How long to make a move?

Question

Ok this has just been bugging me for too long now. I started seeing this woman. In the end it ended up bad( it didn't need to). One of her complaints was that I didn't make a move in the first 5 chances.

She expressed how disturbed she was by this. Yet I got very intimate(sex) with her, about a month after first meeting her. I'll admit at first I was just looking at it as a friend situation, but then started to really like her.

So what is the correct amount of chances men should get to make a move for a kiss or holding hands or something else that just seems to be more intimate?

This isn't the whole story and I also admit that I had been out of the dating world for almost four years. We were both 28 at the time.

Am I wrong? Did I not move fast enough. I would tend to think that sex a month later would say pretty fast.

Siiiiiiiigghhhhh. Help. Help relieve my mind. Thanks.

Answer 1

Hey! life isn't just about "her" it's about you and how you feel too, I wouldn't still be worrying about it. To thine own self be true :)