In the current situation, my friend "John" who used to work with me, ended up in the same place as my crush "Jane" and you saw the instant spark and before the end of the night, they were practically in bed. I know it shouldn't be a big deal, I should be happy for them, etc. And really I am, except that this has happened before (twice in highschool and once in Job Corp).
Eventually after this happens I become friens with both of them, and it's not a big deal, but I'm starting to think that there's something wrong with me. Do Beautiful People hang out with me to make themselve's look better? Does it work so well that their own standards are lowered and they hook up with someone they normally wouldn't? Or maybe, the girls that I have crushes on like me as a person but not my looks? So when they meet my friends who are similar to me but better looking they jump at the best of both worlds?
Or maybe I'm being paranoid, but this problem seems fairly unique.
Thanks :)
2007-01-18 09:58:56 · 2 answers · asked by Jason F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
May be you have crushes on girls that are out of your league. I bet girls have had crushes on you but you didn't find them attractive enough to date or didn't even notice them. The truth hurts.
2007-01-18 10:03:55 · answer #1 · answered by Jp83 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? Looks do count, physical looks is a MAJOR component, particularly in initial attractivness.
2007-01-18 18:05:50 · answer #2 · answered by darchangel_3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋