Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

ok so mayb i hav an abusive boifriend i really like him but he cheated on me so i tried to get him bak ma friend gave out ma fone number to this boi i like n he thought we were goin out oit kinda sliped to him n well he tackled me and he almost killed me cuz i couldnt bretah 4 bout 30 seconds not jk iono if i should stay wit him or just let him go and go out wit another guy

wat should i do??

2007-01-18 10:09:38 · 32 answers · asked by lAdY ClUMSY 1 in Singles & Dating

You have to consider like mother, like daughter. She may end up looking like her mother.

2007-01-18 10:09:35 · 22 answers · asked by Peter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dont you hate when your gf dumps you by seeing one guy for 2 seconds or more.

2007-01-18 10:09:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is the best thing your best friend has ever done for you?? how has she made you feel so special?? what is your best friend like??

2007-01-18 10:08:44 · 4 answers · asked by someone 2 in Friends

Been dating 9 months, been great. He gave 3 reasons for breaking up: (1) Love. he loves me, therefore he wants to break up with me. Basically, he feels unworthy of me so bad about continuing to date me, and would break up as an act of love. (2) Time. He wants us to spend time doing other things, and grow while apart. (3) Timing. He wants us to break up while "our relations are still beautiful"/before we start disliking each other (Something I doubt will ever need to happen). I know he is being sincere, he insists that those are his reasons. From the beginning he has shown signs of being insecure about himself. He started dating me by saying "I Don't feel proportionate/worthy of you, but I want to date you." I already told him his reasons don't make any sense. He wrote back "The reasons for thinking lets break up are what I said just before. I am honestly so absolutely grateful to you. I think it is better if we break up." What should I do to stay together? He is truthful

2007-01-18 10:08:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to get married to my partner but i need to know how old do you have to be to be considered an adullt like in the law

2007-01-18 10:08:36 · 11 answers · asked by wonettalovesjacory 1 in Weddings

ok. first off, i made a mistake on my part because i just got out of a relationship with my bf of about a year. I still miss him. To get to the point, i found out only a week after we broke up, he already started dating girls and being on online dating systems.
My family and friends convinced me to join match.com. I never did that before, meeting a guy online. I spoke with the guy on the phone for 2 hours, then the next day i met him in person. He wasn't really my type, i don't mean to judge on a first date, but he really wasn't asking me anything and i had to keep the conversation flowing,
i feel bad as he did pay for my drink, but i really didn't like him, i know he is looking for more than a friendship and i don't wanna waste this guys time either...i ended up deleted him from my myspace and he did ask for this weekend , but i just sent him a general message saying i was busy....
have any of you ladies done this? guys feel free for opinions....

2007-01-18 10:08:23 · 1 answers · asked by hersheybar99 1 in Singles & Dating

It's only $5 dollars a month, and I'd pay for it myself. my brother's 17 and still does not have it, so it's not an issue with my age (I'm almost 16). All of my friends text, and I feel left out. I really think that it would be easier. I need some ideas as to why my Dad should let me have texting. I never ask for anything, on Christmas I only get a few little presents. The cell phone was a Christmas/Birthday gift. The issue isn't money, it's just the fact that my dad doesn't see why I need it. Please help :)

2007-01-18 10:08:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ahh ! okay, so my crush gave me his number yesterday ..
i was too scared to call him so i didn`t.
but today, he wasn`t at school! =[
& i think it would be appropiate to call him
& say something like, "hey.. where were you today?"
or somethingg like that. [=
but a few of my friends told me not to call him,
he might think i`m too stalker-ish. =[
which doesn`t make sense.. i mean, afterall.. he did give me his number... doesn`t that mean he wants me to call ?

& what if it`s the reject number !?
eeek. only one way to find out ..i`m scareddd !
help.

2007-01-18 10:08:07 · 21 answers · asked by Taylor. 5 in Singles & Dating

Actually i kinda suspect is a scam cause there are several gurls from this area that be seeming like they say the same stuff I just dont want to do someone wrong that is real you know.

2007-01-18 10:07:13 · 16 answers · asked by Coolbreeze3 2 in Singles & Dating

i just started babysitting a 2 month old girl today and i noticed some neglect. she smelled really bad and we very dirty. she had a horrid diaper rash (i put cream on it). i havnt ever seen anything like it. she ate so much too. it was like she had hardly been fed. she cried all day too like she was scared. i dont know if i should say somthing to her mom or just give the poor baby a bath adn keep feeding her as much as she wants, i can treat the diaper rash easily. but what would you do??

2007-01-18 10:06:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Everytime he sees a granny , he doesn't want to look at them. And says he doesn't like them. We want him to be happy with his great granma and we don't want her to feel bad. By the way he is my nephew. What can we do to let him understand Elderly people are not monsters?

2007-01-18 10:05:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm 18, and I work with this girl(she's 18 too). I've known her since the 6th grade, but I've just started getting feelings for her. I've told her how I've felt and she says that she loves me too. But she still stays with her boyfriend. It sucks because now she won't even talk to me. I've thought upon this night after night. It's been depressing me a little each time I do. I could use some help on this. Her friend told me to just sit back and wait it out and that if we were meant for each other, it'll happen.
Thanks

2007-01-18 10:05:43 · 18 answers · asked by ViperPilot 2 in Singles & Dating

What would YOU do ... if a guy you're crushing on in *high school* doesn't feel the same way about you? How would you feel? Would you move on? Or tell him how you feel? What would you do?

2007-01-18 10:05:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

k so i really need some advice. me n my ex still love each other n i kno he loves me n i see him tryin but i dunno im so uneasy cuz we are friends with benefits but we both love each other n we arent seein other ppl. we still say i love you n we talk n still see each other. we are doin everything like we were wen we were together.he says he is not using me and he really loves me with everything. but he hasnt given me the title yet n this is goin on since july. we both did very wrong things to eacho ther n we are tryin to work things out. but i duno if its such a good idea to still have sex with him n everything. i dont think hes using me cuz i can tell wen i see him he treats me liek a princess but there are so many things to work out. we were each others 1st love n wewent out for 2 yrs. wat do u think bout my situation? any advice will be appreciated. is it ok to stil have sex if we love each other but dont have the title or am i just wasting my time. i love him very much.

2007-01-18 10:04:58 · 2 answers · asked by Fahion_Gal 1 in Singles & Dating

Must be in the vicinity of Peterborough

2007-01-18 10:04:33 · 13 answers · asked by BEVAN R 1 in Singles & Dating

I am just curious. I wear a suit everyday, over boxers, and while reading I noticed the outline of it. I went to adjust my pants, but could see that drawing more attention. Anyway, just curious on what you ladies observe on a daily basis in that regard.

2007-01-18 10:04:24 · 13 answers · asked by Jake S 1 in Singles & Dating

okay well tomarrow i'm gonna be hangin out with my ex and just the other day her best friend told me that she likes me again, and i kinda like her to now. i just need some help on getting with this girl like something to break the ice. so i dont feel weird around her tomarrow. we're both in 9th grade so keep it real and not to romantic...

2007-01-18 10:04:05 · 4 answers · asked by Anthony G 1 in Singles & Dating

fearing of rejection or some other reasons .

also, what makes you think a guy might be gay.

Like guys shy sometimes fear rejection from beautiful ladies. Well I don't but still humble.

2007-01-18 10:03:49 · 1 answers · asked by I'M GONNA GO PLACES 5 in Singles & Dating

She hasn't called me back in over 2 days. Should i not call and wait for her to call me
Tuesday night she said she'd call me back and didn't. Wednesday night I left a message and never got a call. I sent a text message an hour ago today. I haven't heard from her since when she said she'd call back...
I'm 20 she's 19

2007-01-18 10:02:59 · 15 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

im 5'4" and like about 107 lbs and 17. brown hair blue eyes.

2007-01-18 10:02:25 · 4 answers · asked by AbErCrOmBiE 2 in Singles & Dating

will this in any way effect how you precieve him to be?
Other than it being a total junker...

2007-01-18 10:02:11 · 9 answers · asked by Mr. Zuzzshi 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok this has just been bugging me for too long now. I started seeing this woman. In the end it ended up bad( it didn't need to). One of her complaints was that I didn't make a move in the first 5 chances.

She expressed how disturbed she was by this. Yet I got very intimate(sex) with her, about a month after first meeting her. I'll admit at first I was just looking at it as a friend situation, but then started to really like her.

So what is the correct amount of chances men should get to make a move for a kiss or holding hands or something else that just seems to be more intimate?

This isn't the whole story and I also admit that I had been out of the dating world for almost four years. We were both 28 at the time.

Am I wrong? Did I not move fast enough. I would tend to think that sex a month later would say pretty fast.

Siiiiiiiigghhhhh. Help. Help relieve my mind. Thanks.

2007-01-18 10:01:55 · 1 answers · asked by Ben B 3 in Singles & Dating

including my kids but at the same time i can really lose my rag with kids i can be horrible sometimes and i hate myself for it. i luv my kids and they luv me but i cant seem to control my nasty mouth once its opened. i called them rats the other day

2007-01-18 10:01:16 · 7 answers · asked by alroka 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy in my 2nd hour that is always hitting on me (asking me to kiss him, sit on his lap... ect.) and he already has a girlfriend. When her girlfriend foun dout i said that he was hitting on me, she came up to me with her boyfriend (the guy hitting on me) and asked me why i had said that. Then he started to say he never did all those things. Now i have to find a way to show her i am not lying.... please help!!

2007-01-18 10:01:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 10:00:43 · 9 answers · asked by Vizzini 4 in Singles & Dating

What i mean is the only thing i can handle with my boyfriend for now is above the waist nothing below the waist he seems to be very satisfied, but i just wonder how long is he going to be satisfied with this i'm very happy with it, i'm just afraid that will get tired and become very unhappy i really care a lot for him and i wonder is this the right thing to do as for a normal intimacy between a man and women

2007-01-18 10:00:08 · 17 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my ex boyfriend and i broke up over three months ago and I haven't gotten over him yet. We broke up on bad terms and haven't talken that much since then. We have a few differences but I think that if we wanted to we could work them out. I really really like him. So I recently just told him how much I still liked him. He asked me why all the sudden? Also if seems like he is staying in between not giving me any signals as to wether or not he likes me back. Although I have a feeling that he does. I do not want to give up on any hope of us not being able to be together. How should I try to make things work??

2007-01-18 10:00:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay my close cousin is datin this one guy [my neighbor] and i like his brother [also my neighbor]

welp my cousin and her b/f are goin on a date on friday and y cuzz wants me to come with the neighbor i like =D my cousins boyfriend is goin to ask him. he acts like he likes me (seriousily) but he doesnt date alot of girls(hes not gay lol) he's in 10 grade

-------im really nervous about this EVEN THOUGH i tell him i like him all the time!!! he just smiles real big and says it to me soetimes too.

how should i dress if he says yes?
how can i tlak to him baout it after my cousins boyfriend talks to him bout it?
what hsould i do to clam nerves(lol)?
and any other help is appreciated!






-im in 9th grade by the way-
thanks-

2007-01-18 09:59:52 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My parents have never really got along, and now they're getting a divorce. How can i cope with this?

2007-01-18 09:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by soccer love 1 in Marriage & Divorce