Would you marry or have a serious relationship with a man who has a baby with another woman?
2007-01-18 10:10:16 · 9 answers · asked by F 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as he is completely finished with that relationship yes why not.There is nothing wrong with being with someone that has had kid's from a previous relationship.My husband was married once before me and he had two daughter's with his ex wife and I love them like they were my own and now my husband and I also have a daughter together I actually think it is very special to have an extended family.
2007-01-18 10:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, actually I did 5 yrs ago, he had a boy of almost 4 and I had a girl of almost 1.. He was in a process of a divorce when started going out and I was divorce allready !!!! We have had a good relationship the only problem it has being her EX she was the one who cheated on him and after that and taking his son away for him she is still cousing trouble not allowing him to see his son but that's a different problme other that that we have had a goo relationship expecting our 2nd baby ... But problems sometimes and because of EX will be there unless the EX disapear from the planet !!!
2007-01-18 18:49:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would take my time, to see if there's any "baby's mama drama" in the background. The questions that come to mind: How does he treat her? Is he good to his child? What is their relationship? Too distant? Too cozy? You have to consider these things with a man who has a child, rather than a man who is childless. If he has a cordial relationship with her (however, none of the "friends with benefits" craziness!), treats the child well, and loves and respects you, then go for it. If he speaks badly of his child's mother (even if she is a psycho!), does not pay child support or spend time with his child, or is otherwise emotionally not available, those are definite red flags regarding his character. Also, if he has multiple children with multiple mothers, BIG RED FLAG!! That shows he is not responsible, and could possibly be big trouble in the long run. Use your common sense, take a good long look at him, and go from there. Good luck and God bless.
2007-01-18 19:01:08 · answer #3 · answered by Judy W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a guy for over a year who had a baby with another girl. His ex was nuts.. but i didn't care.. We still made it work. I supported him during the child custody case and even though we are no longer dating (nothing to do with his ex) i still support him and we are great friends
2007-01-18 18:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Angel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess, what - I wouldn't... I won't even date woman that have kids. American woman are way to much work and always problems.. I do my best to stay away from them... Once a year, I fly over to ASIA for 6 months and find a GF there.
2007-01-18 18:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by dannywahlberg 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I married a man who has a child with someone else, we make it work, but it is more work.
2007-01-18 18:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by mistyboo143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes i would as long as he loved me and was no longer with the other woman... But then and only then... If he was still with her or had feelings for her then no i would not.
2007-01-18 18:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes as long as he and his EX is realy his EX!!!! And you are ready to share in the childs life. It could be very rewarding experance.
2007-01-18 18:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by RC C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, too many problems would emerge.
2007-01-18 18:39:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋