Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

I dont get it. You are supposed to marry a man so that you can loaf on your $ss all day and not have to work. Women provide sex, kids, and housework. Men provide the $$$.

2007-01-17 09:18:57 · 27 answers · asked by 2doornot2do 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you meet a fun person but they hate the food you like, will you break up with them? does it really matter?

2007-01-17 09:18:22 · 20 answers · asked by Happy:) 3 in Singles & Dating

K WELL HERES MY PROMBLEM I LIKE THIS GUYAND HE LIKES ME INFACT HE SAYS HE LOVES ME THATS GOOD AND ALL BUT THE PROMBLEM IS THAT HE KNOWS IM SINGLE BUT WHY WONT HE ASK MEOUT??

2007-01-17 09:18:21 · 8 answers · asked by hottie 2 in Singles & Dating

I previously posted this question. The Details: Awhile back i filed for a protective order against my then husband. I lied about there being physical abuse so i could get the order. Then waited 2 days, and called police to report he violated the order. He was arrested and jailed for 2 years. He never violated the order. I set him up. As he was being sentenced and led from the courtroom in chains and handcuffs, he turned to me and said "When you least expect it, I'll be there".
He served 730 consecutive days. I was waiting in line at the post office for this well dressed gentleman to get his business done at the counter, as he turned to leave I looked up and saw that it was my ex.

2007-01-17 09:17:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I really love my girlfriend alot but I dont know how to prove to her how much I love her.....any Ideas???

2007-01-17 09:16:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 09:16:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lots of crushes... but two loves.

2007-01-17 09:16:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 09:16:00 · 11 answers · asked by Jeff B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Should i give her my number? What shall i do?

Please help me, Am i going too slow or fast( just got out of a bad realtionship, if you wan to call it that!) Please help me on this !!

2007-01-17 09:15:35 · 8 answers · asked by Doc Rick 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 09:14:54 · 9 answers · asked by Melissa 5 in Singles & Dating

Hes always loookin @ me
Hes always talkin 2 me
He goes out of his way 2 stand next 2 me

2007-01-17 09:14:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

On some days my husband gets a hard on through the day. This hard on can be mildly visable to fully erect. Coincidently, this is only when are children (2 & 7 mon.) are awake and he is the primary care taker. At night times it takes a battle for me trying to get him aroused. Is my husband a pedophile? He isn't oddly affectionate with them atleast when I'm here. Is he thinking of someone else? He lies over everything so he wouldn't have that type of honesty to tell the truth. He explains it away with he has to pee. If anyone else comes over you don't see his penis through his pants anymore. Like magic! My argument is, if peeing does make a guy hard, just go pee. It suprises me that this doesn't disturb him to be hard around the children. What haapens when they get old enough to understand. I have talked to him and that goes no where. I need to know if there is anything to worry about, how to correct it, or something.

2007-01-17 09:14:39 · 12 answers · asked by muskyheart 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I think I'm 100% straight. I would never in a million years consider dating a girl, I strictly like guys (not against gays or anything like that). I've never had a crush on a girl or thought things that you do think about with a crush about another girl.

The only time I ever am attracted to girls is when I imagine what it would be like to have sex with them. not even to kiss. thats the only time ever. i dont think about a specific girl, just A girl. its weird. never had a crush on a girl, just guys. what am i?

2007-01-17 09:14:17 · 68 answers · asked by Christy J 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been married 7 years, i left a year ago to live on my own and decide what i wanted from my life. I am now back at home because i wanted to do everything possible to say i gave it my all and we felt we couldn't work on our marriage if i was not living home. I am back and feel like everything is still the same. However, i have a husband who loves me to death, is super nice, but has not been able to provide for me and my stepson the way i feel i want to be taken care of. I have always carried the financial burden and worry and i am very tired of it. I am approaching 40 and feel that i am losing out on time. i do know the grass isn't greener on the other side and i am afraid to throw this away for the wrong reasons, but i believe i may be asking for things that my husband isn't capable of...people are who they are right???

2007-01-17 09:14:14 · 12 answers · asked by vogue69 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Facts:
Been together for 8 months
broke up 4 days ago
he said that he wasn't feeling the relationship, it's not me it's him and he doesn't know what he wants, and its best that we break up now rather then ten years from now because he don't see a forever with us.
We still talk on the phone, text, go home together, and have sex, but we're not together.
I'm hurting in a confused way....he's there for me, holds me when I cry, and listens to my laments. He's breaking up with me and he's being there for me at the same time? What is going on?

2007-01-17 09:14:10 · 4 answers · asked by Cathy 4 in Singles & Dating

This kid in my 6th period asked me out through his friend. His friend's name is Vinny. She said that he said he has liked me for a long time and really wants to go out with me. I don't get asked out often, and I don't know what to say. I told them I would have to think about it. I don't know what to do, because I've never even talked to this guy before and I barely even know his name.

2007-01-17 09:13:18 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Singles & Dating

Pleaze help i NEED this to be great
he is my first BF

2007-01-17 09:12:59 · 11 answers · asked by Sage Elizabethhh 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm the father and i don't want my child living with another guy that isn't married to the mother.

2007-01-17 09:12:19 · 45 answers · asked by dustin s 1 in Family

2007-01-17 09:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by betsywilcox_40371 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 09:12:14 · 10 answers · asked by Trick of the Tail 4 in Singles & Dating

I live in a home owned by my mother. Another sister lives next door. Years ago I decided that the boys will be able to see their mom once their 18. Right now they're 9 and 7. My mother agreed at the time but changed her mind. (Sister has lost 4 kids I have 2). 3yrs ago she threatened to take me out of the will if I did'nt let her have supervised visits. I said do what you do. Recently, mom had sister over her house (sister lives in independent living for alcohol/drug abuse and emotional issues-she was taken from her own biological mother because of abuse and the fact that she started a fire that killed her grandmother) to celebrate her birthday. My mom called me to let me know and I took over a gift - minus the boys. Now, she says that my sister will be moving next door (living w/another sister and her boyfriend) to get her GED. I don't want her next door. When she used to visit, the boys exhibited problems everytime she left. I live in Detroit, MI., legal advice? Help

2007-01-17 09:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by Emerald Jones 5 in Family

im 13 and 4'10 and a half (yess i know im short!)
But the grade 9 always go like ur so short and bla bla bla but not to other short people, like today at lunch those guys were like wow ur short and right beside me was a girl an inch taller than me and they didnt say anythin
and also my class mate goes like ur so short)! but not to other short people
so why do they always say that to me!!?

2007-01-17 09:11:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Its turnign into a huge thing, and its taking over my life.
My parents are like totally worried that I'm never happy and i'm a dippresed person.
The thing is when I'm with my friends I'm the one making everyone laugh, and I'm never sad at shcool or with my mates ut at home its so boring and since me and my dad have never gotten alonge and I dont ever want to get alone with him, he's being all mean to me and makes really mean comments.
Like when I shout he sais really mean things like yea no one is gone want to live with yoy and they wont be able to stand you.... and that really hurts my feelings....
What do I do to try to control my anger?? how do i keep cool about thins??/

2007-01-17 09:10:51 · 6 answers · asked by anali b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The last few months with Amie have been going great. Last night before we left for work she told me that she loved me. She even gave me a long kiss on the mouth.
This is what I have longed for. Ever since we parted I have wanted her back. It has taken me two years and I feel we are on the right track now.
This morning she let me hold her as we were laying in bed. She gave me another long kiss this morning as we were getting ready to leave. She is finally showing me that she cares for me again.
I have anticipated what I would do in case this ever took place.
I have wanted to ask her to re-marry me. I have waited. I have asked before if I should propose to her and was told to wait till she gave me some signs as to where our relationship was heading.
My question is should I hold off just a bit longer? Should I propose to her? Or let things stay as they are.
I really love Amie and don't want to lose her again. I feel that if I don't do the right thing I feel she will leave again.

2007-01-17 09:10:39 · 17 answers · asked by Jerrie's Daddy 2 in Singles & Dating

Hubby and I have been together 6 years, married 2. We have had a variety of issues from day one, but they have gotten a lot worse since we married. He has a hard time standing up to his ex-wife, for fear of upsetting his daughter. I have asked him time and again to stand up to her, to stop taking her side, to act like he and I are married, not he and the ex still married. It has gotten so bad that we had some issues this summer and he actually told his ex about them. She confronted me in my home about something and after asking her to leave several times, she tried to start a physical fight with me....in my house. Hubby says I wasn't there, didn't see what happened.....therefore I don't believe you or my ex as far as what happened and since I wasn't there it doesn't make me that mad. Shouldn't he take his wifes side, regardless of what happened? He said he will never stand up to her the way I feel he should....Do I stay or do I go?

2007-01-17 09:09:51 · 17 answers · asked by Nikki77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been sittting there for maybe 3 months now and the people there dont like me. whenever i go to sit down, they stare at me then go back tot talking. I usually dont talk becuase im shy and im scared ill say something they dont like. They havent really minded me since yseterday when one guy said,"why do you keep trying to sit here?". WHat does this mean and what should i do? tehre really isn't any other place to sit in the cafiteria, non of my friends are in this lunch.

2007-01-17 09:09:08 · 11 answers · asked by big e 2 in Friends

2007-01-17 09:08:44 · 48 answers · asked by michee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-17 09:08:40 · 25 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 09:08:11 · 11 answers · asked by notaloser321 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather have a husband that helps around the house, cooks, takes care of you or have a husband that does not help or cook and 2 kids?

why and are you male or female?

2007-01-17 09:08:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships