How do you handle knowing you'll never see or hear from someone who you really like again?

Question

So this guy at school and I were kind of close for a little while, we talked a lot and even kissed a few times. There was a 5 week break, and I come back the next semester thinking I'll get to see him, and really looking forward to it, when I find out that he is no longer at my school! I can't contact him, it's impossible. I am just so devistated that it took me about 24 hours for the situation to actually sink in. I really like him a lot, and I don't think I'll ever forget him. I know it will take some time to get over, but how do I make it happen faster?? I hate being sad :0(

Answer 1

Of course you're feeling bad. And you may never forget him but you can put him in the "nice memory" category. Give it time; don't try to hurry it. Meanwhile, keep busy with school and friends. Help out at home. Time will pass.

Answer 2

well u can find out where he is gone thru the matron or any person..........school ppl usually keep track of why the person is moving n may be where..........just tell that u hav his important notes or anythin dat u want to giv him

n secondly time will eventually take u along........listen to some gud songs n not the sad ones........n try tellin urself theres nothin u can do..........

if u really like him n even he does m sure he will try contacting u n u might hit onto each other...........fate n luck is sumthin u cant forget u know.........they work wonders......

All the best

Answer 3

Try calling his house. If he moved...maybe there is a forwarded phone number. Do you have a mutual friend who possibly has more information about where he went? Try these. I wish you luck in finding him :)

Answer 4

it's ok actually to be sad thats how we get over things the right way to deny it ,just makes us go crazy inside.take what you've learned from this and apply in your next relationship you'l be surprised how it actually helps.

Answer 5

after a while you will eventually let go. get other things on your mind like school friends and other stuff.after a while i am sure you will find a new bf

Answer 6

with time