i have a boyfriend but he is a year older than me. he is really cute but can sometimes be mean. and my best friend said she found a note that said he loved another girl more than me. so should i dump him or keep him?
2007-01-18 11:11:46 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It not wrong to have a boyfriend. U have to watch out for the older guys though. If you believe ur friend then maybe u should break up with this guy. Or maybe talk to the guy first.
2007-01-18 11:15:07 · answer #1 · answered by Megan 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So what if he's really cute? If he's a meanie head than dump him...but really what makes him so mean? If he talks crappy to you and talks down to you than dump the jerk face. And as for your friend saying she found a note...well where the hell is this note? Could it be that she just wants you to break up so she can have him? Sad but true sometimes the people you think you can trust the most will stab you in the back quick for their own desires. Also ASK him about the note. Don't just take her word for it.
2007-01-18 11:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by monkeydoodie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are willing to have a boyfriend who is "sometimes mean" - I'm guessing that your best friend could be a less than great person too. Are you SURE this note exsists? And even if it doesn't - why are you with a boyfriend who is sometimes mean. CUTE - is not a good enough reason to like him. I promise! Dump him. And make sure your best friend isn't just a gossip.
2007-01-18 11:21:29 · answer #3 · answered by liddabet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know what you need to do dump him i dont know anything about you but i can tell your young im 26 and had a girlfriend for 8 years untill recently and i can tell you if he's mean to you he doesnt love you if you freind told you that it's true believe them
he'll just lie when things like this happen it's rather simple ask your self how would i feel if a guy was doing these things to my best friend? i bet you wouldnt let it happen to your freinds so why do you allow it to happen to you? you must use the mind over the heart sometimes! i know its painful and difficult to do but you really need to do it how do you really know you should be treated if you've only been treated poorly go out with differant people till you find one that you like and treats you right you fell in love once
it'll happen again, so like i siad i was with a girl for 8 yr and was afraid to leave becuase...well there where abunch of reasons mostly i was just plain scared but i did it and a year and 1/2 later im engaged to the true love of my life and she treats me like ive always wanted...bottom line decied what you want in a person and if he's not it lose him there's enough people out there and you have enough time to find that one guy, your never going to get it on the first draw, so enjoy your youth enjoy your freinds and lose him someone great will come along
2007-01-18 11:21:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sweetie. I can tell you that the only option for you is to dump him. His feelings for you are fake, and totally untrue. You can find better out there. I wish guys like that would die. I atleast try to be true to the girl I am dating. I don't play with love. He should feel bad about leading you on. Dump him girl. There is better out there.
2007-01-18 11:18:08 · answer #5 · answered by Lawrence H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him, sounds to me if u know hes mean to u then there is no other answer, plus even a possability of another girl ,come on respect yourself first always . u are young i can tell ,believe me its a bad start to a bad relationship. you can find someone who will really care about you and treat u with respect.
2007-01-18 11:19:07 · answer #6 · answered by candyman8042002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't dump him on someone elses word. Look at the note yourself and see if it's his writing if you can. If you can't then I would confront him about it and see how he reacts. Time will tell.
2007-01-18 11:16:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if it is true.Do a little investigating.If this so called note is true.Than dump him.
2007-01-18 11:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by iloveskulls8 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honestly you should keep him and talk about the problem with him and only him .And remeber you cant always trust everyone just go with your heart and mind and im sure you will make a right decision.and no its not wrong having a boyfriend
2007-01-18 11:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by eg4lyfe1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first ask him if its true that he loves another girl. if he does think about what you want to do. i would say dump him bc if you keep him it may turn out to be a bad thing. good luck.
2007-01-18 11:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋