a friend is distrought after being told by his gf while sleeping together that she has no sexual appetite.. what is a guy to do ? and what should I advise my friend?
2007-01-17 09:00:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it could have to do with stress, it could have to do with just general interest in sex, it could be due to depression...there are lots of causes but they better start talking this out if they expect to stay together for very long. some girls just really arn't into sex also so it now becomes HIS choice whether he can deal with that or not. this may also be a sign that she's just not as into him as he is her.
2007-01-17 09:07:01 · answer #1 · answered by kestrelk8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-17 09:09:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend not to take it personally. That is the girls problem, not his. Then tell him to make some suggestions to other things to try to maybe entice her sexual appetite that might help her to like it more. Some people just don't have high amounts of sexual hormones and that's why they don't desire it as much. He might want to ask her detailed questions like why she feels this way because that will also help with finding the solution to the problem with her. That is, if that is his only partner. If they're not that serious about one another then just tell him to find someone who does like doing that kind of stuff.
2007-01-17 09:16:14 · answer #3 · answered by airtightreality 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's totally normal. He has sex on the brain 24/7, but most girls can't be bothered with it until they've grown up. The lack of finesse on the bf's part is part of it, and the fact that sex doesn't rule women the way it rules men, and she won't hit her sexual peak until her thirties. I know a lot of women, ,myself included, who merely put up with nightly advances from their man, why do you think so many women fake orgasms or say they have a headache? Because their guy sucks bad in bed, and she doesn't want to hurt his feelings. Tell your friend to lay off of her, and let her come to him, too bad if he has to wait six months. It's either that or have sex knowing she really doesn't want to and is just letting him cause he won't shut up about it.
2007-01-17 09:09:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe she wasnt turned on at that time. u need to do things to turn girls on! put on some romantic music, do something maybe ur friends gf needs an extra pushh...!!
2007-01-17 09:05:29 · answer #5 · answered by Daisy! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
... O.o. K.k.
This is a very odd question.
You're reported
2007-01-17 09:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try new things... is she on the pill if so switching pills may help.. good luck with that one!!
2007-01-17 09:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
run...run as fast as you can!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-17 09:04:58 · answer #8 · answered by samsbaseball 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋