Me and this girl went out for a month and long story short, I suggested to stay friends with her since I got a bit frustruated since she did not know what she wanted out of us in the relationship and she was ok with it..
Afterwards, we did hang out for couple of times and nothing was wrong. We even spoke online normally but what its bothering is that recently out of nowhere she is like avoiding me and have open ended conversations with her online. I would understand if she did this after suggesting to be friends but its been a while since that stage already. I confronted with her about it online and it took her a long time to answer with just "im fine, i have no problems with you"
She left me hanging with no answers when we were dating, and now as friends she still has left me hanging. Althought i still have a bit feeling for her, my intentions are not to try to get back with her but just concerned about her..
Whats with the sudden behavior? Should I confront her about it in person
2007-01-18 09:40:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-18 09:44:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No confrontation, please . It will make it worse, if you want to keep in touch with her at all let it ride and give her space. Sounds to me that she is a little moody and perhaps you are getting on her nerves . It's hard to say . She took a long time to tell you that she is fine so obviously she is not very concerned about how you feel . Find a better friend and forget it if you can . LOL
2007-01-18 09:49:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were dating for a month that was to soon to be asking what she want out of the realtionship first of all that stage is just the getting to know each other second maybe there is a new guy in her life she didnt want to tell u about cause maybe she didnt want to hurt your feelings of something being an ex is an ex theres no friendship behind that because its a different type of relationship give her some space and maybe she will tell you the truth
2007-01-18 09:47:49 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not into you. Why bother confronting her? Save your energy and move on to friends who will give you the time of day. You are probably just annoying her by trying to maintain the friendship that she's not interested in.
2007-01-18 09:45:36 · answer #4 · answered by dancin thru life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll never forget the guy who talked dirty to me via instant messaging, total stranger ya know? I told him he was a rude pervert; he came back that I was obviously an uptight, passionless "btch". The gall! Sort of the same thing here. You don't know her at all really. If she isn't interested in this shallow sort of acquaintance, she isn't. You set the ground rules anyway.
2007-01-18 09:50:08 · answer #5 · answered by smecky809042003 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is having a change of heart. Maybe she likes you more than she leads on or maybe she doesn't like you anymore at all. I would suggest to talk to her in person because talking online can be misleading. You can't see her facial expressions or hear the tones in her voice. Talk to her about it...maybe she's regreting her decision.
2007-01-18 09:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don"t confront her, just move on with your life. I think her actions has said enough. and you have given her enough time. so go on about your business. Remember life goes on, and you deserve to be happy too, have a great new year!
2007-01-18 09:48:39 · answer #7 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she just has somthing on her mind. Try to pull her to the side, showing her that you still care for her. show her that if there is something wrong she can always trust you. she could be having different feelings, and doesent want to hurt you.
2007-01-18 09:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by brittany t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Leave her alone. If she wants to talk she will let you know. If not, then move on. Don't try to play mind games.
2007-01-18 09:46:14 · answer #9 · answered by jan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes Sir Galahad,
Talk to her.
2007-01-18 09:44:54 · answer #10 · answered by tewarienormy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like she really wasn't liking you that way and was trying to be nice about it.
move on and find someone that likes you the way you want to be liked.
2007-01-18 09:47:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋