im getting bullied by this girls mom ! what do i do i think the girl tells her mom lies. ?

Question

there is this girls mom at my school and her mom thinks all these bad things about me and my friend like she thinks are moms are irresponsible and all this other stuff . she also thinks were a bad influence on her daughter ,
so the mom emails all the teachers and tells them to keep there daughter away from me and my friend . so now all the teacher hate me . OMG well there daughter is my friend but i think she tells her mom stuff thats not truee ! SO WATS UPP . NOW . she said watever school i go to shell make sure her daughter doesnt go there this moms crazzy do you thing she had problems as a child HELLP / PLEASEE

Answer 1

She is probably into you, that's how girls act when they like a fella. Forget the girl and start focussing on her mom. That's where the action is.

Answer 2

Well cookie, I know exactly how you feel. My best friend of the 8th grade, had the same problem. Except it wasn't a mother it was the principal of our school and yard duty people. Me and my other friend were walking down to the bus stop after school and the principal pulls us to the side and tells us not to hang out with my best friend because she is a bad influence. So me and my friend ignore her. She starts making my best friend's life a living hell. Whenever she would go inside of the office, she would ignore her. She would tell other girls to fight her, and then suspend her every chance she got, even if it wasn't my friend's fault. My friend wasn't a bad influence, but her parents had issues and because of the way my friend looked and acted they treated her this way. My friend now has her first child. If people see you like this, the mother of a friend, it probably isn't all true. But do not get mad at the mother, the daughter is the one telling her everything. The mother can only go by what the daughter says. Out of all her friends why would she just single out you two? She wouldn't even know you if it weren't for her daughter. The mom could just be crazy, but check your friend first. Then if the mother continues to do certain things like trying to sabotage your school reputation, tell your mother. Then she and your friend's mother can have a one on one. I have been here before. Good luck sweetie!

Answer 3

I think this mother has issues, but I think her daughter does as well. I mean, think about it, why would this stranger start freaking out on you? Obviously, her daughter has been saying things about you. As for her emailing your teachers, I think that she has gone overboard. If you have not done anything wrong, then I would just ignore it. If your teachers don't like you, well, then that's too bad. They should have looked at your side of the story as well. In fact, play along if you want. Each time this mother comes up to you, reply back saying with a smile on your face "yes, I am bad! how did you know?" this will show that you don't fear her and that she can't push you around anymore. This will stop sooner if you show that you don't care.

Answer 4

YOU need to be the adult here! Go talk to the mother. Ask for a few moments of her time because you don't understand her anger and you'd like to know what is the problem. That is how you'll find out what her daughter is telling her and you can set the record straight but I simply would make sure I visited with that lady. I'd be really bothered if I knew I had done nothing and was being accused anyway. Head over to the house. Time's a wastin'!

Answer 5

Do you have a guidance counselor at school?
You need to ask someone who knows you all a lot better than anyone here.
I can appreciate that you feel awful.
It would be better if people gave you the criticism about your behaviors, not about you as a person.
But, there are some people I did not want around my son either, and if they didn't move up to the high school when he was in seventh grade, his father may just have done what this woman did.
So, you need to talk to people who actually know you.
and you need someone who is going to be honest about what kind of influence you may be actually having.
Good luck.

Answer 6

Tell you mom you should seriously tell your mom whats happening before it gets any wores. she will understand what to do about the situation seriously tell your mom. What ever you do don't tell any principals or teachers they will not understand and might think you are trying to cause trouble. Let your mom make a decision on what to do. Just do your work like you would normally. And really tell your mom or dad what is happening. And try to stay away from this girl for a while.

Answer 7

honey i dont know how old you are but you need some intervention be it by your parents or a counsellor at the school.
find someone that is on your side an adult would be better and even see if you can get copys of the emails to build your case with first.
i dont understand this bitchiness in girls and i see it all the time with my own daughter and her friends.
REAL FRIENDS DONT DO THAT TO EACH OTHER!
but unfortunately when you are at school being accepted often means we compromise who we are friends with.

Answer 8

talk to your parents about it honey. this may possibly need to be taken up in a conference with your teacher/principal and your parents all there to converse about whats been going on. that way you will definitely be able to find out what the girl has been telling her mom to give her such a bad impression of you two. her mom probably found some cigs or drugs on her and she blamed it on your influence ... girls do that all the time ... lying is not cool!

Answer 9

You need to tell your parents, and get them involved, to get to the bottom of the situation, or go to the school guidance counsel. Ask your friend what she has told her Mom? tell her she is getting you in trouble, for no reason, ask her what is the trouble? or just stay from around her. Tell her you do not want any trouble from her Mom. Have a great New Year!

Answer 10

Well... it depends on what you and this other girl get up to. If you do bad things that are true and she tells her mum about it, no wonder her mum's unhappy about her hanging with you!

However, like I said, it depends on exactly what it is you guys do. If what the girl's saying is untrue for definite, then have a calm discussion with her and her mum.

I seriously doubt that the mum you're on about had problems when younger - seems to me like you're the one with the problems personally.