i have this friend, which actually was my BF not long a go, i love him to much, enough to let him go if his happiness is not with me, what worries me is the situation he is going thru.... he broke up with me saying that he doesnt love, which is something i understand, we start going out just the day after he broke up with the other, and i think he tried to put the feeling he had on her on another person (me) this girl managed to break down his self-confidence, making him believe he CANT live without her, even when the only thing she does is hurt him, she cheated on him more than 6 times, and im serious people... this guy was or is totally inlove with her, he ended up in a hospital cus of the deep depression caused by the situation with her..... i love him so much, i dont want him back if he doesnt want me.... but i deep inside i have this strong feeling that i have to help him, but i dont know how, he wouldnt talk to me anymore cus he thinks he is hurting me, which is not true
2007-01-18 11:27:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
he doesnt hurt me, long a go a learned that the one that breaks is not the heaty but the pride cus people wont do things the way we want.... i want him happy and i wanna help him, i cant let him down..... how can i do it? how can i make him first understand that he doesnt hurt me by seeing me or talking to me.... i know he enjoys hes time with me cus im a "damn" positive person, always full of energy and always looking at the bright side of things, and i think thats why he likes to be around me.... but now, how to help him?
2007-01-18 11:29:54 · update #1
tell him how you feel, seriously, if you can tell it hurt him that much, and it hurts you, too, tell him. there's no reason to hold it in. he needs to know, or this isn't going to get fixed. if she hurt him, she doesn't deserve a guy at all like him
2007-01-18 11:34:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him if you haven't! I vote that you be honest with him, a friend never lies right? If he's not your friend anymore for not liking his girl, I think you shouldtalk to her and tell her that he's your best bud, and you don't want to see him get hurt.If she doesn't listen ,I would punch her butt!!!!!
2007-01-18 19:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by foxyladyy456 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is on the rebound, just be patient and keep trying.
2007-01-18 19:36:36 · answer #3 · answered by sunflare63 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋