I need to know if i still like my Ex-boyfriend......me and him were talking the other day(we're still friends) and he asked me how 07' waz going for me so far. I told him "its goin okay way better than 06'...lol j/k"(i was meanin that i 06' sucked bcuz i waz goin out with him but i was just kidden)...by the way we were texting, and naturally i also asked how his was, and he was like "Its goin GREAT way better than 06' I got a 6 pack a new gf and a bunch of other stuff...."So i was like well thats cool then he sent me another 1 and he was all like whats your problem why are you mad...so i was officially pissed....but i was also sad that he seemed like he was havin such a great time without me.....why was i mad...?......Do i still like him?.....i need help...wut do yall think??
2007-01-18 10:35:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't like him. You like the idea of him. You are probably a bit jealous because you feel he should not be happy and moving on with his life since he is not with you. You expected him to say that his life was not going well - that would have made you happy if you thought he was miserable without you. But since he is happy or claims to be happy while not being your boyfriend that bothers you. It is your ego.
2007-01-18 10:40:31 · answer #1 · answered by fancyface1 l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like you have some unresloved feelings for him.
Perhaps you should take a long look at how you really feel. Do you still care about him or are you just resenting that he has moved on and is dating other people?
Is it a case of he is your friend but you don't want to share him with another female even though you don't have those kind of feelings for him anymore?
You need to get honest with yourself.
Then you can figure out how to deal with your feelings.
2007-01-18 10:47:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not mad at him. You're mad at yourself simply because you're still single and you don't have any amazing news to report. Don't believe him when he acts as if his life is so perfect, it's not. If he's texting you to say this his motivation is to get you upset or evoke some emotion from you. He may be dating but if he's so into her and this wonderful life he has now without you..why would he be texting you? You made the right decision for the letting the realtionship go, don't doubt yourself now because you feel lonely or think you're missing out on something.
2007-01-18 10:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by Bonita Applebaum 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a normal thing. Your upset because at one time you did have feelings for him and want him to have a great time with you. Also because you to are friends your always going to remember that when you talk and think ''wow , why couldnt we be like that when we were dating" then you will remember all the feelings and start the way like you are now. Its called the What Ifs hun , and there normal.
2007-01-18 10:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by JENNIFER C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont still like him but youre hurt that he can get by so easily without you. When you broke up with him you made a decision to do what was best for you. Its hard to move on even when we want to so just give it some time. And keep your distance if youre having trouble dealing.
2007-01-18 10:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your EX for a reason.Did'nt you learn your lesson.He has obviously moved on and you need to do the same.If you are friend's with him then you should be happy for him.You will not beable to have a relationship with anyone until you complately let go of him so let him go so you can start over as well.Good luck to you.
2007-01-18 10:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need other ppl to tell you whether u like someone or not ur prob not old enough to be havin relationships...but yes u still like him otherwise u would not care for him and what hes doin one bit
2007-01-18 10:39:52 · answer #7 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he is having a blast, your still do ordinary stuff. nothing exciting. or maybe the question triggered your madness. You should still like, but as a friend, if anything more than you're jealous of the girl he is with ..........yeah
2007-01-18 10:44:57 · answer #8 · answered by the_7ru7h_1939 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your just jealous that he's having fun and ur not..its human nature to want sumtin bak wen u've lost it...i cant answer whether u like him or not...only u can...but dunt do anything promptly even if u do like him...just think about it...it could be jealousy that's getting to u...instead of still having feelings for him
2007-01-18 10:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does seem to me you like him still, but don't get me wrong he may be trying to make you jealous maybe just maybe because he might still like you.
2007-01-18 10:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋