Ok my friend lives next to me and she has a brother he is 16 and im 13 i like him alot and he likes me to i spent the night one day and his sister left me in his room we stayed up till 4:00 am and started makin out i think he was trying to go all the way but i told him i wasnt ready i like him what do i do because i feel if i do my friend wouldnt like me and say i only was her friend for him
2007-01-18 10:33:51 · 10 answers · asked by MARCiiA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your friend isnt the only thing you have to worry about your parents will probably be upset because hes so much older than you i dot think theres anything wrong with it but he shouldnt have tried going all the way with you just tell your friend and tell her that you have started likeing her brother after you guys became friends and that if you and him have a relationship that you still want to be friends
good luck
2007-01-18 10:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look he is 16, you are 13, there's your first problem, then your friend is the other. I have been in the same situation, I chose the boy and all it got me was a broken heart about 6 months down the road after I did sleep with him when I was 13 and he was 16, and I lost my best friend too. You need to choose which person means more to you and will be there for you no matter what. No one can completely answer this question for you, you will have to choose. Good Luck!
2007-01-18 10:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well her brother seems like a pervert you are entirely too young for him to be trying to do that with you anyway. In two years he'll be 18 then what? If you guys make out is he still going to do it? With your friend, if you've known her for a long time, no good friend is going to be thinking that anyway, so in that department you have nothing to worry about. You're just way too young. Find someone your own age sweetie. He's too old for you.
2007-01-18 10:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your only 13 you shouldn't be doing anything like that, do you even know him that well? I'm not just saying that cause i'm older but my friend got mad at me for doing stuff with one of her guy friends and she was mad at me for a while. I'd at least tell your friend what you did and kinda let her know what's going on. It'll be a whole lot worse if she would of like come in when you guys were making out.
2007-01-18 10:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by lovelylittlelady 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this one guy did that to me too. then he ended up asking me out the difference was i didn't like him so i said no but she's probably just shy or doesn't know what to talk to you about. sometime try asking her if she wants to hang out with a group of friends so you can get to know her better and be really talkative and pay lots of attention to her so she feels more comfortable around you and the way she acts when you go over to her in the halls is also a sign she might like you and she's just really shy and doesn't know how to tell you. -hope this helped
2016-05-24 04:48:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am no one to judge you, however think of your friend boys come and go, but some friends stick together till the end, is he truly worth it? think about it. I think he is just playing with you.
2007-01-18 10:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by stupid lol 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how this is a question, but same thing happened to me except it was my brothers friend spending the night at my house.
2007-01-18 10:37:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you were right not to go all the way . your too young, just stay friends with both of them.
2007-01-18 10:38:22 · answer #8 · answered by as 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her about him and that eventhough you like her bro that doesn't mean we still aren't friends just inform her before so nothing happens between you two.
2007-01-18 10:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by soccergurl123 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GO ALL THE WAY?AT 13? BET ME U WILL REGRET IT
2007-01-18 10:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋