I have a question. Im a guy who likes to be himself but I know how focused she seems on appearance, clothes etc. The thing Im worried about is that when we do get close and intimate, she is going to see that im a guy who wear tighty whities. I have tried boxers before but just hate them. I also hate to change just for reasons i dont think i should have to. If im comfortable, then thats
what counts right? What should i do because im worried that
she'll laugh or even worse maybe disgusted because again appearance seems to be big with her so she might move on to someone else. I know it sounds petty to think this way but idk. Also i tried the boxer briefs but they are annoying too. They run up the leg and crunch up all the time. Am i worrying over nothing or could something negative happen?
2007-01-18 11:04:56 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geez, you are the very definition of worrying over nothing!
How old are you anyway? You should be waiting for sex until you are more mature. From the sounds of things, a lot more mature.
2007-01-18 11:10:21 · answer #1 · answered by EQ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude,
She shouldn't care if you have whities or boxers. What counts is you, the guy inside of them. Don't worry. If she only cares about your undies, then she has other issues and you should run.
Keep on smiling, there is a whole generation out there who only had whities to wear and they didn't turn out bad.
2007-01-18 11:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Coda2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are worrying over nothing. The only time that you really need to worry about changing your underwear is when you are trying to have kids. Other than that enjoy your tighty whities.
2007-01-18 11:11:36 · answer #3 · answered by Sandra C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. Don't change for her. If she doesn't like it, then tough.
However, I do have to say as a preference, I personally don't like tighty whities. But I wouldn't stop dating a guy just for THAT reason alone.
Have you tried boxer-briefs? They're like boxers, but tight like briefs.
2007-01-18 11:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by AnswerMom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're worrying over nothing. I haven't met a woman yet to whom boxers/briefs is a deal-breaker. But if she's that superficial that you think she'll flip out over such a minor thing, you'll probably be better off without her.
2007-01-18 11:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by fft5305 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good lord if she actually cares about your undies then she's got bigger issues underneath.
Frankly I could care less if he wears tighty whities, boxers, or goes commando. Long as you don't wear a banana hammock and you smell good, you should be fine.
2007-01-18 11:07:40 · answer #6 · answered by Jadalina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you laugh at her and think less of her if it turns out she wears granny panties instead of a thong?
If not, then ask yourself... what the heck are *you* worrying about?
Since when have underwear preferences been such a big deal? I don't get it. It's the *person* that matters.
2007-01-18 11:10:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bramblyspam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude... the boxers rock... get used to them... you won't be disappointed. Also, it'll save you from some embarrassment. This is one change I don't regret.
But dude... don't make it a big deal, and she won't....
If you insist on wearing the whites... then develop your personality and don't think about what you're wearing.. don't get self-conscious... as long as you're relaxed and are having fun with her it should be okay.
2007-01-18 11:09:42 · answer #8 · answered by Think Richly™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try some colored tighties other wise forget it! If she is that up tight it will drive you to spanking the monkey in the corner! Not good!
2007-01-18 11:09:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW.. so your gurl seems to be a bit vain hey? Maybe she's differerent when it comes to YOU. If she is soo worried about the underwear you wear.. may be she s not worth having! Dont worry so much!!
Chill =)
2007-01-18 11:09:03 · answer #10 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋