Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

"i am madly in love with the guy of my dreams," as my best friend puts it. not a bad line, if you ask me
he's about a month younger than me in age, he's got a sparkling personality, he's tall, he's got green eyes, a flawless complexion, and I really really really love him for who he is, never mind his competely flawless looks.

However... He hardly knows that I exist. I'm the shy "emo" girl (no, i do not cause myself harm), and I get so scared to talk to him. My throat tightens up and my tongue refuses to work.

We have a school dance coming up, and I really want to dance with him. He loves to slow dance with girls. I know I hardly stand a chance. So... WHAT CAN I DO?!!? I'm going insane.

2007-01-17 08:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am starting to do my divorce papers off line. I'm curious though we still live together due to financial issues. In the papers it gives you options to serve a officer, which he wont open the door to. By me which my cause him to become violent. By mail I plan to move right before i serve him so for now i have that we live at the same address. which we do. Can I still mail the papers to him. That should still count right? Does anyone know.

2007-01-17 08:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by grrr... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a little bit longer than shoulder length brown hair, brown eyes, I'm 5'4, and I love music. What is your opinion? If you need proof, look at my 360! IM, email, or leave me a comment on my 360 if you want any more info.
♥

2007-01-17 08:33:44 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who's gay, I don't have a problem with that, I know I am not. Ever since my girlfriend broke up with me, he has started to act different. A common friend we have told me that he is actually obessed and really likes me. I want him to be a friend, nothing more. What do I do?

2007-01-17 08:33:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 08:33:10 · 13 answers · asked by Enchy 1 in Friends

my parents dont thnk i like girls and they wont let me date but if i tell them my siblings and parents would be all weird. they never even let me just go out with frends cuz i dont hav a cell. wat do i do?

2007-01-17 08:33:10 · 1 answers · asked by greg g 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 08:32:29 · 6 answers · asked by Monkie-mamma 1 in Family

My exbf and I split up over 2 years ago but I became close to his family. They are all wonderful people. My ex and I don't talk that much, but when I signed up for a messenger account, they asked permission to put my on their list. I haven't tried to talk because it's just all a little uncomfortable for me. I don't even know why they would want to hear from me since I'm not dating him. Is anyone still friends with an ex's family? How do you deal?

2007-01-17 08:32:20 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

today this boy and his friend were talking to me. The boy i likes is named D. I ask D why he is actin like that, his friend tells me it's cuz he likes me. D just smiles adn then his friend keeps tellin me this like four more times, D says nothing. he just smiles and looks at his friend and me.then D says gimme that poodanda.

Does he like me or was he just playin?

2007-01-17 08:32:17 · 12 answers · asked by Nehsa 1 in Singles & Dating

Listen and also do what you want them to do? No joke please....thank's

2007-01-17 08:31:49 · 10 answers · asked by redmouse 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex girlfriend agreed to go out to the movies with me. she knows that i have really strong feelings for her and want her back, we parted on bad terms an she apologized for the things that she did and we talk all the time just like before we wer going out, but i thouht it would just be me and her and i was hoping to just show her a good time but now she has told me she is bringing a friend, the girl she is bringing is my friend too, but how shall i act with my ex? wut do i do? this was supposed to be my chance to show her that i want her back. help please!!

2007-01-17 08:31:32 · 7 answers · asked by A Decent Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to do an act for my husband for our anniversary. I'm a thick woman sz22.

2007-01-17 08:31:32 · 6 answers · asked by MIn.Tia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you got really mad at your family because you did something that they didn't like...would you move out when you are able to...

2007-01-17 08:31:22 · 7 answers · asked by babii gurl 1 in Family

2007-01-17 08:30:42 · 24 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

Been going out with her for 1 1/2 yrs. This has been bothering me for so long and sometimes I even got into argumetns becuase I think she doesnt care about me...and now im very curious. My Gf never complains, never/rarely gets mad, never/rarely asks where I go, who Im with, if I cant be with her its ok doesnt bother her. I know things do bother her she holds back and doesnt show it. She had a bad past. (afraid to do to much for her bf incase of gettin hurt i think) she does says im perfect nothing about me that she can complain about but i can even think of a few. Ithink she doesnt care bout me but she says she loves me. I duno what to think soemtimes. she lieks her space. We broke up b4 and she did cry and apologized and I have to admit she listens and trys to change lil things I dont like.
I know ..why is this a problem, the perfect girl who does get attached?? right?? but you think she cares

2007-01-17 08:30:21 · 15 answers · asked by crazz000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

like i've been pushed away. Our sex life has deteriated from a busy to a almost non-existant one, she is snappy with me pretty much all of the time and the lingerie i bought her for xmas is still sat in the gift wrapping.......everytime i try to talk to her about anything she says im moaning or having a go at her...which im not i genuinly love the girl to bits and she means the absolute world to me so do her kids.............advice please!!

2007-01-17 08:30:15 · 12 answers · asked by jedi22476 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

we were together for less than 5 months and after moving abroad we were in constant touch via email and sms...for a good healthy two years...but now since joinin college, due to heavy workload ewe are not in touch as before..she complained abt this many time and now doesnt bother....she mails me less often and texts have reduced dramatically.....i want someone to understand ma feeling and i kinda commited maself to her!!!! do u think i shud keep the relation wid her...or if i shud break up!! wat shud i tell her..she is very senstive and i dnt want to hurt her..plz take some of ur time and help me out..thanks

2007-01-17 08:29:47 · 19 answers · asked by rahulzdaboy 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I were going to make invatations to her B-day party. My other friend wanted to play in the snow with me. Since I had already agreed to do the invatations, I called that friend first and told her it would have to be quick, because I was going to the other friends house. She was totally fine with that and said ok because we had been spending a lot of time together already. When I called the other girl, she got all depressed and mad at me saying "I can't wait for you anymore, so let's not do anything." I was totally suprised so I just stuttered ok and hung up.

I feel really guilty, I need to know if it's my fault like I think it is.

2007-01-17 08:29:47 · 27 answers · asked by Allie 2 in Friends

this boy in my school keeps on asking my friend out over and over again. she said maybe then said no. then this boy asked me out!
what should i do?
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
help
HELP

2007-01-17 08:29:41 · 18 answers · asked by Kristen 1 in Friends

My husband was stationed in korea 2 years ago and the first 5 months he was great called all the time.After he went back he changed never could get ahold of him and always spent tons of money.I have a friend whos husband was over there with him and he told his wife that my husband was unfaithful with a GI woman soldier and a korean woman. I try to confront him and he walks away I said ok If you can not talk to me it is over he swears he did not but I know in my gut he did but have no physical proof. When someone brings up the word korea he will not look at me like he is hiding something.His Army buddies cover for him all the time like some sort of pac they take when they join the military. I tried to get him to go to a therapist or even take a lie detector test he is not open to anything. He tells me if it comes down to a lie detector test he is gone he said if I can not trust him then we are done. I even told him I want a divorce but nothing will get him to talk.What would someone do.

2007-01-17 08:29:09 · 26 answers · asked by Army wife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 08:28:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to do something crazy or really sexy I know do my hair and tell him, but those things arent creative enough, Please help me with any of your ideas on how to seduce a man that is seasoned?

2007-01-17 08:28:45 · 7 answers · asked by Miss Green 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm new to this school and I see this guy harrasing a girl so I decided to see what his deal was. Turns out he was wanted to do it with her and she wasn't gonna let him (she and I both wear abstinance rings). Anyway I told him he should leave her alone. He got mad and tried to punch me in the head, But I dodged and swung back. It layed him out and his two buddies jumped me, with a lot of effort I finally knocked them down. The question is, Is it fare that because I'm a new kid and they're jochs they get away with it and I get dettention til school is out?

2007-01-17 08:28:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Over the last few years I have grown close to my ex fiance's family. Recently we broke up due to his enabling of his ex-wife. I am having a very hard time dealing with this, even though I am the one who left. There is no use trying to patch things up, I have already given him three chances, it is bound to happen again. So do I talk to his family members about it, or let them come to conclusions on our break-up on their own. He won't tell them the real truth, the last thing he will ever admit to is enabling the same person he has been enabling for years. Any advise or suggestions will help.

2007-01-17 08:27:35 · 28 answers · asked by mixemup 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have liked this guy for 3 years on and off now and we've dated a couple of times, but now we're broken up and are just friends. People keep telling me that i should go out with him because we're so "cute." I like him, but I really don't wanna go out with him again. Can anyone tell me some ways, besides wallowing, to get over him?

2007-01-17 08:27:34 · 13 answers · asked by gally 1 in Singles & Dating

and i was wonderin'...if you pamper a cow would you get spoiled milk? wtf?

2007-01-17 08:27:27 · 10 answers · asked by MICHAEL G 2 in Singles & Dating

What are some of the best songs to get over your ex bf or to show that you have been hurt in the past?

2007-01-17 08:26:26 · 4 answers · asked by carolina gyrl 3 in Singles & Dating

my father is a very selfish person on earth the only thing he cares about is himself, he don't give a dame about his 4 kids, he is in his old ages and he drinks and smokes alot , and when ever he drinks he acts very stupid and dull, what hurts me the most, when he insults my poor mother, the only reason she is with him is because of her kids, she is always sad and can't do anything what she likes to do. he has no respect for her, and because of that I hate him so much, I don't even wanna see his face, and I want to tell him this but I'm scared that he might hit me. what shall I do, I love my mom,

2007-01-17 08:25:41 · 24 answers · asked by haime 1 in Family

My family currently resides in the Bay Area, Ca, and we are thinking about moving to a small town in the mid-atlantic area. Is Charlottesville a good place to be if only one parent is able to work (she's a nurse)? And how's the schools in the area? Are there any towns that are similar to C-ville but a slightly cheaper? ( I heard the cost of living in C-ville is pretty high.) I'll appreciate some opinions.

2007-01-17 08:25:12 · 3 answers · asked by Jaime 1 in Family

It's been 5 years since my divorce and just now I finally have the courage to get another car. They approved me with a high intrest rate but at least I got one. How do I get my exhusband to pay the debt that was order in our divorce and how do I get it off my credit report? I can't even get a checking account through my credit union because of this debt. How do I start to establish good credit again?

2007-01-17 08:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by faith m 2 in Marriage & Divorce