I'm seeing this guy for more than 6 months. He is leaving in April. He told me that he is afraid of me, he is afraid of falling in love with me if I will continue seeing him. He said that he is mad at the world and he dont trust people and he only trust his brother. I dont know what to do. Do I still need to call me or talk to him or see him or just let him go?
2007-01-18 09:47:36 · 16 answers · asked by jennie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he said that not only sex he wants from me but more than that. He is already emotionally attached to me. If I will continue with him he will be more attached to me.
2007-01-18 09:55:57 · update #1
I think he's trying to let you down as nicely as he knows how. He is afraid of your emotional attachment to him not the other way around. Give him room to part as friends.
2007-01-26 09:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by gugenheim84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should ask yourself what your interest are in ail of this. If he is leaving in April he will not be able to be your boyfriend anymore and long distance relation ships are very difficult to maintain. You don't have to let him go. See how the situation is in a few days to a week and you'll know what to do.
2007-01-18 17:52:55 · answer #2 · answered by Roger89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months isn't that long really, you may really like him, but it is probably best to let him go, he sounds like he has some wierd issues he should deal with first before he even involes you or anyone else in his life right now. Plus the long distance thing can be pretty hard on a serious relationship
2007-01-18 17:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by Em C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a romantic future in it. He's leaving soon, he's told you that he's emotionally unavailable, and it sounds like he has a lot going on. You might want to make yourself available as a friend, but where do you see this relationship going, realistically?
2007-01-18 17:51:22 · answer #4 · answered by Mistress_Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is he leaving to? Personally if he's telling you he's afraid of falling in love with you, then you need to ask him why he's afraid. Could it be he's seeing someone else where he's heading off to and he's just trying to be nice to you?
You've got a right to ask questions...ASK THEM!!!
2007-01-18 17:52:01 · answer #5 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go, he's got too much baggage. You don't want to do that to yourself sweetie.
Find someone who's not afraid to fall for you. He's out there, believe me.
2007-01-18 17:55:34 · answer #6 · answered by Miz D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just scared because he did really like you. Leaving is the hardest thing for him to do. Keep in touch maybe it won't take him long to adjust to is situation.
2007-01-18 17:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by KBLandhome23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...
This guy is full of crapola.
The wishy-washy things he is saying don't matter...it's what you can read between the lines that's screaming he's USING you.
Time to pull the plug and move on.
2007-01-26 17:41:26 · answer #8 · answered by Barbi T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't trust anybody but his brother than you need to let him go. You don't need him if he cant trust you.
2007-01-18 17:51:07 · answer #9 · answered by Treyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to fall for someone and then have them leave your life, it hurts too bad.
2007-01-26 17:09:46 · answer #10 · answered by hotmama 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋