Do you stay with someone because you know no one else will love you like them, this man takes care of you when your sick loves u when you look like hell, but something is missing you're not sure what it is but you know it's something, maybe no spontaneity or no romance unless initiated by you. You love him but you know its not the same and wonder if thats ok.Would you stay and keep trying to figure out the missing link or after years of looking call it quits?
2007-01-18 11:08:44 · 10 answers · asked by Completly in love... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
from my experience when we feel something is missing in our relationship we blame the other.
but mostly it is something within ourselves that we dont want to own or cant identify with.
it is just easier to blame the partner.
look deeper with in yourself first before you point the finger.
i dont mean this in a mean way either, only you can make you happy.
2007-01-18 11:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by elly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to marriage counseling. I think you're being a little selfish. You need to find out what his needs are and what you are doing to be destructive in this relationship. There's something you're doing to push him away. "Call it quits?" You obviously seem to think that marriage is disposable. Sure, call it quits, why not? Because someone isn't giving YOU what YOU want? You need to take a long, hard look at your relationship and figure out what YOU are doing wrong. It's not just him. It takes two in a marriage. It's not about you anymore once two people are married. It's "us." If there's a proble, you need to talk to him CALMLY about it instead of complaining about what he's not giving you. I'm sure there are things that you aren't giving him. I think the missing link here is that you two need to deal with this and quit blaming each other.
2007-01-18 19:12:55 · answer #2 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one else will love you like him? He takes care of you when you are sick and looking like hell? Everything is right there! So what are you looking for? You are just bored and "it" can't be "all" of his fault! Don't give up too soon! He could be snatched up in no time!
2007-01-18 19:26:54 · answer #3 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is missing lies within you. Nobody can be everything to anybody. Some people just never appreciate what they have. I'm looking for a man like that!
2007-01-18 19:12:49 · answer #4 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was just going through that myself and we ended the relationship after 3 years but I beleive i did the right thing.
2007-01-18 19:14:35 · answer #5 · answered by tychdyboys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay and tell him what's missing. Give him a chance to fill the hole.
2007-01-18 19:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by CctbOh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question..kinda going thru this myself. I have recently asked for a separation so I could at least have some time for myself to think
2007-01-18 19:12:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you are 'in love'- thats whats missing. dont stay just because your afraid no one will ever love you again.
2007-01-18 19:12:38 · answer #8 · answered by as 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I'd quit because I would not be happy . Obviously there is no communication.Wheres the laughter? Im done now.............
2007-01-18 22:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by lilly l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you are meant for each other.
One nutty person with another one.
2007-01-18 19:13:04 · answer #10 · answered by rossj12003 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋