that she is upset, and she is insecure about you and your past girls you have been with! If you dont address that then these fights will not get away, they will get more. You need to make her understand that she is the only one you love now and thats it! there is NO one else! ( if this is true in your case)
2007-01-22 18:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by Scorpio Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find someone that is willing to put the past in the past and if you are fighting all the time then you are probably not good for each other
2007-01-22 18:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by melthule 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your girlfriend why she keeps on digging up your past.Then let her connect it with what you did recently to justify whether it is your fault (maybe on how you acted,same situation same reaction) that's why she keeps on bringing up the past(maybe because of a promise that you did not keep)....then you'll know....BUT if she can't correlate it to your recent actions then maybe she is just recuperating from the past.tell her you know that she needs time to forget the best but then you just have to be honest with her that it's putting a strain in your relationship and that you are waiting hoping to see you amidst your past for what is essential is not the past but the present since that's how relationship works.
2007-01-22 18:31:47 · answer #5 · answered by mljyc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you should do is stop telling her about your past. Now...tell her to stop bringing up the past and that she is with you now and that's all that matters. Oh, now tell her that you don't like thinking about that past and if she brings it up again you're done.
2007-01-22 18:26:53 · answer #6 · answered by txdude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably insecure or upset about something in your past. Talk it out with her the next time she brings it up and try to resolve it once and for all. Get a promise out of her not to bring it up again and see how it goes.
2007-01-22 18:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by rene 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well a few easy answers. 1) Dump her! 2) Sully her a lil by setting her up to mess around with a friend of yours she doesn't know-catch her then agree that she never brings up your past and you never mention her screw up. 3) the ole couples counseling. Good luck!
2007-01-22 18:26:15 · answer #8 · answered by D4gotten1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What about your pasts that she like to bring up and lead to a fight?
Just ask her what she want about you, and deicide will you able to fulfill your need. If not, there are more lady out there for you.
Move on.
2007-01-22 18:27:00 · answer #9 · answered by David Fhu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her that in order to make it work now, you have to think now. Tell her that if you guys are fighting all of the time, it will never work, and that you will leave. You are willing to think about the future and make things happy while she dwells on the past. Don't take it, and if she continues after that you have to go.
2007-01-22 18:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by michael p 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋