Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

Hi Everyone,
About 3 years ago I dated a very nice man named Jason. He and I dated for about a year and he got drunk one night and cheated on me. We separted ways and didn't speak to eachother for over 2 years. These past 2 months we have been going out for dinner and drinks every Friday and we talk almost everyday. I just am confused, should I ask him upfront if we're back together or if this is a fling?
I don't want to scare him off, but him and I have both changed so much (for the better) that I think we're totally different people.

Thanking you all in Advance!

2007-01-18 09:46:52 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would be a cool way to ask a guy to a sadie hawkins dance...other than just asking him?

the name of the dance is...don't laugh...
frosty's super sweet party at the gingerbread mansion.

advice?

2007-01-18 09:46:33 · 2 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 09:46:05 · 1 answers · asked by *Benny B* 4 in Friends

Okay I haved liked this guy for about 2 almost 3 years. let's call him Ross. Around 1.5 yrs. of liking him he and I started flirting. Then he ignored me for like a month, then flirted. Over and over again... Anyway so finally his brother questioned him about him liking me and everything we did. (Don't worry I have never even hugged a guy before.) Well Ross denied everything. His brother, Micheal, is also one of my bffs. He is moving across town so when he was packing I was with him. I wrote Ross a note. That night at church I gave him a couple of hackie sacks. (Ross likes playing hackie sacks. Anyway. I said "Did you read my note?" He smiled and said "Yeah I read it. It's still on my desk." He usually doesn't read notes. He says they r 2 long. What does this mean?

2007-01-18 09:46:00 · 6 answers · asked by Renae 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going to make a dinner for my boyfriend for Valentine's Day, with fortune cookies for dessert. Any ideas on cute/romantic fortunes to put inside?

2007-01-18 09:45:12 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or, after a period of time, should one cut his/her losses and move on?

2007-01-18 09:44:52 · 20 answers · asked by sweetbrowneyedgirl64 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are talking about getting married someday , and he tells me he want's to get married by the beach, like his parent's and their parent's before him, but I want to get married in the church , should I respect his and his family wishes , or is there a possibly that we could do both, some advice please, thanks.

2007-01-18 09:44:42 · 19 answers · asked by kitty 6 in Marriage & Divorce

My BF has done it to me a few times, but I haven't done it to him- no specific reason. I cant say that it felt good or bad, just different. I've heard several times that it's big pleasure zone for men. I'm curious about how many of you men like that sensation, and how many women have done it to thier guys? Do you have any tips, techniques or advice?

2007-01-18 09:44:36 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really screwed up my marrage of 20 years to a really wonderful woman. now she wants a seperation but still live under the same roof. we both are being civil and taking care of things.
She dont want me to try and fix it or do anything but i really feel in my heart that i have to try and win her back again and hope that i can fix it. But i speak the most stupid things sometimgs that just dont make it better and im at wits end with myself.
Everythig that has happened is my fault not my wifes at all its all my fault.
so i know im grasping for straws but i gotta do something i dont wanna loose her what so ever and im gonna change and make a better person of myself

2007-01-18 09:44:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean of course they are your life partner, but seeing as you have chosen to spend your life with that person, do you think they are somewhat also your friend?

2007-01-18 09:44:26 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What should you do when you have a friend you've known for a long time, that you've taken in and trusted and they know that all you ask is to discuss things with you, but then they plot behind your back to do things they know you would not want them to do but couldn't stop them from doing and they know that's how you would react. Then they lie to your face, and expect you to believe them like you're dumb.
It really hurts that this person would do this.

2007-01-18 09:44:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he is afraid the fact that i leave so far tho its just for a while and also the fact that i have different citizenship. he also talks a lot about this gal he had 4yrs ago and insist that our relationship has a threat tho she is also in a different country. i really love him and im ready to do anythin for the guy if he gives me a chance. wat should i do. move on or ?????????????

2007-01-18 09:44:17 · 1 answers · asked by kago 1 in Singles & Dating

i recently got back in contact with a guy i use to go to school with,i never liked him as a b/f but now that we,ve gotten back in contact we,ve been talking alot and getting along really well.im starting to get worried because i kinda feel i maybe getting attached to him and i dont want to do that because i wasnt planning onstaying in contact too much longer(long story) but sometimes he pisses me off.if things continue i know it will be hard to cut him loose later on.should i just cut all ties with him now? and save myself the trouble?

2007-01-18 09:44:01 · 3 answers · asked by aleah2515 1 in Friends

I get really frustrated over little things like if my parents keep bugging me or even if my pencil broke or something stupid like that. THis morning before classes have started all the high school meets in the lunchroom (commons) and my friends always have a circle and we talk and i was standing on the outside and nobody would let me in. i know they would if i was more agressive. so i sat at the table and was really depressed nobody was talking to me ad i was pretty close to tears. then the bell rang so i went to my first period, french class and it got even worse cuz nohthing was going the right way. my pencil wouldn't sharpen and all of my pencil shavings from my hand held pencil sharpener dumped all into my backpack. my eyes got all watery but i didn't cry for long cuz we got a new seating chart and i was next to one of my friends. i was happy.. how can i not be so frustrated all the time?

2007-01-18 09:43:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have been seeing him for 4 years. i want to know what men like and how girls feel more comfortable in bed. i am a little on the big side so i dont have much confidence.

2007-01-18 09:42:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay, i haven't seen him in 10 years but kept in touch. just recently got back in touch. to my surprise, had a business trip to bring him local.he lives across the country. i never expected it. i am in relationship, always loved him though. never let go. while here it was impossible to see him. he says i made no effort i did, but i just couldn't bring myself to seeing him leave again. he called 10 times a day to ask if i was coming. the last day, i said the feelings i had were still too strong andit's just not a good idea, keeping in mind that his feelings were never put up front. I always felt he loved me, but never confirmed, he knows my feelings. anyways he said i made no effort to try to make it over and that he came 3,000 miles and i should have been able to make it 100. now i called him first to get back in touch, never thinking he would make it out here. So do you think he's hurt or just mad? he got on the plane today and i haven't heard a word... should i just not even try?

2007-01-18 09:42:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Tuesday night she said she'd call me back and didn't. Wednesday night I left a message and never got a call. I sent a text message an hour ago today. I haven't heard from her since when she said she'd call back...
I'm 20 she's 19

2007-01-18 09:42:51 · 3 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

my and my bf have been dateing for 3 monts and i never fell in love with someone like this. im almost 19 and its like, every time were togather or apart, when i think about him i get this really good feeling in my stomic. its not one of those feelings that you say you have its a real feeling and it feels so good. it happens when i think about him and me in bed. so does this mean im in love with him. i tell him but i think i really fell heard for him. and im uasuly a really jelous person but i trust him with my life and with other girls. whats this all mean. please someone help me

2007-01-18 09:42:49 · 2 answers · asked by laughwithashley 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 09:42:09 · 10 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with a bloke for 10 months, i lived with him for 4 months while i was looking for a house. we went on holiday together,everything great then all of a sudden it was over ,i was not given a reason, we had not argued..that was 5 months ago anyway, he has never missed a day without textin me. we go out regualary, i stay at his house .he comes to my house and stays over we have good fun, got loads in common,when i go out with my friends he texts to ask where i am, who i'm with,and when we go out if i talk to another man i get comments about it the next time he texts me and yet he insists that we are just friends !!! i do not sleep with my friends ! i have told him how much i love him and that as far as im concerned, if it means it's got to be like this, i will carry on as we are,because as far as im concerned its better than nothing but i am paying a high price for being his friend, i want more, so do i walk away from a man i really truly love ? and are we just friends ?

2007-01-18 09:41:11 · 13 answers · asked by demmi 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and this girl went out for a month and long story short, I suggested to stay friends with her since I got a bit frustruated since she did not know what she wanted out of us in the relationship and she was ok with it..

Afterwards, we did hang out for couple of times and nothing was wrong. We even spoke online normally but what its bothering is that recently out of nowhere she is like avoiding me and have open ended conversations with her online. I would understand if she did this after suggesting to be friends but its been a while since that stage already. I confronted with her about it online and it took her a long time to answer with just "im fine, i have no problems with you"

She left me hanging with no answers when we were dating, and now as friends she still has left me hanging. Althought i still have a bit feeling for her, my intentions are not to try to get back with her but just concerned about her..

Whats with the sudden behavior? Should I confront her about it in person

2007-01-18 09:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have two young boys (4 and 1) but I am not happy with their father. I feel as if I should stay because he is their father but he makes me unhappy, he's lazy, he drinks and he doesn't give me the love and affection that I am starting to crave. He doesn't seem to realise that there is a problem because everytime I ask him to do something, he changes for a month or two then it's back to normal again. I want out but I'm scared of starting again. Of how hard it will be for my kids. How hard it will be to move. I am also not wanting him to have kids with anyone else. I don't want my kids to have half brothers or sisters. How do I let go? How do I move on? HOW DO I TELL HIM I DON'T LOVE HIM ANYMORE????????????????????????

2007-01-18 09:40:24 · 16 answers · asked by tamarasykes1980 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok...so i really really like this guy and i have for a long time. He used to like me just a little bit ago, but everytime i have my friends tell him to ask me out..hes says no, or hes has to think about it. Also, i just went to a party a couple days ago and he was totally acting like he liked me...we even made out!! and then the next day at school i thought he might ask me out or something,..but he never did. He told my friend that day that he didnt want to go out wtih me because if we broke up...we wouldnt be friends anymore. so i dont know what i should do because i really really really really like him and i just wanna know how to get him to go out with me?? please comment!!

2007-01-18 09:39:31 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do women appreciate public expressions of affection while out in public? If your boyfriend constantly has a hand on your hip, etc is that a nuisance or do you actually enjoy it?

Kissing? Is it appropriate for your boyfriend to give you a light peck on the cheek or even lips while out in public?

How about fondling? A quick grope on the butt? Appropriate or would you not really like that in public?

By public I mean out on the street, in a restaurant for lunch, shopping, just casual outings.

Also keep in mind this would be in a newer relationship, like first 3-6 months.

2007-01-18 09:39:28 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend was standing near the window with a knife in her hand and she said if someone comes near her she will kill herself.....and now she sees ghosts and she thinks there are thing crolling on her....when they are not....she doesnt know what she is going...how can i help her.....she is lik my big sister.=[

2007-01-18 09:38:42 · 12 answers · asked by i_luv_svvs_409 1 in Friends

I was just wondering if I am considered a "late bloomer" cuz I have never had a boyfriend yet and I am 14. I have always had boys that I have liked but never went out with them. If not what is the age that is considered a "late bloomer" when it comes to never having a boyfriend. I am just not into dating someone for a day, I rather wait until I get in High School when the relationships last......is this normal???

2007-01-18 09:38:40 · 22 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

If something could've been different that would prevent the split between you two, what would that something be?

2007-01-18 09:38:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

genitals? I was talking with some of my girlfreinds and we were on the subject of cheating. Well, one of them told me that if a man has a small pen*s, he wont cheat because he does not have the confidence to. And my other friend added that a woman would not want to get it on with him because of his small u know. Is any of that true? I am just curious to what they said.

2007-01-18 09:37:09 · 27 answers · asked by What_if 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If yes What did you do about it And/Or what did you wish you had done about it?

2007-01-18 09:36:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

she said do u think im stupid but, then he came in and she said i would prefer if u leave cause we cant talk around him i dont want him in my business and if i do anything like help with my grandkid
bring him when hes not around,Whats up with that

2007-01-18 09:36:22 · 5 answers · asked by keepitreal 2 in Singles & Dating