I'm in a long distance realtionship. we met from the net, talked on the phone for close to 7 months before we finally met. We live 3 hours away. Ever since our initial meeting 3 months ago, we try to get together as much as we can, and normally it is on late notice. Anytime we aren't together and he goes out with his friends, he ALWAYS calls me sometime while he is out and leaves "I miss you, wish you were here messages." from his cell phone.
He has been acting alot different lately, though - very distant and rarely calls me anymore. We talked about it and he swore he loves me, and isn't with anyone else. I believed him until last weekend. He thought I was working late Saturday night and lft me a message saying hi and that he is in for the night. I called him 1hr later and said I am getting off at 7pm and want to spend the night with him tonight at his place. he called back and told me that I can't come because he is on his way to meet "people" and won't get home until late at night.
2007-01-18 11:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by sephia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
give him some space... you might be right but the truth is that it sounds to me that you sound a little paranoid. but hey, you might have more information that you aren't telling everyone and i might be right. but for now just let him a little loose, guys don't like girls hanging around all the time and being over possessive. GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-01-18 11:23:22 · answer #1 · answered by WickedWest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did u ask him y he told u he was in for the night and when u decide to come over he says hes leaving? Id say tell him bout ur suspicions but he would just lie to u if he is cheating. This is gonna sound very sneaky but....If u know where he lives then just show up some night and see whats up...or answer his call when he calls to leave u a message and see what u hear in the back ground. Ask to meet his friends, find out who all is going out with him. Males or females and if they r single or not. Thats the only things I can think of to tell u to try 4 now...
2007-01-18 19:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy really likes you he will do anything to see you, make time for you or really be there for you if you need him to be.
I did the long distance relationship thing with my bf. Any chance he had to see me - he did.
I'd move on and find someone else. Don't ring him for a while and see how long it takes him to call.
2007-01-18 19:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that it is nothing more than under alot of pressure. Every one times where they dont want to be with anyone sept for there friends to kick back and have a beer. So i wouldnt worry
2007-01-18 19:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋