is my girlfriend cheating on me?

Question

dont trust her, she never tells me anything

Answer 1

Signs of a Cheating Girlfriend

The first sign of infidelity by a girlfriend in a relationship is her general disinterest in anything that the two enjoyed doing together previously. Sometimes this disinterest is blatant. For example, if a couple watches a movie together, and afterwards she can’t remember anything about the movie, then she might be deeply distracted by something. This disinterest then might graduate into a series of unexplained cancellations of plans.

Another sign of infidelity is an inexplicable display of guilt. One way in which guilt manifests itself is avoidance of the person who the guilty party feels is being hurt by her actions. The cheating girlfriend is therefore prone to generally avoiding the injured party – either by not taking calls or by not meeting for that ride or walk the couple used to like so much. Guilt can also cause pre-existing levels of intimacy to plummet.

Of course, there are countless other signs of a new lover: a sudden increase in her monthly expenses and car mileage; a splurge on cosmetics and clothes; a chronically non-reachable cell phone; an increase in overtime at her job without the accompanying increase in her paycheck, and so on. Also, if you notice a sudden increase in the number of her distant cousins, friends, ex-classmates, college friends, and so on, beware: she might be cheating.

Girlfriends having an affair have to be extremely well organized; their schedules are therefore punctiliously maintained. An affair is just an extension of a girl’s daily life: she has to find time for the accomplice between family, work, social life, and the injured party. Keeping a big secret is a very tiresome job, and only the coolest, most calculating people can actually keep such a secret. If your girlfriend is not very resourceful and she is keeping a secret, she will probably falter somewhere and maybe blurt it out to you herself.

Answer 2

Omg just because she dosent tell you anything dosent mean she is cheating on you! Wow you cant just jump to conclusions! Ok listen it sounds to me like your really nosey! And yeah a lot of girls dont like to tell people everything! I mean it not like she is avoiding you and makes up excuses! Those are the signs you want to keep an eye on! Ok so dont freak out! And by the way relationships are all about trust! So if you dont have trust in a relationship maybe you shouldnt be in a relationship!

Answer 3

There's more than one reason why someone keep secrets. Sometimes it's just really personal, sometimes it's fear, insecurity, guilt, fulfillment, trust issues, or maybe secretive is part of the personality, etc. If you want to know, confront your girlfriend and confirm your suspicion?

Answer 4

well, do you ever ask her what she is been doing? Where she went to the other night, what she did last week? Maybe you gave her the feeling that you are not interested in what she did during the time she didn't see you, so she stopped telling you and is now waiting that you show some interest...

Answer 5

That is something you're going to ask her. Just because YOU don't trust her doesn't mean she is. It simply means that YOU have issues with trusting other people.

Answer 6

does she talk a lot to friends, does she answers ur questions with a question,? if she doesnt ,she just probably is not a talker or maybe she's shy or doesnt trusts u

Answer 7

Get a cool enough friend to check it out. I would. She would see you. Find a guy who will check on her and look disinterested
doing it. She might be if you sense it. Good Luck!! @8-)

Answer 8

It sounds like it but look through her phone for guys calling or try to kiss her or something if she refuses then you gotit

Answer 9

Is she the only girl in the area you live? Try to stalk behind her or ask her. It is up to you!!!

Answer 10

Just say, if you're not going to tell me the truth than its over....