We dated for over a year and a half and moved in together. It started getting kinda hard when he was talking and emailing girls, even though they were "jokes". I have caught him in lies before. New Years Eve he got upset with me and just didn't come home, without calling or anything. I was so worried, and that is what basically ended our relationship. He says he is confused and just needs time right now, but I feel like I can't live without him. I moved here to be with him and it breaks my heart being in our apartment alone while he is living in the same city as me. I want to know what I can do to make him realize that what we had was great. I know there are a lot of things that I need to work on as well....i just want him back and to be with him again. I LOVE HIM SOOOO MUCH, I know he was the one for me! Please help me!!! Thanks for the words of wisdom!
2007-01-17 08:48:12 · 2 answers · asked by Lindsay U 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't accept him till he begs on his knees!! where did your self-respect go? couples have problems but if a man says that "he is confused and just needs time right now" ..this must be hurting you! i mean i am sure you deserve better.. if he doesn't realize that what you had was great by "himself" you can never make him!! just wait ..don't disgrace yourself..and when he comes back don't jump on him..
2007-01-17 09:13:58 · answer #1 · answered by rseny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some time.
you can t make people stay in your life.
take this time to heal and move forward without fear.
who knows what you ll discover life is to short to focus on someone who doesn t want to be here.
You deserve only the Best.
SMILE.
2007-01-17 09:26:42 · answer #2 · answered by questions 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋