I just started having lunch with my boyfriend at school. We're so used to doing our own thing its really tough. I like to go to the library and study, he likes to eat and hang with friends. i HATE his friends and i cant stand them. I dont know what to do! should we just hang with each other or should i just put up with his friends and be with them? Dont mention my girl friends.. big blow out with them so right now.. i'm friendless!! well..not friendless but with out GOOD friends.
2007-01-18 09:58:34 · 15 answers · asked by Sumer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go to the back stairwell and kiss
2007-01-18 10:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have lunch alone with your boyfriend like 2 times a week and spend the rest with your friends. They were your friends before he came along and will probably be there long after he is gone. During that time with your friends, you can talk and hopefully work out the big blow out. As for hanging out with his friends, they're his friends and that doesn't mean you have to be friends with them. My boyfriend and I both have our own group of friends but we also get along if we go out with each others groups. Take the time to get to know them, they might be really interesting.
2007-01-18 18:04:43 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have to put up with your boys friends no matter what so you might as well get over your fear now and hang out with them at lunch. Id rather do that then hang out by myselph. For your friends, whatever you are all fighting about get over it and make up with them. Then you can hang out with them and hang out with your boy and his friends. It will all work out how it should.
2007-01-18 18:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If doing your own thing at lunch works for both of you, stick with it. Having a boyfriend is a luxury, not a neccessity. Enjoy him when you want to!!
2007-01-18 18:02:15 · answer #4 · answered by freeriderss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
chicky if u want to be with this guy. his friends are always gonna be around. from experience. ive been with my partner for 2 years and i cant stand his friends. now i just let them no that. its completly up to u. have you tried getting along with them. they might actually be cool? who knows
do what you think is right
good luck
2007-01-18 18:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can compromise by doing something like every Saturday, go out for lunch-just you and him.
PS-sorry about the blowout with your friends! =(
2007-01-18 18:04:01 · answer #6 · answered by gubble_bum234 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I would do is talk to your boyfriend and tell him how you feel. If this doesn't go well you should consider will this be a healthy relationship or will this be a distraction.
2007-01-18 18:05:08 · answer #7 · answered by soldier4christ_05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop thinking of yourself all the time. make a deal with him where he can spend time with you most of the time, but with his friends the rest of the time. then if he does not agree, dump him, he obviously thinks nothing of you so get with some1 new =D happy days!!
2007-01-18 18:04:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he comes to the library with you you'll find a quiet isle for you to make out with him in
2007-01-18 18:01:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore his friends. Eat with him alone.
2007-01-18 18:05:25 · answer #10 · answered by peon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool.
2007-01-18 18:00:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋