So I have hung out kinda a lot with this one guy. We eventually had sex, and I am pretty sure he likes me. I always thought he should be the one to bring up having a relationship, but now I am thinking of doing that. Is that acceptable, and if so what should I say?
2007-01-18 10:40:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The guy, for a change...because we always find out we're in one way before we're ready. And then it's like pulling teeth to get out alive. But in your case, you've kinda put the cart before the horse by having sex before establishing a "relationship". He's getting free milk, why buy a cow now. Not trying to call you a cow, but I hope you get my drift.
2007-01-18 10:43:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not yet. Too quickly. in case you have basically seen one yet another three times given which you have began speaking, the two look ahead to him to convey it up, or wait till you have easily spent time with him some greater circumstances to assert something. Asking stuff like that this early will freak him out. he's a guy. i'm merely being truthful. one greater element: I hate to sound brutal, yet there's a reason which you have gotten your coronary heart broken numerous circumstances...you "do not play video games". you may play video games. i'm sorry. you may. in case you do not play video games no guy will ever know you. it is merely the way it is going. permit's say you meet an exceptionally warm guy at a bar. he's humorous and funky and makes particularly some funds. You 2 get on properly and after 2 hours, you're arranged to go in with him and function thousands of babies with him. Do you permit him comprehend this? HELL NO! for this reason we play video games. we can't look like psychos.
2016-12-16 07:49:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is all u on that 1
2007-01-18 10:42:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would have brought it up BEFORE having sex with him. But hey that's just me. I don't have casual sex because I've learned that having sex with someone you love is waaaaay more satisfying sexually, mentally and emotionally. Now that you've already had sex with him I think it's not only acceptable for you to bring it up, but I'd like to know: why on earth wouldn't you? If he says he's not interested in a relationship, and you ARE interested, then you'll know to move on to someone who is interested in you, not just sex.
2007-01-18 10:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by StrawberryShortcake 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you might want to get in a relationship before you have sex next time. Either one of you could bring it up....but if you've already had sex, maybe a relationship wasn't in the picture for him.
2007-01-18 10:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Greg S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haley, I think you need to work on your self esteem before you open yourself up to being used.
Back off all relationships and get to know and value yourself before you have sex with someone you can't even talk to.
I know beginning a relationship is awkward at times, but if his opinion matters to you, you should KNOW he likes you A LOT before you have sex. You shouldn't have to guess at his feelings.
2007-01-18 11:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop suttle hints that you want a relationship..
The good ol" Im waiting for a relationship with someone b4 i have sex" one usually works.... But you already got down & dirty..
So try some other manipulative things...
Or maybe take him to the movies or somewhere fun so he has a great time... Be a prick tease girl!!
2007-01-18 10:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Dr Pink Puppy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You guys had sex and you think he "kinda likes" you.....um, it depends on how long you guys have been going out for and if you think he will be a good boyfriend. Also go into a relationship with the long road ahead.
2007-01-18 10:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by cesarsauce 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes."We have been with each other for a while now,and if you feel the same way I do,Ithink we are ready to make a relationship".
2007-01-18 10:46:10 · answer #9 · answered by iloveskulls8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So let me get this straight you were able to have sex with him but you don't know how to talk to him?How old are you anyway?
2007-01-18 10:43:57 · answer #10 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋