I have liked this guy for 3 years on and off now and we've dated a couple of times, but now we're broken up and are just friends. People keep telling me that i should go out with him because we're so "cute." I like him, but I really don't wanna go out with him again. Can anyone tell me some ways, besides wallowing, to get over him?
2007-01-17 08:27:34 · 13 answers · asked by gally 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
get you more boyfriends...you seem young so enjoy it...
2007-01-17 08:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by angelic1302 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that what other people tell you to do should not matter. Tell them "thank you for your opinion" and then decide on your own. Trust me, I had to learn this the hard way. Besides, you don't need to wallow. If you are just friends, don't worry about it. Relax and enjoy your friendship.
2007-01-17 08:35:52 · answer #2 · answered by kyishiafrazier 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell these other people with complete sincerity you know what you want and that the both of you aren't it, looking cute together has never been a reason to go out with someone, sound s like your old enough to think like this, if your "over him" then why do you keep "wallowing"?
2007-01-17 08:33:00 · answer #3 · answered by mohvictor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start dating again, more than one, get your self out their. Before you know it you will be so busy you won't have time to "wallow".
2007-01-17 08:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by 007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people encourage you to go out with him again tell them "No, thanks. Do you have any single friends that I can meet." It will shift the focus from you and the guy as a couple and possibly open up new opportunities. Good luck
2007-01-17 08:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't listen to what your friends or people tell you. If you truly don't want to date him again, just keep it that way. =) Be true to yourself. SOmeday, you'll find a way better guy that's worth your time.
2007-01-17 08:31:19 · answer #6 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go out on some random dates to get your mind off of him and to see that there are others out there.
2007-01-17 08:30:08 · answer #7 · answered by Rachael 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just want him because he's around, and your friends are pressuring you. Get out an meet new people, and he'll be a distant memory in moments.
2007-01-17 08:32:09 · answer #8 · answered by phoozles2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think of all the things that you like to do and start from there. Also try meeting other people, dont throw yourself on them, but try something different.
2007-01-17 08:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by strwberryshortcake_65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone newww! Go out and allow yourself to meet new guys, you'll forget about him when you find a guy cuter then him (:
2007-01-17 08:30:12 · answer #10 · answered by ashley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe try finding a new boy. eventually you will be able to look at him and think of him as just a friend.
2007-01-17 08:30:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋