ok so i have a boyfriend... but i think i might also like one of my best guy friends.. i can't decide if i should break up with my boyfriend and try to go out with my other ffriend.. i'm also worried that if i go otu with my other friend then it'll ruin our friendship...we are really good friends.....and our friendship means a lot to me but sometimes i wonder what it would be like going out with him.. help me!
that " would i rather have a boyfriend or a best friend" is hard.. i mean i have a best girl friend...so what would 1 less best friend do any harm? i mean..if i could actually get something godd out of it, it might be worth it right..?
2007-01-18 11:16:27 · 14 answers · asked by Amy S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself this question, Am I happy with my current boyfriend? Does he make me happy? Do I really want to jeopardize the relationship I have with my current boyfriend over my best friend who I'm really not sure if he feels the same way about me intimately? Do I see us going somewhere in the long run? If you answer YES to all these questions then my advice would be to stick with ur current bf. Don;t hurt the one you love, cause later down the road you'll see the mistake u made, and then regret. Good luck with ur choice though.
2007-01-18 11:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
possibly, but, I would honestly wait awhile, saying that u already have a best friend and u don't need another one i believe is wrong. just give it a little time, u never know, and i wouldn't want to ruin any more friendships than you have to. look at this way- u break up with ur boyfriend (that friendship is probably ruined) and go out with ur best friend, most relationships come to ends, and this one might not, but do you really want to take the chance of losing your friends?? If u stay how u r, u won't lose anybody, but if u go out with ur friend, you lose a friend and possibly another one, do u really want to ruin those friendships? I wouldn't want to, but its ur decision.
2007-01-18 11:23:31 · answer #2 · answered by rokndrumm3r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like try asking him out on a friendly outing. If things click for you and him. then tell him how you feel. But if you really like and respect your boyfriend. Just let this feeling past on. You do not want your boyfriend and other friend hating you. Listen to your heart. Good Luck
2007-01-18 11:27:31 · answer #3 · answered by christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him ya so!! If he became grew to develop into off by technique of it, he might want to have in basic terms surpassed over you and by no ability teased you about it. tell him, he'd be an fool no longer to charm to close you've been crushing on him, and your in basic terms sorry it took you writing a be conscious to figure it out. yet you gotta say it with a grin and a touch eye-catching attitude. do not act weird and wonderful or diffrent....believe me, he teased you about it, that is high-quality. Now bypass ask him what he's gonna do about it, or, I choose the formidable approach, and in basic terms provide him a huge ole kiss and get it over with...good success
2016-10-15 10:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wel you say that he is a good guy friend so maybe try to talk to him but dont say that it is you. Maybe use "my friend..." I would do that but i know how hard that can be That has happened tome many times your hormones are probly goin crazy.
hope this helped
2007-01-18 11:21:30 · answer #5 · answered by Monkie-mamma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say if you still have feelings for the guy your with then continue with that relationship if not then tell him you dont have feelings for him dont be mean and dont lie then try to go out with the other guy
2007-01-18 11:20:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound a little young to be thinking of boyfriends.
Buy a kitten
2007-01-18 11:19:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing with "the close friend" never works. (not to me :P)
Better try to find one who has EVERYTHING you need, so you wont see in your "neighbour" something interesting
2007-01-18 11:23:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if he likes u back, and see if teh boyfriend is as good as u think, then see if the guy friend is as boyfriend-worthy as u think
2007-01-18 11:19:42 · answer #9 · answered by indifferent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U never know til u try, opportunity knocks, u better answer.
2007-01-18 11:19:25 · answer #10 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋