It used to be the 3 of us when school started. We promised to be best friends no matter what happens. Now, one has left and hangs out with ppl who are wannabes and ignores us. The one that's still hanging out with me say it's boring with just the 2 of us but she usually ditches me for her old friend. B/c of that, I am usually alone now. I don't want to be a loner (no offense). It's just that I had friends since I was little so I'm not used to it. I want it 2 be the 3 of us like be4. What should I do???
2007-01-18 11:26:45 · 4 answers · asked by Annie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
maybe try to talk to ur friends about hangin out again, or just move on and find different friends. its time to move on and leave the past as is. it's gonna be hard leaving ur friends, but technically, they left u first. they must not really be the friends you thought they were
2007-01-18 11:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to be negative here, but sometimes things like this do happen and friends grow apart. Consider this a form of evolution.
This happened to me with my best friend and I (we were about 13 at the time, but we've known each other since diapers), we simply grew apart and stayed cordial, but not really close, for about three years. Eventually things panned out, and now we're both 20, and though we've both gone through other friends, she's somebody that I know I can always count on.
The truth is, sometimes the space is good for you, because then you know who your true friends are.
2007-01-18 11:57:38 · answer #2 · answered by Sweet Jane 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your friends how you feel. if they are real friends they should understand or at least try to. if that doesnt work then go find others who may look like they dont really have many friends.
2007-01-18 11:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by Roni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them let them know how u feel
2007-01-18 11:40:20 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica415 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋