Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

So have been having a casual relationship with an older fella-he's 24 and i'm 18..things have started to get serious between us lately and I think he wants someone other than his brother and my friend to know bout us...I really like him and the whole age thing isnt an issue with me but I know it will be for my family if they find out...thing is I've kinda fallen for this guy and don't want to lose him whose feeling should i put first his or my families?plz help...

2007-01-17 09:07:54 · 11 answers · asked by im-a-quiet-girl-really 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i like alot of girls and i mean alot... but i wanna know who is bi or lesbian.... and who is just straight... and i was wondering if any1 knew how to tell if a girl is bi or lesbian... and i also wanna know how to turn a girl bi or lesbian if they r straight.... thanx!

2007-01-17 09:06:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, for the past two days I have been going into another teacher's class to work on a project. These two guys who I don't know very well keep prodding, poking, and throwing paper at me. They have even started touching me and squeezing my sides and stuff. I have asked them to stop, but they don't! The teacher gets angry at me I I talk, but he has no problem if they do. Can anybody help?

2007-01-17 09:06:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm looking for a nice reception site (possibly a place that would be nice to hold the wedding at too) in Whittier, CA. Over 100guests, want something with a nice view and working on a budget. If any of you know of a place I'd appreciate it. Or if you have any feedback on places to avoid let me know!

2007-01-17 09:06:19 · 4 answers · asked by Kati B 3 in Weddings

How could i make my mom and dad feel special????????
Or make them a personalised gift????
any ideas???

2007-01-17 09:06:09 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

So I like this guy whos turning 18 in August.. and I will be turning 15 a couple days after.. and he keeps saying he likes me but the age kills it.. Everyone I ask says age shouldn't matter if you really like someone.. And my cousin went out with someone who was 15 when he was 18 and they have been together for 3 years.. So, I don't think it really matters.. :/ but what do you think?

2007-01-17 09:05:58 · 10 answers · asked by pagexomichelle 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friends' boyfriends' bestfriend [ I know, that's confusing =)]
told me this " have your friend and her boyfriend hang out with his friends today, because I don't want him to get whipped"

what does that mean?

2007-01-17 09:05:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anna =] 3 in Singles & Dating

A few weeks ago I was doing the laundry and whilst I was at it I couldnt resist putting on my girlfriends underwear. Just for a joke. But then I realised that they were really comfortable.One thing led to another and every time I would do the laundry I would wear her underwear. It got to the stage where I was doing the ironing with a full rig out on. Stockings, suspender belt and even a bra. I just liked the feeling.

Anyway last week she came home and caught me. I thought she would go nuts but surprisingly she said that it really turned her on. We've had sex a few times with me dressed up in my favourite bra and underwearset. I even squeezed into a corset once.

But now she's not interested in sex unless I go through this whole game with her. Worst of all when we have sex she keeps calling me Betty.

The last straw was recently when she produced a Dildo and tried to put it in me. How do I tell her I don't want to do this anymore

I feel so dirty.

2007-01-17 09:05:54 · 6 answers · asked by citrusbingbong 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mind got a divorce and has joint custody of their kids; his ex-wife does not like his new girlfriend and has threatened to file a restraining order? There is no abuse of any kind from the father or his girlfriend. The ex-wife is also bad-mouthing the father in front of the kids. Does the ex-wife that the right to file a restraining order?

2007-01-17 09:05:52 · 10 answers · asked by wildflower101_71270 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married next month and want a unique way for guests to write their well wishes. I thought about the signature mat frame, but that seems somewhat over done now. I think the traditional book is boring since I doubt we'll ever open it up and read it at anytime in the future. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated - thanks! :D

2007-01-17 09:05:31 · 21 answers · asked by MissNowMrs. 1 in Weddings

Hubby is always a good guy with pure heart from my eye, he hasn't been as interested in sex as before in the recent years and I took it for granted that he must have been focused on work since he looked very busy all the time. In the past several months we started trying to conceive but have gotten no luck yet. Everytime I ended up with painful menses and he appeared to be very concerned by doing all the housework to let me rest well. I felt so lucky to have married such a good guy with a caring and kind heart. But yesterday I happened to find he visted some porn sites when I was in severe menstrual pain. How come a man who looks pure and kind actually has such a dirty heart? I don't feel like sleeping in the same bed with him any more and I feel so disappointed and he's no longer as perfect as before in my eyes. I'm afraid he would mistaken me as a porn star of his dream when we are on the same bed! I don't want to conceive a baby of a man with such nasty and dirty mind!!!!!!

2007-01-17 09:05:28 · 18 answers · asked by dancingsnow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

head board or no head board?

Do we lie there in the sweet adult mess of the moment or go running for rags to clean up and get us both all civilized again?

2007-01-17 09:05:06 · 19 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 09:04:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughters friend and her family has lost everything they have to a house fire. They have 3 children. We want to help them. Could someone who's been through this help us know what is some of the things that they need most right now! They are at their aunt's home and we are three hours away, so we don't know for sure how to help.

2007-01-17 09:04:52 · 4 answers · asked by Mamawbev 1 in Friends

I am with a wonderful woman for bout a year now. We didn't plan exact date for marriage, might take a few years due to finnancial probs...:( Now, we live together and we kept strong till' now keeping our purity. We have a small 1 bedroom place and we have to sleep in the same bed. Sometimes I get ashamed of myself when I feel i get excited and try to go to the bathroom or so something... Is there any plan with which U can rule out any sexual thoughts or desires out of your mind. I try to think of her as my sister sometimes, although I was the only child and it does work ocassionally. This really means a lot to us, we both want to do our best in keeping clean&pure...

2007-01-17 09:04:32 · 6 answers · asked by Ella F 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 09:04:12 · 3 answers · asked by Smart Blonde! 2 in Friends

How little sex would you put up with? I saw the question how many times do married people have sex, and 2 answers said once and twice a month. To me, this is unacceptable. 26 times a year???? Yeah right!!! I'm going to fool around on my bf of 5 years because he NEVER wants sex, and when he does, the focus is all on him, like he's the one who's been waiting weeks to get laid, and only lasts maybe 2 minutes, plus it's so small I can get the entire thing in my mouth and not gag. Why the hell should I put up with this? I've told him how I feel. I've tried introducing new and sexy things. I've tried perfume, dressing sexy, tried seducing him, but he ALWAYS turns me down! I won't try anymore because it's ruining my self-esteem to constantly be rejected. He's invincible, like most men, and would never admit to erectile difficulties if you held a gun to his head. And do you think it's fair if I get it elsewhere? He's had a million chances, but would rather sleep, I'm tired of figuring him out.

2007-01-17 09:04:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

50%of marriages now a days end in divorce.(ALOT over stupid things)But 50 years ago the same things happened but women RARELY divorced even if it was waranted(i.e.abuse or adultry)Which got me thinking was our grandmothers stronger or stupider then we are?

2007-01-17 09:03:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 09:03:48 · 25 answers · asked by starryeyed 6 in Weddings

what is one thing that your boyfriend/girlfriend does that annoys the crap out of you?

2007-01-17 09:03:38 · 11 answers · asked by me 5 in Singles & Dating

Im Planning and all girls trip to vegas and one of my freind has a baby and she insist on going and no one wants her to bring the baby. She doesnt even want to get a babysitter for 7 Days. How do i tell her its not a good idea to go???

2007-01-17 09:02:35 · 11 answers · asked by Oh Boy!! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys!!! Deffinetly NOT my type of subject. This guy will look at me ALL the time but he wont come up and talk to me he`ll just kinda stare.....I liked him ever since the first day but I dont know if he likes me back. Its really confusing and I just cant figure it out...I think he thinks I dont like him alot is that the problem or what?
I cant tell.......please help and no abusive answers please.

2007-01-17 09:02:10 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm still pretty young and i really like my boyfriend and think we're ready to kiss but i was woundering when other peoples first kisses were

2007-01-17 09:02:02 · 18 answers · asked by angelalicia 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for 6 years, and together with with him for 4 years before that. We have 2 beautiful children, ages 5 and 3. The problem is that I have fallen out of love with my husband. He annoys me just being around me. When I look at him, there is nothing there. I feel no desire for him at all. When we do have sex, I give in just to shut him up. I dont know what to do. I love him, and always will for giving me my children, but I am not IN love with him. I think we need a separation, but I dont know how to break it to him. HELP!!!

2007-01-17 09:01:52 · 24 answers · asked by quintsheart 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do you folks just say the fella I dated , or the gal I was involved with instead of "my ex"-- You were not ever married to these people. I realize I am older than dirt but why refer tosomeone as the ex if you were not married to them?

2007-01-17 09:01:11 · 25 answers · asked by nickle 5 in Marriage & Divorce

The last time I checked I still had balls, so I refused. She aint happy. Should I give in and wash them or stick to my guns. is it worth the hastle. You know how women are, this is just ammo for a future argument. Oh and I still havn't even touched the iron, If I give in now she might as me to iron, all be it she would have to train me first.

2007-01-17 09:01:00 · 65 answers · asked by Halox 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 09:00:43 · 7 answers · asked by calliegirl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a friend is distrought after being told by his gf while sleeping together that she has no sexual appetite.. what is a guy to do ? and what should I advise my friend?

2007-01-17 09:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im feeling this guy where I work but I have never talked to him. He is really attractive and I want talk to him but I don’t know what to say. Dose anyone have any suggestions on how I would go about starting a conversation with him?

2007-01-17 09:00:19 · 4 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

Like SERIOUSLY, why do people get married? It's such a waste of time. I read on an article that 95% of all people who get marrried, get divorced.

Why can't women just be single? Why do women need to let men force them to get married and take over there life? I dont understand why so many women choose to get married.

2007-01-17 08:59:50 · 32 answers · asked by Alyssa 1 in Marriage & Divorce