Should I move in with my fiance even though my ultra-religious mom and stepdad will definitely disapprove?

Answer 1

no,i think you should wait....you have the rest of your lives to live together...how long until you are married? I think if you waited, the first night together is more meaningful b/c you share a key and a last name,making it worth the wait and a bit romantic...especially if you've already been intimate. It feels more official and it'll make mom happy...religious or not,she'll be proud of you.

Answer 2

No.

Don't move in together before you're married. I'm assuming you will be married to him anyway since he's your fiance. There is reason why people are 'old fashioned' like your parents (religious or not), because when back then people still value moral, and tried do things right, the divorce rate is very low.

Answer 3

If you are ready to make that commitment and are able to support yourselves then why not??

Your ultra-religious Mom and step-dad will just have to accept it. They do not have to approve, they do have to respect your decision. If you are old enough to make this decision, then you should be old enough to make your own mistakes. I am not saying it would be a mistake because nobody knows what the future holds. Only time will tell. If they are Ultra-religious as you say, they should remember... 'Judge not for yea shall be judged'........ they should support and love you no matter what you decide to do.

Good Luck!!

Answer 4

No.

Too many couples end up shacking up these days. Wait until after the honeymoon to move in. It's special then! Engagement is a commitment to marry, not marriage. You're still boyfriend and girlfriend, just with a date to be husband and wife. You really need to think about this, not what you want, but what would be good for the two of you in the long run. I really wanted to live with my husband before we got married, but we knew what God wanted us to do and put our selfishness aside, and it's a better feeling knowing that you waited. How weird is it going to be when you drive each other to the church to get married? Think about that! Please wait! Don't shack up!!!!!

Answer 5

NO.....I persoannally have no problem with couples living together, but obviously your future inlaws do....since you are already engaged isnt worth waiting out the few months or year of engagement to get the combined family thing started off on the right foot? Believe me family pressures can really have a hard effect on a marriage. Respect them for now, after your married you can have him all to yourself

Answer 6

It depends. You're an adult. You need to do what's right for you.

You do, however, of course I'm sure love your mother, and don't want to cause a rift.

You're already engaged. How long till the wedding? You didn't mention it.

While I'm all for living your life without meddling parents, if it's not long until your wedding, you may want to just wait it out to keep the peace.

Answer 7

Are you old enough to make your own decissions or are they still taking cre of you?If your old enough to move then move by yourself first see what it's like taking care of a household.Then consuider the fiance.If you move with his family your about to open a can of worms and ya ain't married yet if ya know what i MEAN

Answer 8

your relationship with your man is between you and your man. if you want to move in with him then do it. your parents will probably disapprove about a lot of things. but what does that have to do with you being happy? you need to be happy with the decision that you make. not your parents.

Answer 9

This is your choice but i sure can understand and see why your mom and stepdad will dissapprove because it is immoral and sinfully wrong to do so and you know it. How do you think God will feel about you doing this?

Answer 10

Don't do it. Statisically speaking, you'll break up within the first 6 months to a year.