I was in court today...yet again for no reason because my soon to be ex hasn't produced his paper work. His attorney told my attorney he "isn't accepting that this is happening" HELLO!!!! What part of divorce court is he not getting? So he's dragging this whole thing out costing both of us money we can't afford...for what? So it's never final? Whats the point?
2007-01-18 11:05:57 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not not leaving for another man. In a way I wish it were that simple.
2007-01-18 11:11:06 · update #1
Aloha Mia,
I guess it's that control syndrome. I have been there and I just took charge and filed my own papers, wrote a letter to the court requesting review of the case.
Hun, It's the same ole song and dance, he just has to have his way.
I am sorry for being blunt, but I hear you. I remember when I first told my Ex "NO" and he looked at me with this disgusted stare and replied what do you mean? I calmly turned to him and said which part of "No" you don't get? the "N" or the "O".
I am sorry you are going through this however, I became a legal assistant because of all that.
I wish you luck, and remember it's all about control.
Mahalo,
Anna
2007-01-18 11:22:04 · answer #1 · answered by annalani64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a thing about possession. They possess an emotional attachment to everything they come into contact with. Then when asked to drop the event that is tied to the emotion, they become bewildered, confused, deny it is happening, get angry and then they have release. Stop fighting in court and become detached. Leave him alone!
2007-01-18 22:50:07 · answer #2 · answered by psykokestrel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he still wants to hold on to the marriage that is why... If you want the divorce then you will have to come up with the money for it yourself to have it happen i think. He may still love you and he may still want the marriage.
2007-01-18 19:13:29 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to work things out. Why are you divorcing him? Another man?
2007-01-18 19:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not just men us women drag things out too its unfortunate that when its time to let go we are all afraid to
2007-01-18 19:10:12 · answer #5 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex has opened his eyes seeing you from the outside and he has the "if I can't have her nobody will" syndrome. You obiously have something special that he had forgotten all about until he realized that it didn't belong to him anymore. Just do your thing and know that there are enough of us to protect you from that crap. SMILE!!!
2007-01-21 01:50:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep with it. eventually he will get tired or broke. your freedom is important so don't let down your guard.
2007-01-18 19:11:09 · answer #7 · answered by martha1314 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pride? Don't know, Sweets. You know him better than we do!
2007-01-18 19:11:13 · answer #8 · answered by mickeyg1958 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you own half of this situation.
2007-01-18 19:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Desperado 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just gave it to him so good he just cant let go......
2007-01-22 16:09:34 · answer #10 · answered by morena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋