What can i do? I was going out with a boy for 5 days and he says that we are too different so he broke up with me. The funny thing is that is ex made him do it cause she was there and she talked him into dating her again because she is the only girl in the school that will do him. So she has been spreading rumors about me getting people to wanna jumo me and crap. I WANT OUT OF THIS MESS
2007-01-18 10:34:24 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can not get out of it. It's called LIFE!
Just because you turn 18, joined the armed forces or get married does not mean that you are smart enough to avoid mistakes.
I've met 50 year olds who still act like they are in high school.
Learn from this and it will help you to see this coming again and you can avoid it, or deal with it better in the furture.
2007-01-18 10:42:26 · answer #1 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT DISCUSS IT one way or the other. That will only suggest that there may be some truth in what she says. You cannot stop the rumor mill by discussing it.
If someone brings it up or asks about it, just say that you don't discuss your personal life and that you know the source of their information. It will take at least 4 weeks for it to go away. Stick to one story and don't repeat anything that you hear.
2007-01-18 10:42:07 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
After going out for only five days, you shouldn't let him or the ex upset you. I've had the flu for longer than that. If he truly went back for sexual reasons, you don't want to be seen with him or seeing him anyway. He sounds like a user. Hold your head up high, don't get in on the gossip, be a strong woman and watch your fan base grow. Attitude is everything. Strut a positive one!
2007-01-18 10:39:35 · answer #3 · answered by enjoyrselves 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore all foolishness and smile like it never happened.
Forget the rumors and just think positive thoughts.
U will laugh about this one day when u are out of school.
U all get along and be friends, a smile goes a long way.
2007-01-18 10:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW! total teen age drama! you can tell your real friends
to belive you and to help you tell everyone its not true.
DO NOT get back @ her cuz it'll start more crap. as much
as you'll want to rip the hair out of that B**ch dont do it. just ignore her and it'll pass over. people should belive you not
her. and if they dont then you'll know whos really a good person.
if you have trust worthy friends they'll help you through this everybit! and i know im just another person on the internet but
trust me! ive been through years of that crap.
2007-01-18 10:42:46 · answer #5 · answered by Meranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest attacking the people that wanna attack you before they get a chance. If your asking advice on here i have to assume you've exhausted outside help, like teachers, parents and such. Do you have any down *** friends that'll have your back? Get a rumble in the parking lot or somewhere where it'll get broken up if things get outta hand. A best defense is a good offense, and theyll never expect you to go and just wreck their head.
2007-01-18 10:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't get out of it. It's called high school drama and it will always be there. Just take whatever positive lessons away from this that can, move on, and try to be the better person.
2007-01-18 10:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
well welcome to High School. Try to stay out of the situation and ignore her and others. Forget about the stupid boy who u went out with hez not worth it. Try to keep calm and cool by not responding to her she wants to make u look bad and if u react u WILL look bad...Just say wutever she says is not true. and u don't want to talk about ur personal life with just anyone.
2007-01-18 10:40:29 · answer #8 · answered by Legant 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry.. She probably did you a favour...
You deserve someone better than him, if he cant stand up for himself than stuff him, thats his bad luck... And as for the interfearing ex gilfriend, dont worry, she will get what is coming to her...
They are both pathetic.. You can do better!!
2007-01-18 10:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats sooo true....its a called "high school drama"...... be glad when your out..... cuz even then those same people will be looking at you... if u get over it.. it gets pretty funny.
2007-01-18 10:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋