Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

I am Seperated and have filed for divorce after 5 years of my husbands terrible lies. He is begging forgiveness and has been for help in the past (Hypnotherapy twice and marriage guidance) and says its a Mental Illness could this be True? Ive never heard of Lies being linked to Mental illness is he Lying Again?

2007-01-17 08:49:02 · 47 answers · asked by maria t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

(she got my number from my parents) and by the looks of it, she seems to want a booty call.

I'm really not interested in sex w/ her at all bc I'm completely into Asian chicks these days, and she's a white girl. Yes people, I've got yellow fever.

But the idea of passing on guilt free pleasure is disturbing me, but then again, I can't find myself attracted to a woman unless she's asian... what the hell's my problem?

Additional info: During my teenage years I had sex w/ her approximately 500 times, so there really wouldn't be that thrill of doing it.

Also, my ex is coming off as really desparate from my point of view and that turns me off too.

2007-01-17 08:48:55 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

was wondering whats the right age to date? I'm 16 and i haven't had any relationships....Their not a huge deal to me cause i'd rather have friends and stuff, but am i too young? My mom says i am and idk i can wait until they give me permssion to but if the right guy comes along then do you think it would be okay for me to ask permission?

2007-01-17 08:48:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 08:48:37 · 16 answers · asked by Curious 5 in Weddings

We dated for over a year and a half and moved in together. It started getting kinda hard when he was talking and emailing girls, even though they were "jokes". I have caught him in lies before. New Years Eve he got upset with me and just didn't come home, without calling or anything. I was so worried, and that is what basically ended our relationship. He says he is confused and just needs time right now, but I feel like I can't live without him. I moved here to be with him and it breaks my heart being in our apartment alone while he is living in the same city as me. I want to know what I can do to make him realize that what we had was great. I know there are a lot of things that I need to work on as well....i just want him back and to be with him again. I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH, I know he was the one for me! Please help me!!! Thanks for the words of wisdom!

2007-01-17 08:48:12 · 2 answers · asked by Lindsay U 1 in Singles & Dating

What makes a man decide to give a woman his heart? Is it the moment or because he feels close to her and wants to open up. I know that sometimes that is a difficult task for a man. I was curious because last night my boyfriend said he gave me his heart after he opened up to me about some very personal issues he was having.

Just curious as to how other people feel about the subject, and what makes you break down and give out your heart.

2007-01-17 08:48:08 · 30 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 08:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like suicide drugs pregnancy drooping out of school ect.

2007-01-17 08:47:28 · 1 answers · asked by Star 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

dont trust her, she never tells me anything

2007-01-17 08:46:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 08:46:40 · 15 answers · asked by Mr.President 2 in Singles & Dating

I emailed him quite a few times,I really want to meet him.All the other guys are scary lookin.He's 41 Im 38.I been waiting for his reply's.I posted a cute picture of myself and my puppy think he'll notice me then.He's athelectic and physically fit.He's into hiking ect..

2007-01-17 08:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by atinanoskcirenosrebor 1 in Singles & Dating

about him and gf's sex life? what does this mean?

2007-01-17 08:44:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does/Did anybody like(d) High School?
Sorry random
okay so just answer that and tell me something intresting

2007-01-17 08:44:28 · 24 answers · asked by Wanna_b_with_u...<3 ~KALA 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

have pictures of your husband on my space?.im thinking about it.

2007-01-17 08:44:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Alway keep you coming back for more???

2007-01-17 08:42:45 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So the guy I like figured out that I like him. He didn't get freaked out that I like him, he is still talking normaly to me, and he has told his friends that I like him. Could he like me? Does he believe me? What does this mean?

2007-01-17 08:42:24 · 10 answers · asked by Romeoashg 2 in Singles & Dating

I think about the same, but people have different opinions.

2007-01-17 08:42:04 · 11 answers · asked by itsyouandmebb 2 in Singles & Dating

She doesnt value me, she just doesnt trust me, I have never done anything to hurt her, actually I was always there for here, I was always caring for her (now I know this was a way of abuse from her), she is judgamental, controlling, and cruel towards me.
I am about to have a daughter. She is happy about the baby, but she never asks about me, she asks about my husband, and how much I am caring for him, but she never asks if he is caring for me.
My relationship with her affected my self-esteem, I am feeling so insecure about my capabilites, about being a mom.
I am going to therapy to get better, but it hurts me I have to deal with a situaiton like this, I wish I could call mom and ask her for guidance, to get support from her, to know that she enjoys knowing what is going on in my life, to be happy to see her each Christmas, to be happy to buy her mother day's gifts, but she is so distant and cold that I feel anger and resntment towards her.

2007-01-17 08:41:21 · 12 answers · asked by Alejandra 1 in Family

We had our baby on12/25/06 and since she doesn't talk to me at all I don't know why I'm going to court.

2007-01-17 08:41:16 · 20 answers · asked by PR 4 in Marriage & Divorce

after being stood up on a reconciling date, my GF text me two days later to wish me a good lunch. at 11pm she text me asking me if I was asleep... I didnt answer it... havent heard from her in 3 days... is she a princess or what?

2007-01-17 08:39:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean we get along well and there is great chemistry . but sometimes i feel that we dont connect as in its like we know each other too well i love him but at times i feel that we dont have a future i am very ambitious and focused and he is a bit laid back in life we are both in the film industry and this attitude is not good . i am very hardworking and he dosent believe in hardwork just because he is goodlooking at times he fails to understand me what do i do is this just a pasing phase or a genuine problem

2007-01-17 08:39:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we broke up officially a couple days ago, because he couldn't be with me anymore because we argued all the time about nothing and i would always complain how he never treated me like a girlfriend. for the past couple days i've been calling him and just crying and telling him how i want him back, even though i've been finding out recently that he's been hanging out with a few girls lately, (who by the way are noted to be 15 and 17 .. he's 20 but he's still in high school and i'm at college about an hour away but this happened over winter break) but we've been dating for about 2 years and he was my first. i never thought i'd take this so hard so i either need to get over him the right way or get him back. help?!

2007-01-17 08:39:19 · 23 answers · asked by elaina jay 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband works long hours and I have just started a job taking care of children. I clean our house, do the dish, make dinner,wash clothes and make sure the bills are paid on time. He comes home and he takes his shoes off and goes to the kitchen eats and lays on the sofa and watches TV. I have to stay on him about the things like PICKING UP AFTER HIMSELF,taking a shower after work.,taking the trash out,leaving the dishes out and letting the food sitting all night long and then he puts it up in the morning and sometimes he doesn't do that. We have a 13 month old daughter, After I had my daughter I went back to work and school. I would get up at 5 in the morning get dress, get my daughter ready to take her to daycare,leave drop her off and go to school and after school work. I get so tired that I ended up sick.I Drop out of school quit my job and started to stay home with my daughter. And to this day I get no help what so ever. I have tried talks but they led to fights. Please help me!

2007-01-17 08:39:10 · 11 answers · asked by amanda_malusa80 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i like this girl at my school she is 3 years older then me and she is my best friends sister i really really like her but i dont want to say nything or like her for the reasons that she is 3 years older and my best friends sis what should i do?

2007-01-17 08:38:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when your doing it, what would you love for a female to do the most?

2007-01-17 08:38:37 · 17 answers · asked by Nikki C 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and me have been dating for 4 months and now hes gone he said he will be back like in 7 months he left to puertorico and yes we are still going out like LONG DISTANCE and he calls me like sometimes and i've been hearing rumors that he has another girlfriend overthere and i really dont know wat 2 tell him i really like him alot and he told me to wait 4 him but i really dont know wat 2 do like should i belive that he doesnt have a girlfriend or should i just breakup with him?

2007-01-17 08:38:00 · 7 answers · asked by vannesa 1 in Singles & Dating

We had to go outside for a school project today and it was freezing. I was really cold and this really annoying kid who always tries to flirt with me was like, "Do you want my sweatshirt." Because it is so freezing, I have no choice but to nod and move towards him. He draped his sweatshirt around my shoulder and sort of moved close to me and hugged me for the whole time. I didn't object because of the cold weather, but inside I was kind of disgusted by this guy who is a total slimeball. As soon as I got inside I just said thanks and then said that I still don't like him and that I accepted his sweatshirt only because I had to. Later that day someone said that he was crying in the bathroom and he was supposed to be this really tough guy. Was I too hard on him and should I apologize.

2007-01-17 08:37:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i really like this guy and he asked me out and i said yes but even though i've had several boyfriends before my parents have all of a sudden decided that i can't date until i'm 16...i've tried to tell them how i feel but they just aren't getting it...what should i do?

2007-01-17 08:36:48 · 30 answers · asked by ♥chloe♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 08:35:38 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are a very small staff team working in care. One of our colllegues continuously takes sick leave and then returns when her wages are stopped after 16 weeks (company policy). She constantly moans about our manager, the company and anybody else she can think of. Everybody is wrong, she takes all direction as a personal insult and is dragging everybody down. She refuses to help staff when needed at other homes as she does not want to travel which means other staff are stretched to their limits and yet we have all done it for her. Staff are becoming demoralised and even our manager who is very laid back usually is getting stressed because our colleague cries when asked to do something she does not want to do and then accuses the manager or us of putting pressure on her! She gets paid £9 an hour for doing virtually nothing. We have tried sympathising, befriending and encouraging her but if our tone of voice belies our exacperation she tells others that she is going to complain.

2007-01-17 08:35:29 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships