ok so mayb i hav an abusive boifriend i really like him but he cheated on me so i tried to get him bak ma friend gave out ma fone number to this boi i like n he thought we were goin out oit kinda sliped to him n well he tackled me and he almost killed me cuz i couldnt bretah 4 bout 30 seconds not jk iono if i should stay wit him or just let him go and go out wit another guy
wat should i do??
2007-01-18 10:09:38 · 32 answers · asked by lAdY ClUMSY 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all i don't know why people get on here to answer questions and instead are totally rude.. if u don't know the answers, don't answer at all
well, my opinion is to leave him!! abuse isn't anything to mess around with, that abuse could lead to your or possibly his death. and plus he cheated!! i say leave him whether u like some one or not.. but its really up to you i know that u cant just talk some one outta a relationship, abusive or not, some people see thru the beatings and just see how much they love the person and will stay with them no matter what!! but i think u should write him off, and for your protection get a restraining order!! hope this helps ya and good luck!!!
2007-01-18 10:38:23 · answer #1 · answered by candyas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy wants to put hands on you and you allow him to, then you need to think about how much self love you have for yourself. Would you hurt yourself or better yet, would you want someone to show you that they love you by hurting you? You should never play the game you did it and now I did it too. When you found out that he cheated on you, that should have helped you decide whether you wanted stay with him or not. I think you should break up with him just for your safety and well-being. Take some time out for you and then decide if you would like to date other people, but only when you're ready.
2007-01-18 10:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by ksfinney17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one he cheated on you, that is when you should've realized what a piece of garbage he will is.
Another thing is he is dangerous, a guy that has a temper like that is DANGEROUS. You need to leave him for what he did to you. If he does it once, he's going to do it again and you could end up losing your life.
It sounds to me like you are pretty young, you need to talk to your parents or another adult that you can trust and this needs to be taken to the authorities.
Domestic violence kills more young women then it does older women, that is something you better think about.
He's not worth it! You deserve better!
2007-01-18 10:14:35 · answer #3 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be by yourself honey. Leave that jerk alone if he's hitting you. You may not be able to come back and ask any more questions if you let his behavior continue! Take some time to work on yourself and build your own self esteem so that you wont have to ask if you deserve to be getting your *** beat ... cuz you don't girl. None of us do. Good Luck!
2007-01-18 10:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by msdrdn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok if you prefer to spend your life wondering IF he's comming home or WHEN you will be hit next, and trust me if he hit you once he WILL hit you again, by all means stay with the creap but if you want to look for someone that will spend their life with you as a partner with respect I suggest you look for someone else or look into your self for peace and contentment because honey as much as they appologize and say they will change they will still do it again!
2007-01-18 10:16:49 · answer #5 · answered by Spindle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off if he's abusive i wouldnt be in the relationship because if he tackled you for just giving your number to another guy just imagine what he could do...hun if i were you i would really get out of the relationship before he does end up killing you because people care about you and they wouldnt want to lose you
2007-01-18 10:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) Go back to school
2) Gain some self respect
3) Dump your boyfriend
4) Use a spell checker
2007-01-18 10:13:22 · answer #7 · answered by Just Some Guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Girl if he treats you like that then get out while you can!!!!! You don't want to be abused by someone u love but who doesn't love u back!
2007-01-18 10:14:49 · answer #8 · answered by Cally 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay in school. Your grammer is pathetic. Hell, I needed a Russian decipher program to try and get an understanding of that garbage.
2007-01-18 10:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
First you need to learn some proper english and secondly...what is so special about this guy that you need to turn yourself inside out to be with him?
2007-01-18 10:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by Serendipity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋