Like because somebody looks good? Or is fun? Or
has possessions? When we should be more choosey who we give our hearts to? Like someone we can actually get along with?
Anthony Silva
2007-01-18 10:30:24 · 6 answers · asked by THE NEXT LEVEL 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Perhaps....I think you nailed it on the head here
2007-01-18 10:38:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are together for the wrong reasons then break up before marrying the person. We should be VERY choosey who we love and give our hearts to....
2007-01-18 18:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that people get together for the reasons you have listed--and that it will eventually create extra problems.
So many people mistake physical attraction for love. A friend of mine, after being married for 10+ years, said that they had absolutely nothing in common (other than the sex, which was dwindling down considerably).
I think that before we marry, at least, we should be certain that we like, trust, enjoy spending time with, share some common interests, etc. with the person. The sex isn't enough to hold it together forever--nor are children (as much as both partners might love them).
2007-01-18 18:46:09 · answer #3 · answered by Holiday Magic 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that part or a major part of the reason why we have so many problems is because we go straight from meeting each other to the wedding and marriage. We don't take the time to really get to know one another. We are in too much of a rush to get married (mainly because of how it is advertised). And because of that...we also don't develop our communication between each other. so there is that lack of communication that develops from getting to know one another.
2007-01-18 18:58:00 · answer #4 · answered by cfalways 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this is true of some people, getting together for the wrong reasons. But relationships go sour for other reasons too. Like not communicating, letting the romance die, lack of intimacy, letting appearance go, and financial problems to name the most often reasons.
2007-01-18 18:39:05 · answer #5 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the bible say its better to marry then to burn in lust,but i truly think we need to be prayful and asking god who we should be married to so we will not end up in divorce courtand also end up with a relationship gone bad by flesh
2007-01-18 18:46:12 · answer #6 · answered by BROKEN AND BEAUTFUL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋