Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

Married 4 yrs. Currently apart. Our love went stale. We decided to start dating again. I know we need time apart to fall back in love. Theres no cheating or anything like that. How do i do this without being to pushy or giving? We both still love each other. I'm in counseling to talk about my issues. I think shes pleased i took that step. I'm doing it for me. I think eventually she'll go to. So what else do i do especially if where on a date?

2007-01-18 10:20:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

romantic or "cool"?

2007-01-18 10:20:28 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had a crush on this girl for many, many months now, and apparently it's going nowhere. She knows I like her, but she doesn't like me as more than a friend. I've tried ignoring her, but she keeps coming back. For example, if I walk past her in the hallway, she'll scream my name, and when I reluctantly turn around, she'll smile and wave. I think she's doing it just because she knows I like her, and it's killing me on the inside. Then again, I still want her to be a part of my life, even if she doesn't like me like I like her. How can I do this, and at the same time get over her?

2007-01-18 10:20:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...feel the need to make complete tw@ts out of themselves in silly outfits etc?

2007-01-18 10:20:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I has a one night stand in october, really liked the guy but clean forgot i had given him my cell phone number. As i knew he has a russian girlfriend that he was meeting for the first time the following week. He contacted me out of the blue about 5 weeks ago by txt. We have spent loads of time together since in fact hardly been apart. I haven't slept with him since meeting up with him again even tho he has tried time and time again when he is drunk. The reason i wont sleep with him is he constantly tells me how much he loves his g/f even tho they have only ever spent 10 days together and it always seems that he rings her in russia not the other way round. Im really confused as he tells me he loves me as his best friend and when we are together or he is drunk he is always telling how lovely i am. Im at a crossroads as i feel that the best thing i can do is break all contact with him before i get hurt. What do you guys think?

2007-01-18 10:19:11 · 15 answers · asked by h 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm getting married September 15th, this year. We've been together for years, but don't live together. I know this is an odd things these days, but it's what we've done. We're to move in together right after we're married, and I don't really want to go on my honeymoon then. I'm more excited about the house and getting it all ready. It's going to be a lot of work, and I think it'll be an awesome way of spending our first week together married. Instead I think we should go on our honeymoon in January when it's FREEZING here in Ottawa, Canada. Well usually freezing :P ... My fiance thinks this is great. It's not that we don't have the money either, our honeymoon is to be a gift from my aunt and uncle to anywhere we want to go. Is this a weird thing though? Would you do it? Have you done it?

2007-01-18 10:19:10 · 15 answers · asked by Kass 3 in Weddings

I've been going out with my boyfriend for about 3 months. we were in the 'ooh your so perfect.i love you." "No your more perfect i love u" stage! now this past week we've been getting on each others nerves. i mean.. we're driving each other nuts! I still love him and he still loves me of course but.. i cant be around him for more then a half an hour without him driving me nuts! I think i drive him nuts too so.. is this just a stage? are we just getting used to each others personallatys and faults? if so what did u do to get through this stage? advice? and no im NOT breaking up with him. I dont hate him.. just SOME of the things he does! lol

2007-01-18 10:18:53 · 11 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and we recently got engaged and moved in together. i am 21 years old and he is 22. he has a great job and i have one more semester at school. any time i tell someone im getting married and im 21, they always say.... it will end in divorce. my question to you is, how many people got married young and are still married and how many people married young and are divorced. i feel age has nothing to do with it and you can be young or older and make a mistake, so why does everoyne tell me 21 is too young to get married when i know what im doing?

2007-01-18 10:18:43 · 25 answers · asked by bar22bie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 10:18:06 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need an answer quick Please if you really know

What month and year was the catastophy in Florida CATRINA (do not know if I am spelling it right)

2007-01-18 10:17:46 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i'm 12 and so are my friends, some are even 11 and a few are 13. They basically all have boyfriends, had a boyfriend, or are on the brink of having one. I'm not even close. I mean really i'm 12!!! come'on on mean, is it natural to not have a boyfriend? cuz where i come from it isn't. I like guys, i'm not weird or anything, i have guy friends, i'm totally in tune with them. some are hot, some are not, some i don't really give a crap about, but how come when i'm such a great person (i sware i'm not bragging) and i have all this going for me then why don't i have one? guys like me, maybe 2 at the moment truly do, but i jsut don't like them. I like guys, i fall for guys a lot, i LUV guys, but i don't want to date yet. I'm not ready. Maybe when i'm 14. So here it is...how old were you when you got ur first bf, kiss, and when u started thinking about guys. tell me i'm not crazy...
PLEEEEZE
lol

2007-01-18 10:17:07 · 7 answers · asked by Sample ID 1 in Singles & Dating

she's 15.. any suggestions?? the hair's not at it's best moment lol..i know that.. thanks!
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2007-01-18 10:16:21 · 19 answers · asked by beach blondie xox 2 in Friends

2007-01-18 10:15:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this girls mom at my school and her mom thinks all these bad things about me and my friend like she thinks are moms are irresponsible and all this other stuff . she also thinks were a bad influence on her daughter ,
so the mom emails all the teachers and tells them to keep there daughter away from me and my friend . so now all the teacher hate me . OMG well there daughter is my friend but i think she tells her mom stuff thats not truee ! SO WATS UPP . NOW . she said watever school i go to shell make sure her daughter doesnt go there this moms crazzy do you thing she had problems as a child HELLP / PLEASEE

2007-01-18 10:14:48 · 19 answers · asked by nina 2 in Friends

Still waiting for that perfect answer!! A gift for my son and his fiancee for their engagement. As they have no house yet it is a problem but I don't want to give them cash, photos but something they will keep forever. Any help please

2007-01-18 10:14:33 · 15 answers · asked by Raceylady 2 in Weddings

2007-01-18 10:13:42 · 13 answers · asked by bebsy80 2 in Family

THIS HAPPENED LAST YEAR BUT
If you make a new gf, and she dumps you for an old bf and when i say old i mean 2 years and she dumps you for him? that doesnt make sense to be at all

2007-01-18 10:13:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My co worker Always walks around with his hands in in pocket , I think he plays pocket pool all day long. He comes down to this girls office and piflers in her desk and takes all her allergey medicine up. He is always going out side to smoke, or always going to wallmart to get some nictoine gum, or says he's out of gas.

2007-01-18 10:12:57 · 2 answers · asked by joe b 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so i told the guy that i like that i like him and at first he said that he wasnt really attracted to me but now he is acting like he is interested in me what should i do

2007-01-18 10:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by stars52006 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like a guy but we both get teased. me bout my last name & him because he just came from korea 2 the US. anybody have any advise??? i would appreciate it!!! o & the reason i woried bout it is because iv nown nearly evry1 guy sence a LONG time ago. i just want 2 kno this so i can have a good thing going but not wit the teasing.... please help!!! girls i no u can help!!! guys 2!!! wut should i do to get the guys to stop?! i hope u can help mee!!! grls & guys!!!! *^^*

2007-01-18 10:12:32 · 2 answers · asked by anime f 1 in Friends

There's this guy that I think that I would like if I got to know him but I don't know how to start a conversation. He's a grade behind me, I'm in 8th grade and he's in 7th, and I don't even know what his name is. He's in two of my classes, gym and health. I see him look at me some. Anyway, I'm kind of shy and want to know a way to start a conversation with him that doesn't sound dorky. If I talk to him it would be in gym. Thanks!

2007-01-18 10:12:02 · 2 answers · asked by shortie 3 in Singles & Dating

I heard some girls talking about how they had a PDA with their guy, but I didn't know what it was. Was it their code or something real?

2007-01-18 10:11:55 · 20 answers · asked by ezzaphill 3 in Singles & Dating

Actually, how many has SHE TOLD YOU ABOUT?

2007-01-18 10:11:10 · 5 answers · asked by Peter 1 in Singles & Dating

do you ever feel like you don't have a clue in the world what you're doing?

2007-01-18 10:11:02 · 10 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think there is no difference. Throw some money at em or get em drunk, woman will turn into chick. In my encounter, I saw some very sophisticated woman turned into chicks when I throw some nice words at em. It's all about how player plays his games.

2007-01-18 10:11:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are attached, leave that bit out!

2007-01-18 10:10:32 · 11 answers · asked by rachealuk 5 in Singles & Dating

Would you marry or have a serious relationship with a man who has a baby with another woman?

2007-01-18 10:10:16 · 9 answers · asked by F 5 in Marriage & Divorce

This lady was my first ladyfriend. She dumped me harshly. She even bragged that she had found another guy and the she liked him because his skin was lighter than mine (me and the other guy are both African-Americans), she told me I was immature, she quit speaking and talking to me, and she even told me she was relieved to be with this other guy. In addition, she even told my mother that she felt she found "the one" which was not me. She is now married with a child. I was hurt when she dumped me so harshly. She was my first love and she dumped me so angrily with no remorse. I am a not a perfect guy but I am good guy. I always cherishted her and treated her respectfully but to no avail. That was the first and last relationship I ever had. I do not want another relationship.

Please feel free to comment.

2007-01-18 10:10:12 · 8 answers · asked by wayne b 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm seeing this guy for more than 6 months he told me that he is afraid of me, afraid of falling in love with me if I will continue with him until April. He is leaving in April. He is getting out in the military. He said he is not only sex that he wants from me , more than that he said. He is emotionally attached to me. and if I will continue with him, he will be more emotionally attached. He said he do'nt trust people he only trust his brother. He said he is mad at the world. He said goodbye and I don't love you.

2007-01-18 10:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by jennie 1 in Singles & Dating

im attractive,but i just cant do the talking ...i wanna pick up a woman..mayb get laid..lol, due to the fact im a virgin..and im 19

2007-01-18 10:10:05 · 3 answers · asked by Aarif Md. 1 in Singles & Dating