Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

In the current situation, my friend "John" who used to work with me, ended up in the same place as my crush "Jane" and you saw the instant spark and before the end of the night, they were practically in bed. I know it shouldn't be a big deal, I should be happy for them, etc. And really I am, except that this has happened before (twice in highschool and once in Job Corp).

Eventually after this happens I become friens with both of them, and it's not a big deal, but I'm starting to think that there's something wrong with me. Do Beautiful People hang out with me to make themselve's look better? Does it work so well that their own standards are lowered and they hook up with someone they normally wouldn't? Or maybe, the girls that I have crushes on like me as a person but not my looks? So when they meet my friends who are similar to me but better looking they jump at the best of both worlds?

Or maybe I'm being paranoid, but this problem seems fairly unique.

Thanks :)

2007-01-18 09:58:56 · 2 answers · asked by Jason F 2 in Singles & Dating

I just started having lunch with my boyfriend at school. We're so used to doing our own thing its really tough. I like to go to the library and study, he likes to eat and hang with friends. i HATE his friends and i cant stand them. I dont know what to do! should we just hang with each other or should i just put up with his friends and be with them? Dont mention my girl friends.. big blow out with them so right now.. i'm friendless!! well..not friendless but with out GOOD friends.

2007-01-18 09:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband has premature-ejaculation problem if not wearing condoms because of a prostatitis condition. Everytime he ejaculates in one or two minutes and sometimes he even does not know he's ejaculated or not. He seems very upset about this. But I never show any unsatisfaction although I have not had any so-called orgasm since 7 years ago when we were married. But he's still looking at porn. I dont' understand why he would still turn to other nasty ugly whores on the internet in the meantime he is not able to sexually satisfy his own woman.

2007-01-18 09:58:02 · 15 answers · asked by dancingsnow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we met through our bffs who are engaged, fell in love, got engaged, but in august when i had to leave for school (i was going to visit him as i had done in the past) he got into drougs, sold his cell phone, left state, and we didnt hear from him since late august, and then, out of nowhere, he goes to visit my best friend and his best friend (who live together) just to say hello. he asked if they had heard from me and they told him that i was just over 2 days before and we talk everyday. end of story when it came to me. he didnt leave a # or ask for mine, or anything... he just didnt want to see me or something i dunno. but id like to see him and talk to him because i still love him, but why do i bother if he doesnt seem to still love me?

2007-01-18 09:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by penny_4_my_thoughts 1 in Singles & Dating

Well me and this one guy started to date but one day we split. I have no clue niether did he. Know he is dating my bf. I am not mad at her. BUt one day he called me and told me how he felt. But then he said so what do you half to say and he was counting til i said it but i didn't. But i want to call him really bad. But i don't know if i should. See i have ignored him at school and stuff. But i have no cle why. I am like really confused. But any way i like him but when i see him it is like i don't like him. I am like so so so so so so so so confused. So what should i do.
P.S. What do you think would be a really good outfit to wear that would be like tottally hot. LOL
Jen

2007-01-18 09:57:35 · 14 answers · asked by **[[Jen]]** 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 09:57:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My neighbor gave me her dog then told her kids I took it.?
The neighbor got tired of her dog and gave it to me. The next day the little girl said " Mom the lady next door has our dog."
Mom said " Well she must have stolen it. Shes a nice lady, She must love our dog. Why don't we let her keep it."
I don't want to make the Mom look bad to her daughter , But I also don't want the girl to think I stole her dog.
I am thinking of giving the dog back even though the parents don't want it.
What do I say to the girl if she asks?

2007-01-18 09:57:13 · 6 answers · asked by lissamarfin 3 in Friends

nearly got the venue. nearly got the reception. know numbers. almost got the dress. need a check list! PLEASE HELP.

2007-01-18 09:54:39 · 22 answers · asked by borodottie 1 in Weddings

it is strongly suggest by history that the womans desire for stability to raise children is the basis for society - so what's going wrong today ?

2007-01-18 09:54:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok - so lets say you're an average joe - non-stalker guy, but you're bored at work and surfing around Myspace. Well, you stumble upon the profile of a girl that actually looks interesting. She looks attractive and her profile is not just the same ol' BS.

So - Here you are in a predicament. You want to reach out to this girl and start talking to her, but you don't want her to think you're some weird myspace stalker.

Ladies - whats the least creepy - most appealing way for a guy to break the myspace ice with a girl he wants to start talking to?

2007-01-18 09:54:16 · 1 answers · asked by SlickNick 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't feel like going to it. because I don't have a boyfriends so I feel kind of retarded during slow-dance songs. All my friends have bf's except me and one another friend who recently had one but they broke up? What do you think. My friends want me to go. There is no one I like. Well there are some guys I kinda like but they have gf's.

2007-01-18 09:54:04 · 9 answers · asked by heyitspreeti 5 in Singles & Dating

are there any other ways to increase your penis size apart from pills. and do u think wanking off helps u last longer and become better at sex?

2007-01-18 09:53:58 · 7 answers · asked by junior 1 in Singles & Dating

OK, long story short: my boyfriend broke up w/me because of my mom who didnt want me dating. He got together with this other girl who's on the other side of the country. Recently, my mom said I can date now. I happen to be completely in love with my ex, who is apparentally in love with his new girlfriend, but it's possible he still has feelings for me, I have no clue, since he's still one of my best friends. Do I tell him how I feel, or keep my feelings a secret? Oh, and we broke up a little less than a month ago, and my feelings have just goten stronger. What do I do?

2007-01-18 09:53:33 · 15 answers · asked by cowgirl91 3 in Singles & Dating

After I get married, how long do I have to change my documents (driver's license, work/school papers, bank accounts, social security card...etc.) from my maiden name to my married name? Do I have to change them at all? Would this create an issue later if I don't do it ASAP?

2007-01-18 09:52:51 · 13 answers · asked by questionasker 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 09:52:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she's 15.. any suggestions?? the hair's not at it's best moment lol..i know that.. thanks!
http://i12.tinypic.com/2e67nfm.jpg...

2007-01-18 09:51:57 · 35 answers · asked by beach blondie xox 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I split up about six months ago. During our separation process, I found out that I was pregnant with our second child. He showed little interest during the pregnancy during which I met somebody else. Both men were present for the birth of my daughter but while my fiancé was trying to get me through it, my ex was acting impatient and pouty in a corner. He visited twice for very short periods of time while we were in the hospital and has only seen her a couple of times since then. He won't hold her unless asked directly and has yet to be alone with her. He is a wonderful father to our other little girl but is completely ignoring the existence of the second. I don't know what to do.

2007-01-18 09:51:45 · 11 answers · asked by DreamGirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm getting married!! AND i dont know what i need plz help what all do i need??? Tell me everything plz!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-18 09:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am a judge in this one thing, and so i have to read off questions, but i keep studdering every time i read them off. how do i stop?
(by tomarrow, because i have another thing)

2007-01-18 09:51:39 · 3 answers · asked by GoGetEmTiger 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like this really cute girl in one of my classes but, i have another girl that I'v known for 6 years and i like her too, what should I do

2007-01-18 09:50:37 · 15 answers · asked by ryan b 1 in Singles & Dating

hi. i currently live with my boyfriend and i am having a hardtime dealing with his subscriptions to suicidegirls and fatalbeauty.com. i understand that a lot of guys are into porn and what not.. but to me its different when you are paying for the website to compliment these women and interact with them.. its not like you interact with jenna jameson when you download pictures or watch her "films." he says that i am insecure and jealous and that i am in need of professional help to deal with my issues. i feel like im being emotionally cheated on.. he says i should trust him but i dont feel like i can, especially when i see what he is saying to these women. (mind you, i can barely get the time of day but thats another topic...) please help. thank you.

2007-01-18 09:50:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Because of the stuff you heard of them , I'm going to meet my boyfriend's parent's for the first time, and I heard that they are the pepole , that they judge pepole, about everything and they are strict pepole , any advice.

2007-01-18 09:50:14 · 17 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 09:50:07 · 14 answers · asked by [tha kid] 4 in Singles & Dating

i am gay and i thin if i tell any1 they will totaly treat me like i am not a real person so do u think i should tell some1?

2007-01-18 09:49:39 · 21 answers · asked by nyperson123456789 1 in Singles & Dating

...I am hungry for some pie. What do you think of first?

2007-01-18 09:48:42 · 9 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing my own divorce and we both agreed on joint custody. I am trying to find how to put it in legal terms for a texas divorce. Anybody with joint custody with minor children please respond? Everything helps.

2007-01-18 09:48:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i thought this guy i liked liked me but lately im starting to have doubts. He still says hi in school but he always used to IM and he hasn't two times so far. Am i looking too much into this or does he not like me?

help please

2007-01-18 09:47:50 · 1 answers · asked by val 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing this guy for more than 6 months. He is leaving in April. He told me that he is afraid of me, he is afraid of falling in love with me if I will continue seeing him. He said that he is mad at the world and he dont trust people and he only trust his brother. I dont know what to do. Do I still need to call me or talk to him or see him or just let him go?

2007-01-18 09:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by jennie 1 in Singles & Dating

i was wondering, are there people out there 18 and above in relationships for at least 6 months that are not engaged in sexual activity and are waiting for marriage?

2007-01-18 09:47:23 · 7 answers · asked by lila 3 in Singles & Dating

I mean some times I dont even try and women just flock to me. I dont know what to do... I give some to my boys cause you know I am a nice guy but have you ever had so many numbers that you didnt know what to do with them?? well its I could say its good practice but man I can a girl in my sleep.. Sometimes I feel like Tom Brady you know always winning, I guess I just keep going with it

2007-01-18 09:47:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating