I've had a crush on this girl for many, many months now, and apparently it's going nowhere. She knows I like her, but she doesn't like me as more than a friend. I've tried ignoring her, but she keeps coming back. For example, if I walk past her in the hallway, she'll scream my name, and when I reluctantly turn around, she'll smile and wave. I think she's doing it just because she knows I like her, and it's killing me on the inside. Then again, I still want her to be a part of my life, even if she doesn't like me like I like her. How can I do this, and at the same time get over her?
2007-01-18 10:20:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's got you on a string. She likes you liking her. That could mean that she likes you back, but doesn't want anything, or she may not be interested.
Start looking at the good points in other girls, you will soon notice that there are lots of possibilities out there, and if you pay less attention to her, she will either have to chase you or let you go. Either way you can be her friend. It sounds like it is only your feelings that will stop you been her friend.Get them under control and you are right,
Remember: Old friends become new lovers and new lovers become old friends.
2007-01-18 10:27:00 · answer #1 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can YOU get to the point where you wouldn't like her as anything more than a friend? If so, a friendship is possible, but if she constantly reminds you of the fact that she is NOT your girlfriend, then I think a clean break is best. If you decide that is the way it has to be, then:
1) Tell her honestly but politely you don't think you can "be friends only" with her, and
2) The next time she screams your name in the hall, don't turn around.
If you can't just be friends with her, you are just going to continue to torment yourself by trying to just be friends with her.
2007-01-18 18:26:00 · answer #2 · answered by lmnop 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never get over her sorry but its true my advice is to go off and find someone more fitted to you and then come back and see if you two can be friends. and im pretty sure she is not doing those things on purpose she like you as a friend and well she cant help it. but there is also an other possibility if she likes you as a friend and sees how good and loving you treat your other girlfriend then maybe she will want the same thing from you.
2007-01-18 18:26:09 · answer #3 · answered by cosita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, hon. I've never been able to do that myself. I know people who have though. Sometimes it just hurts too much. It's like pouring salt in the wound so you have to distance yourself in order to let that wound heal. Know what I mean?
I know you want her in your life but it might be easier to distance yourself now and attempt to be friends later... after your heart heals a little bit.
2007-01-18 18:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by fluffomatic24 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit playing games. Just acknowledge her as you approach so she does not play the scream-and-wave thing. Pretty cheesy behavior.
2007-01-18 18:24:07 · answer #5 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you just want to be friends. and the way to get over her is by seeing other people.
2007-01-18 18:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by the_7ru7h_1939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her see u with another girl, maybe than she will show an interest in u.
2007-01-18 18:23:54 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋