Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

When I was in kindergarden, my mom and dad divorced. I didn't understand that but I knew something was wrong. My parents wouldn't even talk to eachother. And they would figjht 24/7! and In the fifth grade, my dad decided to move to spain... and now.... several years later, he is in Argentina. And I mean, I have tried telling him that I miss him and It hurts me that he just LEFT me one day... but he just gets mad and yells at me. I love him omre than anything. but I can't help but cry every night. He already has a new wife and I think they will have other kids. I haven't even met her before, and I rarely get to talk to him. He doesn't even do anything to help my mom, and he is always really mean to her. I am just thankful that I have my mom, and that we are so close, but I still really wish my dad would come back, and we could all be happy again. I wish my parents never divorced. My dad's move has made my life hell.

2007-01-18 11:17:44 · 27 answers · asked by rememberthechinchillas 1 in Family

When you are ready to start dating someone,what do you look for in that person other than physical appearance?

2007-01-18 11:17:34 · 13 answers · asked by John 5 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl online we exchanged some emails n we had a great convesation on the phone the other day then she said she was gonna call me back the next day and then she didnt. i really like her which is strange. should i call her or just let it go. i really want to.

2007-01-18 11:16:29 · 22 answers · asked by lilac. 3 in Singles & Dating

ok so i have a boyfriend... but i think i might also like one of my best guy friends.. i can't decide if i should break up with my boyfriend and try to go out with my other ffriend.. i'm also worried that if i go otu with my other friend then it'll ruin our friendship...we are really good friends.....and our friendship means a lot to me but sometimes i wonder what it would be like going out with him.. help me!

that " would i rather have a boyfriend or a best friend" is hard.. i mean i have a best girl friend...so what would 1 less best friend do any harm? i mean..if i could actually get something godd out of it, it might be worth it right..?

2007-01-18 11:16:27 · 14 answers · asked by Amy S 1 in Singles & Dating

with your sister???
Is my friend just being paranoid? Or is he being a jerk?? Whenever her sister is around he follows her around with his tongue practically hanging out. He talks constantly to her sister and ignores my friend. And he kindof acts nervous and shows off.
What do you think???

2007-01-18 11:16:14 · 12 answers · asked by hunnyimissu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 11:16:13 · 8 answers · asked by sarah m 1 in Singles & Dating

Yeah its a repost but the original got buried, with no answers.

Ok this has just been bugging me for too long now. I started seeing this woman. In the end it ended up bad( it didn't need to). One of her complaints was that I didn't make a move in the first 5 chances.

She expressed how disturbed she was by this. Yet I got very intimate(sex) with her, about a month after first meeting her. I'll admit at first I was just looking at it as a friend situation, but then started to really like her.

So what is the correct amount of chances men should get to make a move for a kiss or holding hands or something else that just seems to be more intimate?

This isn't the whole story and I also admit that I had been out of the dating world for almost four years. We were both 28 at the time.

Am I wrong? Did I not move fast enough. I would tend to think that sex a month later would say pretty fast.

Siiiiiiiigghhhhh. Help. Help relieve my mind. Thanks.

2007-01-18 11:15:55 · 3 answers · asked by Ben B 3 in Singles & Dating

If my crush has a girlfriend?..... what are the signs?

2007-01-18 11:14:55 · 6 answers · asked by Green With Envy 2 in Singles & Dating

okay im like 14 and im preppy(like i wear hollister) but okay i love skater boys. like they are soo HOT!! u know like ryan shecklerhttp://media.asaevents.com/imgs/athletes/ryan_sheckler_top_photo.jpg hottie..so do u thinks that weird..do u guys think ryan shecklers hot too??

2007-01-18 11:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by hpinkers 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in a long distance realtionship. we met from the net, talked on the phone for close to 7 months before we finally met. We live 3 hours away. Ever since our initial meeting 3 months ago, we try to get together as much as we can, and normally it is on late notice. Anytime we aren't together and he goes out with his friends, he ALWAYS calls me sometime while he is out and leaves "I miss you, wish you were here messages." from his cell phone.
He has been acting alot different lately, though - very distant and rarely calls me anymore. We talked about it and he swore he loves me, and isn't with anyone else. I believed him until last weekend. He thought I was working late Saturday night and lft me a message saying hi and that he is in for the night. I called him 1hr later and said I am getting off at 7pm and want to spend the night with him tonight at his place. he called back and told me that I can't come because he is on his way to meet "people" and won't get home until late at night.

2007-01-18 11:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by sephia 1 in Singles & Dating

I cannot stand to see my ex. We were married 5 yrs, the first 2 were ok, the rest were pure hell as i realized who and what he was really after. he lied to me about getting married as a Catholic and later admitted he's atheist; he never told me he had a drinking problem; and has been flirting behind my back and acting single during our marriage. I DIVORCED HIM, 1 yr ago next month; and he remarried to one of the floozies who fell for him while we were together. We have a 4 yr old daughter who is the only focus of my life, he never cared for her until now, forcing her to call the new floozie mama. There is too much more to mention. When I am with my daughter, we are so happy and carefree; then darkness settles in my soul when it is his time to have her and I hate him. I am getting counseling and have been told to get past him, how? I have a job that wears me out physically, I have bills etc to focus on, and have not been out w/any man since the divorce, can't even think of doing it.

2007-01-18 11:13:54 · 16 answers · asked by nowisthetime 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-18 11:13:48 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a new job. Job agency that I use sent me a decription that seems to be a little of everything I've done in the past and looks like something I would enjoy. Hubby says its over my head don't be surprised if I don't get it. What in god's name is he thinking?

2007-01-18 11:13:31 · 12 answers · asked by Pandora 7 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok there's this girl at school which I really like and I think she likes me 2. We have a couple classes together and we've talked on aim a couple of times. I really wanna ask her out. When should I. Is it 2 soon I only started to talk to her like 3 days ago.

2007-01-18 11:13:14 · 10 answers · asked by babyv 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend but he is a year older than me. he is really cute but can sometimes be mean. and my best friend said she found a note that said he loved another girl more than me. so should i dump him or keep him?

2007-01-18 11:11:46 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 11:11:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to marry her and she sais she will marry me, is she just playin the game

2007-01-18 11:10:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

3 spheres

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2007-01-18 11:10:35 · 3 answers · asked by haveyouseenacatwithoutagrin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We're ok friends already.and we went on a date on sunday and we're girlfriend and boyfriend...but we haven't talked since sunday..I'M SO WORRIED =(

2007-01-18 11:10:17 · 4 answers · asked by HOLLiSTER PREP 3 in Singles & Dating

what do you do when a friend of yours said he would do one thing and then he dose it with some one else and this friend dose this a lot and you dont what to say anything that will make you feel like a jerk but no matter what you do someone will think this of you?

2007-01-18 11:09:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

if im on the phone with my b.f. and were asking questions like the game on mtv "exposed" were asking questions like that. i was womdering can you guys give me any question i can ask "a boy"..thanks bye!!

2007-01-18 11:08:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you stay with someone because you know no one else will love you like them, this man takes care of you when your sick loves u when you look like hell, but something is missing you're not sure what it is but you know it's something, maybe no spontaneity or no romance unless initiated by you. You love him but you know its not the same and wonder if thats ok.Would you stay and keep trying to figure out the missing link or after years of looking call it quits?

2007-01-18 11:08:44 · 10 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know how to tell this guy that i really like him. i have liked him since like... 6th grade, and yes he knew that i liked him (but in 6th grade i looked like a geek and acted weird too). how do i tell him?

2007-01-18 11:08:10 · 2 answers · asked by WickedWest 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 11:07:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my bf smokes A LOT. i used to but never as much as him and i dont how to tell him how i dont like it since i used to do it. hes out of school and stays at home he has a job and is a great job but im confused on if this is wat i want. im going to college in aug. i want someone who will become something. HELP PLEASE!

2007-01-18 11:07:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in court today...yet again for no reason because my soon to be ex hasn't produced his paper work. His attorney told my attorney he "isn't accepting that this is happening" HELLO!!!! What part of divorce court is he not getting? So he's dragging this whole thing out costing both of us money we can't afford...for what? So it's never final? Whats the point?

2007-01-18 11:05:57 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Did you call it ping pong or table tennis?

Do you remember the way the paddles smelt and felt in your hand..... making those great smashes..... how fast the game got when you got good......those net and table clipping shots....

It is all coming back to me, playing in the basement with my brothers. It was so great.

Did all kids have ping pong tables in thier basements? Did you?

2007-01-18 11:05:30 · 11 answers · asked by lowroad 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a question. Im a guy who likes to be himself but I know how focused she seems on appearance, clothes etc. The thing Im worried about is that when we do get close and intimate, she is going to see that im a guy who wear tighty whities. I have tried boxers before but just hate them. I also hate to change just for reasons i dont think i should have to. If im comfortable, then thats
what counts right? What should i do because im worried that
she'll laugh or even worse maybe disgusted because again appearance seems to be big with her so she might move on to someone else. I know it sounds petty to think this way but idk. Also i tried the boxer briefs but they are annoying too. They run up the leg and crunch up all the time. Am i worrying over nothing or could something negative happen?

2007-01-18 11:04:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your 16 and is going to go get married to a 18 year old is that cool ???????????

2007-01-18 11:04:56 · 22 answers · asked by mystery* 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Where would you hang out? or can you suggest anywhere better?

2007-01-18 11:04:51 · 7 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating