What i mean is the only thing i can handle with my boyfriend for now is above the waist nothing below the waist he seems to be very satisfied, but i just wonder how long is he going to be satisfied with this i'm very happy with it, i'm just afraid that will get tired and become very unhappy i really care a lot for him and i wonder is this the right thing to do as for a normal intimacy between a man and women
2007-01-18 10:00:08 · 17 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't worry about him. Worry about being a young woman with morals and standards. Wait for marriage to get intimate-- you'll have fewer worries if you do.
2007-01-18 10:02:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Intimacy is close contact. That does not mean you have to touch. You could be intimate with someone you are just talking to. That's emotional intimacy and it is much better than the physical stuff... well, most of the time. It is actually best with the physical stuff. Still, if you don't feel ready for it, don't go below the belt. You miss out when these things are rushed.
2007-01-18 10:04:35 · answer #2 · answered by stn1225 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can have an intimate moment speaking with someone, without being physical at all.
You must be talking about physical intimacy. This, too, can have many different meanings. It depends on the person(s) and the moment.
You probably need to focus more on the emotional and spiritual intimacy at this time....what does he like to talk about and do besides sexual things? You know, even if you were to marry him tomorrow, you won't be having sex 24/7 for the rest of your lives.
Sex generally complicates things a lot quicker than necessary.l
2007-01-18 10:10:15 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about normal, just stick to what you're comfortable with. If he wants to go further than you do, just kindly, but firmly tell him that you're not comfortable going further than that. If he persists, tell him that you are not going to be pushed into something you're not ready for. If he is really a decent guy, he'll respect you and wait for you to be ready. Otherwise, you should really consider finding a guy who does respect you. Actually, don't wait for him to "get tired" of above the waist touching. Tell him now exactly what you're okay with and where your limits are. As your boundaries change, let him know. That's the safest and easiest way to keep from getting stuck in an awkward situation.
2007-01-18 10:06:00 · answer #4 · answered by Eowyn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This should be alright.If both understands well and cares for each other this going is good but how far you can go on is the question.If you intend to get married then below the waist is okay.If you are serious about your relationship you should be able to discuss everything with the partner.
2007-01-18 10:08:54 · answer #5 · answered by cupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the choice is yours really, and how you choose to handle it. Don't do anything before you are ready to no matter whether he wants it or not.
You're the one you have to face in the mirror each day and like the person you see looking back. Don't do anything that will cause you to not like that person or feel ashamed or disappointed in them.
What is "normal" is what works for you. You don't have to base your intimacy level on anyone else's.
2007-01-18 10:04:02 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are not married there is no reason you should allow your boyfriend treat you like a prostitute. Remember, there is no reason to buy the cow when the milk is free. The best way to lose him is to give him everything he thinks he wants. If you hold out on him he will perceive that you value yourself and will also value you more. That’s just the plain time tested truth.
2007-01-18 10:05:49 · answer #7 · answered by mikearion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, you hold the key. Remember its really your decision weather or not he sleeps with you. As a man, I'm perfectly satisfied with cuddling, kissing, etc. When its the right time, you'll both know.
If he leaves you, just understand that perhaps this one wasn't meant to be.
2007-01-18 10:05:33 · answer #8 · answered by Phillip 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe it is ok to hug and kiss as long as one person is strong enough to resist the sex urge when it comes up which would probably be the female. I refuse to even get undresssed for a guy. I do not want to share myself with the wrong man.
2016-05-24 04:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, hugging, love making. There is a physical and emotional intimacy.
2007-01-18 10:02:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋