My bf loves me, therefore he wants to break up with me, bc he feels unworthy. What should I do to keep him?

Question

Been dating 9 months, been great. He gave 3 reasons for breaking up: (1) Love. he loves me, therefore he wants to break up with me. Basically, he feels unworthy of me so bad about continuing to date me, and would break up as an act of love. (2) Time. He wants us to spend time doing other things, and grow while apart. (3) Timing. He wants us to break up while "our relations are still beautiful"/before we start disliking each other (Something I doubt will ever need to happen). I know he is being sincere, he insists that those are his reasons. From the beginning he has shown signs of being insecure about himself. He started dating me by saying "I Don't feel proportionate/worthy of you, but I want to date you." I already told him his reasons don't make any sense. He wrote back "The reasons for thinking lets break up are what I said just before. I am honestly so absolutely grateful to you. I think it is better if we break up." What should I do to stay together? He is truthful

Answer 1

If you think he is sincere get him help.If you love him you will ofer to go with him.Good Luck.

Answer 2

I'm sorry, I didn't read the whole thing but if he told you that, you need to ask him what her name is. I've dated several girls that I didn't feel worthy of but that only made me want them more and made me want to change myself to become more worthy.

Answer 3

Gosh, talk about a bunch of Bull. He's found someone else.
Get out of that situation and go find yourself a real man.