we met through our bffs who are engaged, fell in love, got engaged, but in august when i had to leave for school (i was going to visit him as i had done in the past) he got into drougs, sold his cell phone, left state, and we didnt hear from him since late august, and then, out of nowhere, he goes to visit my best friend and his best friend (who live together) just to say hello. he asked if they had heard from me and they told him that i was just over 2 days before and we talk everyday. end of story when it came to me. he didnt leave a # or ask for mine, or anything... he just didnt want to see me or something i dunno. but id like to see him and talk to him because i still love him, but why do i bother if he doesnt seem to still love me?
2007-01-18 09:58:00 · 5 answers · asked by penny_4_my_thoughts 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's normal to want to see him if u love him but i wouldn't bother if i were u. try and move on and find someone else who cares about u or just feel free to take a break. i tried it and it worked and i'm better off without him. hope it helps.
2007-01-18 10:05:50 · answer #1 · answered by lila 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't go back! He hasn't been in touch for months, he's into drugs (I'm not saying that makes him a bad person, but people on drugs are hard work to be around if you're not high yourself), he didn't leave a number or ask for yours, so the signs are that for whatever reason, he's not that keen on seeing you any more. It's a hard thing to do when what you want to do is run after him and hug him forever, but leave him behind and go on with your life. Remember the good times you had together, but don't lose sight of the fact that there were bad times as well, and do yourself a favour. Don't be with someone who doesn't want to be with you 100%. Good luck. Enjoy school as much as you can and enjoy your life on your terms.
2007-01-18 18:07:20 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually I would say leave his a$$ behind, but he sounds like he might be in need of an intervention. Try to find him, but not on your own, and go as a friend, not as someone wanting love.
2007-01-18 18:01:53 · answer #3 · answered by stn1225 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do we girls waste so much time and our loving hearts on losers? I still love my ex bf who is so fugged up, it aint even funny, but I have learned that no matter how much I love him, he doesnt even love himself, so how can I expect him to love me? Just keep him in your prayers and always know that you need someone in your life who is going to love you back. Take care and GOOD Luck!
2007-01-18 18:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Lou Lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh, if you haven't figured it out by now, you're probably better off that he's out of the picture.
2007-01-18 18:00:53 · answer #5 · answered by Mr Joshua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋