My boyfriend and me have been dating for 4 months and now hes gone he said he will be back like in 7 months he left to puertorico and yes we are still going out like LONG DISTANCE and he calls me like sometimes and i've been hearing rumors that he has another girlfriend overthere and i really dont know wat 2 tell him i really like him alot and he told me to wait 4 him but i really dont know wat 2 do like should i belive that he doesnt have a girlfriend or should i just breakup with him?
2007-01-17 08:38:00 · 7 answers · asked by vannesa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think you should talk with him, if he says no believe him, he has a past of lying to you
2007-01-17 08:42:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well cookie, if you're going out with someone that long, you should be able to trust him. Who are these rumors coming from? What are there motives? In a long distance relationship trust has to be the main thing. If you like him not love him than all you're doing is wasting your time anyway. Like fades away and the moment you meet someone who is near you and there for you, you'll start liking them. Same goes for him. Ask him head on...if he loves you and ask yourself if you love him.....if you don't break up with him. The relationship is going no where. That way you can move on, and start seeing someone who can treat you and care for you the way you need to be treated. Confront him head on about that whole other girlfriend thing. You shouldn't have to think that. Everyday he should be calling you to tell you something...he should be talking to you every chance he gets that way you know that he's not doing something else because he's talking to you. Good luck sweetie with whatever you decide.
2007-01-17 16:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who do you know in Peurto Ricco and how do they know your boyfriend is cheating on you with someone while he's over there? You shouldn't always believe what people say, so tell them to take some pictures of him with another girl or something before you accuse him of being unfaithful to you. Good luck, long distance relationships are difficult but they are possible if both people are committed to each other.
2007-01-17 16:43:46 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him. You deserve to have fun and be in a relationship that is right here right now, not worrying about one that barely exists. If you have to ask the question, then you obviously feel like you can't trust him. Be free and have some fun.
2007-01-17 16:43:22 · answer #4 · answered by Smilingcheek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
R U nuts??? Break up with him. Try again when he gets back. Make sure you do your own thing while he's gone though, so you won't be so hurt when he gets back. Even better, go out with as many people as possible and take lots of pictures.
2007-01-17 16:42:08 · answer #5 · answered by nyckib 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
firstly where have u heard these rumours, from a friends friends cousin or something ? If you like this boy and your sure he likes you then just trust him! don't accuse unless you have enough evidence, like him never calling you, or not anwsering your calls for ages or his mum telling u he has someone else. just relax, u might lose him if you accuse him of something he has never done!
2007-01-17 16:44:50 · answer #6 · answered by sherry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't trust him 100% there is no way that it will work. also you need to take into consideration who is telling you these rumors. Can you trust the people who are telling you that he has another gf in puerto rico.
2007-01-17 16:44:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋