Family & Relationships - 17 January 2007

high stressful job?

2007-01-17 08:05:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

on a cruise, me and this guy hung out the whole entire night talking and just hanging out. before we had even became really close, he had always made me promises which he always kept. towards the end of the night, we had only made out, and he ended up sleeping over. he also kept making sure we would hang out the next night. the next night my friend went looking for him to hang out. he was at the casino, and within 10 minutes he came to hang out with me. we hooked up and everything led to sex which is how i always wanted it to happen, in the moment. i was a virgin, but he was not. after sex, we went to the casino and then i left to go lay down. he said he would come to my room later, and i didn't expect that he would. well, sure enough, he came back to spend the night. the next night then he came looking for me, but he thought i was with another guy so we ended up not hanging out for the next two nights. we eventually met up again, and i cleared up the fact that i was not with any other guys. he even asked my best friend what the deal with me was. that whole night we hung out, me him and my best friend. he called me his girlfriend on the cruise, but only on the cruise because we live far away. he said if i lived where he did, we'd be together. that night we ended up having sex again which was even more amazing because he physically helped me and was really caring, and constantly asked me if i was alright. he told me to tell him when to stop, and told me to tell him if it really hurt a lot. he ended up sleeping over once again, and he even asked me to hang out the whole entire day the next day. the last night we hung out and then kissed on the lips goodbye. he continued talking to me after the cruise, and i happen to be going to college where he lives. at one point, i thought he was avoiding me so i wrote him a message saying if you don't want any part of me, don't write back, but he did. however, now it's been 3 months since we've talked, and he has a girlfriend now.

do you think he really liked me a lot?

2007-01-17 08:05:37 · 9 answers · asked by jennifer a 1 in Singles & Dating

they constantly hang out and are close friends

2007-01-17 08:05:37 · 7 answers · asked by XcindyX78 1 in Singles & Dating

Started out very strong. Then while adjusting to married life in the first year argued a lot over control, inlaws, money, kids and general disillusion over the person not being perfect. Then bitched to family and friends that the other isn’t treating them right and marriage is hard. Now after the storms trying to get back that loving feeling. Seems like a lot of damage has been done but then again not sure if it’s normal or not. Is it true the more passionate you are with someone, the more you will argue? Seems to be the case with me and my wife. We argue to the point where divorce seems almost a certainty then we come back with intense feelings of love. I’m hoping this will settle down during the next few years as we get used to each other (next month is our first anniversary). It’s just tough trying to go through the storms and not wonder “Did I make a mistake”? Anybody else go through this? If so, when does it end? Just need some encouragement from folks who have done and thought the same things but have come out on the other side. Basically I want to hear from the ones who had the balls to stick to their marriage commitment and not wuss out to divorce.

2007-01-17 08:04:51 · 11 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know what to do and I am so confused.
I do not know what the right decision is and why.
I have dated my bf for 6 years on and off.
Last year he dated a girl and would not come back to me. Finally he did and we moved in together.
Their relationship bothered me and eventually I found out she had been calling him and he gave her his new number.
I kicked him out and he had no where to go.
I feel like I should offer him a place to live, stay and come back because I should have handled the situation more like an adult.
We have bills together and need to worry about straightening that out.
I do not know if I want to be single, be with him, give him time and space or what.
I want to help him - maybe until he can find a place of his own.
What should I DO?

2007-01-17 08:04:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend who for no reason stoped talking to me. I have not done anything to him. When I say hi to him he pretends he did not see me. I want to talk to him but he wont let me. My family keeps on helping him out because he got in to a problem and he wont say anything to me. I feel bad because we have been friends for a long time I dont know what to do can u please help me.

2007-01-17 08:02:32 · 20 answers · asked by morenita12162 2 in Friends

life b like with out some one to talk to or have fun with??

2007-01-17 08:02:30 · 12 answers · asked by chris 3 in Friends

There is this guy at school that I really really like (not sure if he knows I like him), and he is so cute. But there is this girl that I've known since the third grade that has always been out to ruin my life. A couple of days ago, she asked my if I liked the boy I talked about. Not wanting to fib I said yes, and guess what happens the next day---SHE ASKS HIM OUT, AND HE SAYS YES!!! She has done this to everyone of my friends ever since I can remember. I don't kno what to do do now. I want to claw her eyes out, but I don't want him to think I'm crazy or something. What should I do??? Help me please :-(

2007-01-17 08:02:30 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to work from home part time but I am afraid of being scammed so i need something reliable. So any good ideas welcomed.

2007-01-17 08:02:05 · 1 answers · asked by coopchic 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Here is my situation...I have this girl who is a friend that I have known since high school and we were instant buds when we first met. Ever since high school we would always chill and do things on weekly basis. Lately though it seems that we are drifting apart and don't hang out as much. The only time we get together is when she needs a ride to work or gets stuck somewhere and needs a ride home. Other than that we can go a good 2-3 weeks without saying a word to each other. I think one of the reasons that we are drifting apart is that I'm in college now and she is still in high school because she got held back. The other part is we rarely talk or chat like we use to. I'm to the point now where I think it would be best just to end it. The problem with that is that I'm not sure how she feels about the friendship. I'm afraid that if end it and she does not feel the same way I do then I would have ended it for nothing. What is the best way to handle this without having a huge fallout

2007-01-17 08:01:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So a few girls and a few guys are saying mean things to this girl i know and think is amazing, i want to give her a shoulder to cry on etc but i dont know if this will make me her good friend (i am trying to get her to like me, and maybe trying to date her but she doesnt know this) and i dont bwant to get placed into the "too good of friends to go out with" list. so how should i help her put ewithout seeming too needy or clingy, i need to seem like im not always there so she will think about me and like me you know? my question is what should i say to her along the lines of "im here for you" without making her feel weird because i have only known her for a month and without being too friendly???? please help

2007-01-17 08:01:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think that there are too many weird people out there to make it successful. I don't know...what do you think??

2007-01-17 08:01:14 · 10 answers · asked by Obi-wan Kenobi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 08:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by z-j 1 in Family

ok i sked her to marry me and i went to her family asked them twice to marry me and she loves me like hell , but when they refused she didnt stand and say i love him and i want him in any way , its been month and we didnt talk or see her , i miss her so much i cant forget her i cant sleep .... i called her many times to stay with her in a relashionship but she refused ??!! so what do you say , i love her from 1 year and 2 months....

if you dont know she loves me like hell and i know she still , but why she refused to stay with me , and to let you know the first time they refused me her family she asked to stay with me with a strong will ... what can i do ? how can i kill my feelings i cant stand this situation anymore.....

2007-01-17 08:00:26 · 5 answers · asked by lord 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-17 08:00:20 · 30 answers · asked by Obi-wan Kenobi 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I always thought being "good sized" would be a good thing but the last few women i've been with have found it uncomfortable, even though I take my time and am never rough.

2007-01-17 08:00:14 · 23 answers · asked by kidd_poker32 1 in Singles & Dating

why do some women have a problem with men calling them 'sweetheart, darlin, flower, petal' etc? and would the men mind if we called it them?
(i personally dont mind)

2007-01-17 07:59:48 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 07:59:30 · 12 answers · asked by shyviolet 3 in Friends

we are on a very tight budget, (something under $800 bucks) and we are getting married the end of February. I am looking for some great ideas for a party after the wedding. some of his family and my family will be there, so that is about 15 people already confirmed they are arriving.... we live in San Diego.

2007-01-17 07:59:22 · 8 answers · asked by Foxtrot 2 in Weddings

There is this guy that I have liked since last year,but this year instead of ignoring me, he treats me like a friend. I really like him as a friend but I still like him more then that. Do you think that I should just look at him as a friend figure then a boyfriend?

2007-01-17 07:59:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-17 07:59:08 · 2 answers · asked by atecelly84 1 in Singles & Dating

my grandmother just died and i wont cry i miss her ALOT but i cant cry and im starting to feel sick... i need to cry

2007-01-17 07:59:03 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She yells when it's not nessesary. Shes been hurting me extensively when it comes to "fat meat is greasy". She's seen me trying to improve (grades)but, she takes it as if I don't care anymore.

2007-01-17 07:58:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

gave me her # on christmas eve at work, she has a baby, we've been talking almost every day

2007-01-17 07:58:25 · 5 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 07:58:12 · 19 answers · asked by kirst774 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-17 07:56:21 · 14 answers · asked by Manuscript Replica 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i just seperated im 23 i started seeing a 38 yo who was seperated at the time we started seeing each other but now her husband moved back in and she is feeling guilty about continueing she says she wants to but when we do she keeps changing her mind cause she doesnt know what will happen to her if her husband finds out and throws her out how can i reassure her or should i just let it go

2007-01-17 07:56:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

These people stomp and shout and argue day after day. Then they tell the landlord they don't yell at their kids! Today the landlord said they told her that they weren't even home that day that I complained! They were and I heard them, there was 2 of them home and then later on more.. The landlord told me to stop complaining, she wouldn't listen to anymore of it and it is frustrating for her!! What about me? She said that they told her that they lived in their last place for 10 years! I can't stop crying, maybe cause I'm pregnant, but it is hard to not be believed when you are being honest. And it is hard to be expected to live with other people screaming in your house for hours upon end on an almost daily basis.

I guess I have to start calling the police for domestic disturbance.. and now I am crying more at that thought, because I don't want to be that person that is the b-i-t-c-h-y person downstairs... what can I do?

2007-01-17 07:55:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I would like to be more of a gentlemen to my girlfriend, what do i do to accomplish this? I already hold doors open, ask her if he wants anything when i go out to eat with my friends, walk on the side closest to traffic, surprise her with random gifts, text when i wake up and call when I've gotten home safely. Ladies and Gentlemen what else could I do? Thanks in advance!

2007-01-17 07:55:22 · 18 answers · asked by jahjahbinks 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-17 07:55:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating