OK, long story short: my boyfriend broke up w/me because of my mom who didnt want me dating. He got together with this other girl who's on the other side of the country. Recently, my mom said I can date now. I happen to be completely in love with my ex, who is apparentally in love with his new girlfriend, but it's possible he still has feelings for me, I have no clue, since he's still one of my best friends. Do I tell him how I feel, or keep my feelings a secret? Oh, and we broke up a little less than a month ago, and my feelings have just goten stronger. What do I do?
2007-01-18 09:53:33 · 15 answers · asked by cowgirl91 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This girl was his girlfriend in another state he used ot live in that he goes to visit...a few times a year.
2007-01-18 09:59:53 · update #1
Depends how old you are. Chances of his relationship lasting with a girl on the other side of the country are pretty slim. You only broke up a month a go, so how strong could his feelings be!
Be his friend, flirt lots, let him know that you are allowed to date now, if the opportunity arises maybe go on a date, and then tell him it just wasn't like when you and him were together, then quickly appologise saying you realise that he now has a girlfriend. Let him know you don't need him, but hint you miss him.
Dirty tricks I know, but you are young, you have strong feelings, and all is fair in love.
2007-01-18 10:02:06 · answer #1 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should tell him because love is a special thing and you never no he might feel the same about you and you will never no if he loves you back unless you tell him. DON'T let love slip by cause life is empty with out it. Good luck hope it goes your way x
2007-01-18 18:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by mez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a tough one. It really depends on how your relationship is now. Is he at all flirting w/you or giving you any reason to think he wants to break up w/ his girl? Girls have this natural tendency to analyze everything a guy say to us. We turn a simple sentence such as "see you later" into " I love you and want to date you" guys say what they really mean. So ask him if there is a chance and then take his answer as it is.
2007-01-18 18:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Charly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the only reason why he didn't want to be with you is because your mom didn't want you to date, then of course he would want you. If you were him would you want to be with a girl all the way across the country, or right there?
2007-01-18 18:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go....
If he still cared about you he would be with you... and if he did break up with you because of your mom..(might of just been an excuse) then have fun with your friends your feelings will go away just dont talk or have anything to do with him for a while
2007-01-18 17:58:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, don't hold back, and forget his new girl. He can't be serious about agirl living across the country, and you are there.
Good Luck!
2007-01-18 17:57:25 · answer #6 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go get 'em girl. A month your definitly still in the loop.
2007-01-18 17:57:13 · answer #7 · answered by Ailyx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The longer you hold it in, the stronger it will get.Let him know and see.You will never know untill you ask. Everyone falls in love. theres good choices and bad. make the right one. Fallow your heart.
2007-01-18 18:02:23 · answer #8 · answered by brittany t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it isn't easy but if he is in love with another girl then You should let go.
2007-01-18 18:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him know the change in your situation and let him come after you if he's still interested. Don't go after him.
2007-01-18 18:01:00 · answer #10 · answered by as_myself 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋