Family & Relationships - 18 January 2007

This Will Make You Cry...maybe..
Jenny was so happy about the house they had found.
For once in her life 'twas on the right side of town.
She unpacked her things with such great ease.
As she watched her new curtains blow in the breeze.
How wonderful it was to have her own room.
School would be starting; she'd have friends over soon.
There'd be sleep-overs, and parties; she was so happy
It's just the way she wanted her life to be.
She made new friends and even got a date!
She thought, "I want to be popular and I'm going to be,
Because I just got a date with the star of the team!"
To be known in this school you had to have a clout,
And dating this guy would sure help her out.
There was only one problem stopping her fate.
Her parents had said she was too young to date.
"Well, I just won't tell them the entire truth.
They won't know the difference; what's there to lose?"
Jenny asked to stay with her friends that night.
Her parents frowned but said, "All right."
Excited, she got ready for the big event
But as she rushed around like ! she had no ense,
She began to feel guilty about all the lies,
But what's a pizza, a party, and a moonlight ride?
Well the pizza was good, and the party was great, But
the moonlight ride would have to wait.
For Jeff was half drunk by this time.
But he kissed her and said that he was just fine.
Then the room filled with smoked and Jeff took a puff.
Jenny couldn't believe he was smoking that stuff.
Now Jeff was ready to ride to the point
But only after he'd smoked another joint.
They jumped in the car for the moonlight ride,
Not thinking that he was too drunk to drive.
They finally made it to! the point at last,
And Jeff started trying to make a pass.
(And by a pass, I don't mean playing football.)
"Perhaps my parents were right....maybe I am too young.
Boy, how could I ever, ever be so dumb."
With all of her might, she pushed Jeff say away:
"Please take me home, I don't want to stay."
Jeff cranked up the engine and floored the gas.
In a matter of seconds they were going too fast.
As Jeff drove on in a fit of wild anger,
Jenny knew that her life was in danger.
She begged and pleaded for him to slow down,
But he just got faster as they neared the town.
"Just let me get home! I'll confess that I lied.
I really went out for a moonlight ride."
Then all of a sudden, she saw a big flash.
"Oh God, Please he! lp us! We're going to crash!"
She doesn't remember the force of impact.
Just that everything all of a sudden went black.
She felt someone remove her from the twisted rubble,
And heard, "call an ambulance! These kids are in
trouble!>> Voices she heard...a few words at best.
But she knew there were two cars involved in the wreck.
Then wondered to herself if Jeff was all right,
And if the people in the other car was alive.
She awoke in the hospital to faces so sad.
"You've been in a wreck and it looks pretty bad."
These voices echoed inside her head,
As they gently told her that Jeff was dead.
They said "Jenny, we've done all we can do.
But it looks as if we'll lose you too."
"But the people in the other car!? "Jenny cried.
"We're sorry, Jenny, they also died."
Jenny prayed, "God, forgive me for what I've done
I only wanted to have just one night of fun."
"Tell those people's family, I've made their lives dim,
And wish I could return their families to them."
"Tell Mom and Dad I'm sorry I lied,
And that it's my fault so many have died.
Oh, nurse, won't you please tell them that for me?"
The nurse just stood there-she never agreed.
But took Jenny's hand with tears in her eyes.
And a few moments later Jenny died.
A man asked the nurse, "Why didn't you do your best
To bid that girl her one last request?"
She looked at the man with eyes so sad.
"Because the people in the other car were her mom and dad."

2007-01-18 11:32:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-18 11:31:57 · 41 answers · asked by NJboy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 11:31:45 · 18 answers · asked by britzygail 1 in Singles & Dating

"Abortion from a baby's point of view"

Dear Mommy,
I am in Heaven now, sitting on Jesus' lap. He loves me and cries with me; for my heart has been broken. I so wanted to be your little girl. I don't quite understand what has happened. I was so excited when I began realizing my existence. I was in a dark, yet comfortable place. I saw I had fingers and toes. I was pretty far along in my developing, yet not near ready to leave my surroundings. I spent most of my time thinking or sleeping. Even from my earliest days, I felt a special bonding between you and me. Sometimes I heard you crying and I cried with you. Sometimes you would yell or scream, then cry. I heard Daddy yelling back. I was sad, and hoped you would be better soon. I wondered why you cried so much. One day you cried almost all of the day. I hurt for you. I couldn't imagine why you were so unhappy. That same day, the most horrible thing happened. A very mean monster came into that warm, comfortable place I was in. I was so scared, I began screaming, but you never once tried to help me. Maybe you never heard me. The monster got closer and closer as I was screaming and screaming, "Mommy, Mommy, help me please; Mommy, help me." Complete terror is all I felt. I screamed and screamed until thought I couldn't anymore. Then the monster started ripping my arm off. It hurt so bad; the pain I can never explain. It didn't stop. Oh, how I begged it to stop. I screamed in horror as it ripped my leg off. Though I was in such complete pain, I was dying. I knew I would never see your face or hear you say how much you love me. I wanted to make all your tears go away had so many plans to make you happy. Now I couldn't; all my dreams were shattered. Though I was in utter pain and horror, I felt the pain of my heart breaking, above all. I wanted more than anything to be your daughter. No use now, for I was dying a painful death. I could only imagine the terrible things that they had done to you. I wanted to tell you that I love you before I was gone, but I didn't know the words you could understand. And soon, I no longer had the breath to say them; I was dead. I felt myself rising. I was being carried by a huge angel into a big beautiful place. I was still crying, but the physical pain was gone. The angel took me to Jesus and set me on His lap. He said He loved me, and He was my Father. Then I was happy. I asked Him what the thing was that killed me. He answered, "Abortion. I am sorry, my child; for I know how it feels." I don't know what abortion is; I guess that's the name of the monster. I'm writing to say that I love you and to tell you how much I wanted to be your little girl. I tried very hard to live. I wanted to live. I had the will, but I couldn't; the monster was too powerful. It sucked my arms and legs off and finally got all of me. It was impossible to live. I just wanted you to know I tried to stay with you. I didn't want to die. Also, Mommy, please watch out for that abortion monster. Mommy, I love you and I would hate for you to go through the kind of pain I did. Please be careful.

Love, Your Baby Girl

2007-01-18 11:31:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Even if she hated the father?

2007-01-18 11:31:16 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my best firend is a guy i`v met almost a year ago. he has been there for me in my worse and best days. he is extremly helpful, caring, loving and relaxing. shall i marry him or just go on with my life? ( p.s: i`m not searching, it just happend he said that he loves me 4 months ago).

2007-01-18 11:30:56 · 10 answers · asked by confused lover 2 in Singles & Dating

gum

2007-01-18 11:30:14 · 12 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-18 11:29:54 · 18 answers · asked by croman304 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend's birthday is coming up and we both said that since we are going to Mexico in August that for his birthday there'd be no gifts SO I want to give him a private strip show. What's a good song that I can use?

2007-01-18 11:29:51 · 9 answers · asked by tanny_banany2002 2 in Singles & Dating

First of all my roommate is a gay male and my best friend. Since we are so close and do live together, I wouldn't want to do anything to alter our relationship. However, I have the biggest crush on his younger brother (I'm 2 yrs his senior) and my roommate despises his brother. Therein lies the problem. I just need to know, if it would be wrong of me to pursue this relationship? And if my roommate were to get upset should I just tell him to deal with it?Any suggestions on how to break this to my roommate would be welcomed.

2007-01-18 11:29:47 · 10 answers · asked by Cool Guy With Long Hair 3 in Friends

My best friend finally got a boyfriend, and I'm happy for her and everything, but I'm also very worried about her. She really likes him, I guess, and she tells me that he's really nice, but he is sort of what you might call a 'bad boy'. He smokes pot and cigarettes, does ecstasy and he drinks. He probably does other stuff, too, but I'm not sure. He's also two years older than my friend (he turns 17 February 20 and she turns 15 February 2) I already told her to be careful and everything, but I'm not sure she'll listen to me. We also live in different states, so it's pretty much impossible to know what she's doing. I really need help. I know it's her business, but I really don't want her to screw up her whole life just for some loser she met. Oh and, she's never done any of these things before, I might add, but she might start, you never know.

2007-01-18 11:28:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-18 11:28:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

computer ? I am like I am not sure. You should maybe wait to see each other tomorrowl\. then she got upset and said you making me upset bye on phone and hung up kind of

using me or just upset, together for 1yr

2007-01-18 11:28:03 · 17 answers · asked by boshie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this friend, which actually was my BF not long a go, i love him to much, enough to let him go if his happiness is not with me, what worries me is the situation he is going thru.... he broke up with me saying that he doesnt love, which is something i understand, we start going out just the day after he broke up with the other, and i think he tried to put the feeling he had on her on another person (me) this girl managed to break down his self-confidence, making him believe he CANT live without her, even when the only thing she does is hurt him, she cheated on him more than 6 times, and im serious people... this guy was or is totally inlove with her, he ended up in a hospital cus of the deep depression caused by the situation with her..... i love him so much, i dont want him back if he doesnt want me.... but i deep inside i have this strong feeling that i have to help him, but i dont know how, he wouldnt talk to me anymore cus he thinks he is hurting me, which is not true

2007-01-18 11:27:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Always with the talking... jeezus!

2007-01-18 11:27:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I started dating this new guy and I met his cousin. I really like his cousin more. I just don't know what to tell him. Any advice???

2007-01-18 11:26:57 · 8 answers · asked by jstud 2 in Singles & Dating

It used to be the 3 of us when school started. We promised to be best friends no matter what happens. Now, one has left and hangs out with ppl who are wannabes and ignores us. The one that's still hanging out with me say it's boring with just the 2 of us but she usually ditches me for her old friend. B/c of that, I am usually alone now. I don't want to be a loner (no offense). It's just that I had friends since I was little so I'm not used to it. I want it 2 be the 3 of us like be4. What should I do???

2007-01-18 11:26:45 · 4 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Friends

Is it okay to lie to keep from hurting someone's feelings?

2007-01-18 11:25:34 · 9 answers · asked by frozenpancake582 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is very kind and reserved but when he senses that any boy is flirting with me or I'm nice to him, he gets extremely agitated, and he stays silent about it. It seems that and guy that become friends with or I'm friendly with bothers him. He doesn't ever do anything because of his personality. But when he tells me when a boy bothers him, I'm not sure what to say. Am I not allowed to have other guy friends?

2007-01-18 11:25:02 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter is going to a wedding to help the parents watch the kids there. It is in the afternoon and she doesn't know what to wear. Should she dress more casual since she will be changing diapers and be playing with kids the whole time?

2007-01-18 11:24:21 · 27 answers · asked by music addict 2 in Weddings

It's a very long story but me and a girl I liked for many years stopped being friends many months ago as she said because of my feelings we couldn;t be friends. She always knew how I felt and gave me the impression she liked me on many occassions, but any how she one day emailed me to tell me to never contact her again, which upset me greatly but I did what she asked. About about 3 months later she sent me a message just saying hi and hope i'm ok etc. I replied in a nice way and assumed it was her way of making everything end on a nicer note. It again was hard for me as it got me thinking about her so much more again. But then gradually it started to sink in that I wont hear from her ever again. Now all of a sudden about two months on I got an email saying she had invited me to be her friend on one of those online profile things.

2007-01-18 11:24:08 · 19 answers · asked by Mr looking for answers 2 in Friends

Her cousin asked him out for her and he said that he would rather shoot himself then to go out with her. And she had really liked him for the past few months and she even gave him a christmas card and he just crushed her. If he would have just said no, she wouldn't be so upset. What can I do to help her get through this? Do you think that this guy is a complete jerk?!?!?!? Thanks!

~Rachey

2007-01-18 11:23:32 · 10 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-01-18 11:23:10 · 10 answers · asked by Jordan M 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend she keeps asking on my file such rediculous questions alot of them are made up from her mind? what should i tell her that wont offend her

2007-01-18 11:23:01 · 1 answers · asked by Britanie 3 in Friends

just answer it I just wanna see what people say

2007-01-18 11:21:32 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is a new girl in school. I showed her around. We are in high school. she seems like she is very sweet. i showed her some of her classrooms and got to know her a lil. How can i go getting to know more about her? i dont want to ask the wrong thing since i dont know how she is. Whats some things i could try or do?

2007-01-18 11:21:07 · 10 answers · asked by junkie_rider_2007 1 in Singles & Dating

Brother inlaw called child protective services on us ,because we called the law on him,and had a restraint order aginst him to stay away.a real bad seed.it was his way of revenge on us.though we passed with flying colors with the agency it still seems cowardly,for me i dont care but my wife wants to have some pat back.{go figure}

2007-01-18 11:21:00 · 26 answers · asked by michael b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im 14, my bf is 15... i really like him and i told him i was gonna get him something for valentines day but i dont know what to get him!! what do i get him that says: ur everything to me. ???

2007-01-18 11:20:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so i was in gym class nd this tom-boy girl that i know was kinda pushing me so i tried to get some space and went bad to the line and then i pushed her( i had no choice, i had to get bak in the line) nd the she kept on pushing nd she is wasy taller than me, so she kept pushin, i felt soo bad but one of my friend told the teacher nd she got into trouble but now i keep thinking about it, it maked me soooo sad nd mad, it rly hurt me thinking about it, nd now im gon see the teacher that know about it 2moro it makes me feel uncomfortable, how do i deal wit that 2moro?
and how do i try 2 stop think wat happen?

2007-01-18 11:20:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-18 11:19:51 · 16 answers · asked by gregdean 1 in Marriage & Divorce