My friend and I were going to make invatations to her B-day party. My other friend wanted to play in the snow with me. Since I had already agreed to do the invatations, I called that friend first and told her it would have to be quick, because I was going to the other friends house. She was totally fine with that and said ok because we had been spending a lot of time together already. When I called the other girl, she got all depressed and mad at me saying "I can't wait for you anymore, so let's not do anything." I was totally suprised so I just stuttered ok and hung up.
I feel really guilty, I need to know if it's my fault like I think it is.
2007-01-17 08:29:47 · 27 answers · asked by Allie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ok, some of you read wrong:
A. They both don't like each other, they got in a fight
B. I tried to hang out with the girl who wanted to play in the snow, but she got mad at me
2007-01-17 12:10:39 · update #1
You should have stuck to your original plans....bad call on your choice. But trust me, it will pass. She'll get over it.
2007-01-17 08:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by Poetic Jezebel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have just gone to your friends that you made the plans with in the first place. I know playing in the snow is fun, but a commitment is a commitment and you need to follow through. Your friend should have not been that upset. You should make it up to her by surprising her with invitations made just for her. Or, make her party a surprise party!! That would be so cool. Next time, invite the other friend to go play in the snow with yall and then go make the invitations or all hang out.
2007-01-17 16:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put your self to blame, you acted very mature and also as a good friend you tried to make time for both. It sounds like to me that both of your friends do not get along or else all three of you would've hung out, play in the snow and then did the invitations. Your friends that is having the party sounds like a spoiled inconsiderate friend. Goo-Luck
2007-01-17 16:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was not your fault. You should feel good that more than 1 friend is trying to spend time with you. If you told the second girl that wanted to play in the snow, that you had a prior engagement, and yet you were still willing to try to work it so you could spend that time with her, she was wrong to get mad at you.
2007-01-17 16:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am--bad-that is my initials BAD! But acutally why can't all of you done something together and enjoyed each others company. Maybe your friend could of had both of you help out with making the invitations then all of you go play in the snow. As with most disagreements, all three of you will be friends once again..just give it time.
2007-01-17 16:37:55 · answer #5 · answered by badwarden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she's prolly jealous. B/c she hasn't gotten to play with you cuz you're hanging out with that other girl a lot. you even said it yourself.
Why don't you make a special time that you can hang with her. Just you and her. Don't even bring up your other friend. That'll just make her even madder.
You could maybe stay over her house or she stays over your house for a long time. That way she catches up to the other girl and won't be jealous anymore.
2007-01-17 16:39:07 · answer #6 · answered by ☆ Sarah ☆ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its both U shouldn't have made other plans and she shouldn't have freaked out because U were going 2 be a little late Talk it over with her
2007-01-17 16:37:35 · answer #7 · answered by Holly H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well how hard was it to say to the girl i can play in the snow but i have to go to blah's house first. u didnt tell her u had a comitment u only told her yes. then u sprang it on her u had somewhere else to go.
2007-01-17 16:33:44 · answer #8 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your dorky little whiney friends fault. Tell her to F off, you don't need her! You have the other friend. Then go egg her house to make a point.
2007-01-17 16:33:11 · answer #9 · answered by Taco Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in a way no but yes...You should always make time for both friends not just one..But it's not you'r fault...she just probably got jealous. You should talk to her...
2007-01-17 16:36:40 · answer #10 · answered by lilangel_purple@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its not really bad because if you made a promise, you have to keep it and helping a frend is more important than jus hanging out with another frend...so maybe ur other frend should i to understand and think about it before she say anything...n i dnt think u should feel bad cuz u did the rite thing
2007-01-17 17:49:08 · answer #11 · answered by Kat 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋