Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

So this guy at school and I were kind of close for a little while, we talked a lot and even kissed a few times. There was a 5 week break, and I come back the next semester thinking I'll get to see him, and really looking forward to it, when I find out that he is no longer at my school! I can't contact him, it's impossible. I am just so devistated that it took me about 24 hours for the situation to actually sink in. I really like him a lot, and I don't think I'll ever forget him. I know it will take some time to get over, but how do I make it happen faster?? I hate being sad :0(

2007-01-18 10:41:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he shaves his head and always tries to make people crack up when we do ekgs. he calls patients by the wrong name on purpose and calls them constance and eugenia and stuff

2007-01-18 10:40:30 · 3 answers · asked by Brian 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it a brother/sister? parent? cuzzin? who are they and why are they special to you?

2007-01-18 10:40:16 · 4 answers · asked by Sassyyy Cassyyy 1 in Family

So I have hung out kinda a lot with this one guy. We eventually had sex, and I am pretty sure he likes me. I always thought he should be the one to bring up having a relationship, but now I am thinking of doing that. Is that acceptable, and if so what should I say?

2007-01-18 10:40:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why wont you guys ever tell your girlfriend how much you paid for a gift?
For example.
My ex-boyfriend bought me some jewelry( dont know why) and he wont tell me how much he spent for it. Nor will he tell me why he bought it.
And am not the kind of girl to break up with someone because they spent too little or too much on me.
I prefer that a guy spend $10 on me and thats about it. Gifts dont matter.

2007-01-18 10:40:01 · 9 answers · asked by Blah 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some help. My husband and I have been married for almost four years. Everything was going fine between us until he had back surgery in June. After the surgery he got hooked on pain pills. Since then things have been going down hill between us. He is costantly buying pills from people, and spending a lot of money doing so... He also hides them from me and keeps everything about them a secret. I have told him so many times that it upsets me that he takes them, and every time I bring it up to him he just says he's got to have them for his back pain. Well I understand that, but I don't understand why he has to take more than what he is prescribed and pills that aren't prescribed to him.

He just isn't the same guy. He still loves me and I still love him, but I am just so mad about it. Am I being too harsh whenever I tell him how much I hate it when he is taking pills? What should I do?!Thanks in advance.

2007-01-18 10:39:54 · 24 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Its the 10th anniversary right?

2007-01-18 10:39:21 · 4 answers · asked by kateqd30 6 in Weddings

Well my freind seems to be mad at me because I talked about her car because she said that I always need rides from her and thats the only way i get out the house is if she comes and gets me and takes me to my destination. okay so We were in front of a whole bunch of people so being the person I am I had to say something back. also the whole time we were arguing it was a joke and we play argue all the time so i wonder why this time she took it serious. she told me i wasnt going to get a ride from her but i really needed a ride because it's winter and I don't want to get frost bite on my hands lol. but I told her no and we sat in her car for about 30 mins in the parking lot arguing about that situation. so she took it upon herself to say "well ur always talking about someone's car and always the first one in." and from there I had just had enough and got out the car and walked off.If has been 6 days since we talked. So i a just wondering how would I got about apologizing?Or shouldn't I?

2007-01-18 10:39:07 · 26 answers · asked by takeiya p 1 in Friends

I come from a dif. culture than american, where virginity is sacred and you should only lose it with the person you are gonna marry. (esp. for girls) So ok i married and american girl who wasnt a virgin (i loved her so much i didnt care) and we moved to where i am from. We love each other, and things are going well for us... she knows that i have always been hurted and bothered cuz she wasnt a virgin anymore but i tried to never make a big deal out of it.
Recently, she lied to me about something very stupid... money. i didnt care at all about this but for some reason this lie brought back all the hurting feelings abour her not being a virgin i thought i've lost forever. its insane, i cant stop thinking about it and the idea of my marriage being a mistake is growing exponencially. Obviously she cant do anything about it.
What do you recommend me to do?

2007-01-18 10:38:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My friend Ashley moved Today 1-18-07 and so now her and her boy friend are apart i always liked him before she came to our school but i dont want to rush into things with him but i was planning to ask him out tommorow 1-19-07. What do i do????????

2007-01-18 10:37:52 · 31 answers · asked by shtopramen 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel like i like her but im not sure if what i feel is real. i whant to tell her how i feel but im not sure. time is runing she wont be in my class any more so i whont se her any more. what should i do im confused. how can i tell if what i feel is real.

2007-01-18 10:37:23 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok,me & my bf broke ^ a week ago.We were on the bus and we held hands like every day.And b4 I got off I went to kiss him but b4 I did he said,"I'm breaking ^ w/ u".I told him thanx 4 bein honest w/ me but i could have really lived without hearing that.I tore myself apart.And I fell down on my knees and started cryin.Cuz if u saw even half the emails he sent me,u would think that he neva wouldve dumped me.He said he would always be there for me when I needed someone.Everything reminds me of him.Every time I hear our song I eventually cry.But i also heard that he called me a pig w/ acne...but im not for sure.his fried told me that but he plays around alot so i dunno whether to believe him or not!I also heard that he broke up with me because alot of people told him to.That got me real bad.But I had one of my friends that is friends w/ him 2 ask him who said that 4 me.He asked him and he said that if he asked him again ten he would spread arumor about me.But I still luv him sooo much!Help?

2007-01-18 10:37:21 · 4 answers · asked by Whitney 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 10:37:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I need to know if i still like my Ex-boyfriend......me and him were talking the other day(we're still friends) and he asked me how 07' waz going for me so far. I told him "its goin okay way better than 06'...lol j/k"(i was meanin that i 06' sucked bcuz i waz goin out with him but i was just kidden)...by the way we were texting, and naturally i also asked how his was, and he was like "Its goin GREAT way better than 06' I got a 6 pack a new gf and a bunch of other stuff...."So i was like well thats cool then he sent me another 1 and he was all like whats your problem why are you mad...so i was officially pissed....but i was also sad that he seemed like he was havin such a great time without me.....why was i mad...?......Do i still like him?.....i need help...wut do yall think??

2007-01-18 10:35:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We buy each other presents, spend lots of evenings together and get on really well as friends. We have both agreed that at this point in time that a relationship is not a possibility - for various reasons. Why does everyone therefore presume we are an item? I am getting fed up with being asked what is happening between us, and am sure she is getting the same thing happen to her. How can we make it clear that we are good friends some that we can enjoy our friendship without external pressures...?

2007-01-18 10:35:05 · 2 answers · asked by bovie 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 10:34:55 · 3 answers · asked by Tabitha B 1 in Singles & Dating

What can i do? I was going out with a boy for 5 days and he says that we are too different so he broke up with me. The funny thing is that is ex made him do it cause she was there and she talked him into dating her again because she is the only girl in the school that will do him. So she has been spreading rumors about me getting people to wanna jumo me and crap. I WANT OUT OF THIS MESS

2007-01-18 10:34:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok so i have a boyfriend... but i think i might also like one of my best guy friends.. i can't decide if i should break up with my boyfriend and try to go out with my other ffriend.. i'm also worried that if i go otu with my other friend then it'll ruin our friendship...we are really good friends.....and our friendship means a lot to me but sometimes i wonder what it would be like going out with him.. help me!

2007-01-18 10:33:56 · 3 answers · asked by Amy S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my friend lives next to me and she has a brother he is 16 and im 13 i like him alot and he likes me to i spent the night one day and his sister left me in his room we stayed up till 4:00 am and started makin out i think he was trying to go all the way but i told him i wasnt ready i like him what do i do because i feel if i do my friend wouldnt like me and say i only was her friend for him

2007-01-18 10:33:51 · 10 answers · asked by MARCiiA 2 in Singles & Dating

i should have him invite my cousin to his babyshower and i dont get along with her and he wants to know if i should give green light for her to go i said its his party even though iam planning it and there doing the invite and i dont want her to try to embarrase me because my new guy will be there its my brother friend i dont want her to be heartless as always should i give him the green light

2007-01-18 10:33:36 · 3 answers · asked by dvcgurl 7 in Singles & Dating

looking back on your life what is the moment in which you were the happiest, and what moment would you most like to change?

2007-01-18 10:33:30 · 6 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Friends

...Was it amazing,worth it,in between or sumthing u regret?

2007-01-18 10:33:30 · 2 answers · asked by Tinnie Cutie 4 in Singles & Dating

i have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 months now but i've known and been his best friend for over a year. I like him A LOT! i think he knows me more then anyone and i think im his 'sholder to lean on' and all that good stuff. lol. anyways.. my boyfriend said he loved me and i didnt know what to say. ive been saying it for a while now but i want to make sure its true. and i'm not just saying it to make him happy? how do u know u REALLY love someone? and u cant just say 'u'll know'.

2007-01-18 10:33:08 · 20 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my gf online a good while back. Any way she wants me to go visit her in KY, but i live in LA. I want to go but, my parents don't want me to go. I have money saved up to go this summer. If i go i will be in alot of trouble with my Mom, and Step-father. I just want to go. We love each other. We have talked on the phone and on myspace for so long now about it. Does someone have some advise?

2007-01-18 10:32:25 · 4 answers · asked by hitman53jb 2 in Family

2007-01-18 10:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by shyann l 1 in Singles & Dating

not that we were together...but i saw him for what he REALLY is...
say GOOD JOB!!!

2007-01-18 10:31:37 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

(The Woman Is Required To Pay) but I do not know how to ask him. What would some guys think would be creative? I somewhat want to ask him but I do not know how exactly.

Any ideas? I slightly like him, and he sadly knows that, but we would just go as friends. I have a few weeks until the dance. All my friends say that I should ask him but I dont know...

2007-01-18 10:31:08 · 2 answers · asked by Amy 3 in Singles & Dating

No retarded answers please. Just serious ones. You aren't going to be picked for best answer (and I will choose 1) if your answer is not much better than an ape's would be! Thanks!

2007-01-18 10:30:44 · 3 answers · asked by Hi 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so me and this girl have been going at it for some time now for a guy(i went out with him almost a whole year ago) and shes just got done with him, shes jealous cause i could take him back but i wouldnt think about it ever again and she knows that. but anyways she calls me ***** and stuff everyday and it kinda makes me mad because i didnt do anything then one day she pushed me, and thats where i told my mom and my principle we talked about it and settled it, until her and the guy broke up she started again, and all i do is ignore her, then i told her i was going to turn her in, and now shes turning the story saying i dont like her and all this other bull. my "friends" tell me to give her another chance but i gave her two and i mean if you dont mean sorry the first time you dont mean it the second, i kno her game, shes going to be nice one day and a b***** the next, what would you do in this situation, if she gets in trouble again she goes to jail fyi

2007-01-18 10:30:43 · 9 answers · asked by flirtinbabe286 1 in Singles & Dating

Like because somebody looks good? Or is fun? Or
has possessions? When we should be more choosey who we give our hearts to? Like someone we can actually get along with?

Anthony Silva

2007-01-18 10:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by THE NEXT LEVEL 5 in Marriage & Divorce